I'm sure there's been questions about Facebook game before, but I was wondering if anyone could help with my particular situation.

I hooked up with this girl a month ago. (See my field report: coed-10-years-my-junior-vt184989.html) Everything went great. She told me I was the best lay she ever had, even saying she wasn't good enough for me. Later that day, she even thanked me via Facebook.

Anyway, I have a chance to go visit her again in March. She lives close to a town where all the bigwigs and one low man (myself) from my company are going for a week. It will be easy for me to make a small side trip to go see her before meeting with the rest of the group.

Anyway, I wanted to surprise her and get her excited for my visit. I asked her via Facebook to tell me what her fantasy date would be like. Tell me in detail where she'd go and what she'd do. She responded she never thought of it before because no one has asked her. She said it had got her thinking, but she didn't know specifically what a perfect date would be like. She said as long as she could laugh and feel happy and comfortable, that would be a perfect date. I then told her the dates I would be in her town and told her I wanted to see her.

And... nothing. I was expecting an enthusiastic response given our previous encounters. Facebook gives a time stamp of when your message was seen. So I know she saw it several days ago.

What should I do? Should I prompt a response with something casual like, "Of course you don't have to commit to anything this far in advance"? Should I sit tight and wait for her to possibly reply? Or, since it will still be four months from now, should I wait until things get closer. I just don't want to book a nice hotel if there's no chance of seeing her.

Thanks in advance for your advice!

Thats just more proof that women don't know what they want until its put in front of their faces

I'm not even sure why you would think she had an answer to that question. Women don't care where they are or what they are doing as long as they are being filled with your love. Fantasy date? Okay big pimping.. How did she qualify for that? Because you banged her brains out and gave her the time of her life? What did she do for you huh ? lol

In all seriousness man, you have to learn to love and let go when need be. And if she isn't responding you just have to wait it out. Maybe she'll hit you up before you leave maybe not; but you don't want to push yourself onto someone else life. Let her be. I'm sure there will be a lot more girls whereveer it is you are going. And if you are half as skilled as your promise you should be scoring them with ease.

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Thanks, Eddie. I also think I have to just wait it out. I'll message her once more in a month or two before I do any hotel booking or anything like that. Based on my previous experience with this girl, I figured she'd get back to me with a "hell yeah!"

Well, I caved in and messaged her after waiting patiently for three days. I saw she was online, so I just said, "Hey, how you doing?" This prompted her to spend 15 minutes crafting a long message about her holiday plans then saying she meant to respond to me sooner, but she's not sure she can meet me because she can't spend two days nights away from home without her parents asking questions. She then said she'd think of something, however. I said she doesn't have to spend the night, we can just meet up. She said she definitely wants to see me and her messages were full of smiley faces. So all's well that ends well.

Don't try to make plans with a chick all the way in March. Hit her up closer to March but trying to set dates 4 months away is not the way.