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PostPosted: Thu Nov 20, 2014 7:06 am 
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 24, 2014 1:37 am 
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Reg - I'm feeling your pain man. I used to read a lot of pu material and did quite a bit of practicing. I just got out of a serious relationship so I'm about to get back into it and I'm going to add online this time. I'm far from good at it and I value the advice I get on this forum. But one thing that I did do, I studied a lot and I think I have a good grasp of the psychology behind it.

I see that you are having problems communicating with the guys giving you advice. They are giving you good tips, but you're asking for step-by-step advice. The reason you're not getting it is because you haven't done the research yet.

Start out by reading The Game. Then read some of the other material that was recommended to you. After you have finished The Game, you will have a better idea of why you can't do some the things that you're doing. Then you won't have to ask questions like: Why do I have to be witty? Why is it bad to immediately ask a girl out? Why can't I try to build comfort right away?

Read some basics and then come back.


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 26, 2014 3:33 pm 
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I think the aspect of online dating has been going downhill over the last few months. Part of it because I was too lazy and only send out 10-15 messages per week vs about 100 messages back then. Also women on sites seem to catch on to the whole PUA thing. That and lately, OKC and POF are swarmed with fake profiles from scammers and cam promoters.

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 27, 2014 4:52 am 
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I was in the camp that thinks online dating doesn't work...the reason it doesn't work is because you are being lazy or you won't settle for the less attractive girls.

Pictures are the key to success:
-for best results use a DSLR camera.
-look your best, clean cut, dress well.
-Action picture (playing a sport or doing an activity)
-Softer side picture or social(playing with your dog outside) most girls love dogs.

Taking good pictures is a lot of work but you will see the results after.


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 27, 2014 6:10 am 
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I was in the camp that thinks online dating doesn't work...the reason it doesn't work is because you are being lazy or you won't settle for the less attractive girls.

Pictures are the key to success:
-for best results use a DSLR camera.
-look your best, clean cut, dress well.
-Action picture (playing a sport or doing an activity)
-Softer side picture or social(playing with your dog outside) most girls love dogs.

Taking good pictures is a lot of work but you will see the results after.
Just like offline gaming it is all in how you present yourself. As in, if I went out in the flesh with a neutral vibe or a friends vibe or if I for some inexplicable reason tried to temper my 'state' once i acquired it from having interactions that build on themselves, the girls would reflect that back to me.

It is pretty crazy how much of a template this whole fucking thing really is online and off.


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 27, 2014 6:52 pm 
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In a sense, yes. However, online gaming slightly leans more towards physical traits. If you're good looking or have a nice body, you have the advantage and your game will be much easier vs someone who is not bc this guy will have to do a lot more to generate attraction. In real life, this difference isn't that much because you can quickly overcompensate for that with confidence, social status, kino and body languages within matter of minutes. This cannot be done online. You can't have a buddy or venue staffs jump in to DHV you. There is a limit to what your pictures can do.

Recently I conducted a quick experiment, I posted up two profile with pictures of my buddy who is a body builder. One profile was before he got ripped. One was after. Same exact profile description. Sent out exactly same message to about 100 women. The one having get ripped body - I was able to have them agreed to come over for bareback sex within 3-4 banters vs the one before he got ripped - that takes much longer and much more game - some won't agree to come over unless we're using condoms. On the ripped one, the girls complied to every demand I made while on the other one, they threw shit test after shit test.

In conclusion, if you're good looking or ripped, easy laid online, especially on Tinder. If you're not in that category, you can still be success, just much more work and time consuming. To me it's not worth it. So I'd rather do daygame to improve my overall social skills. Using my time more efficiently.

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 27, 2014 7:52 pm 
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In a sense, yes. However, online gaming slightly leans more towards physical traits. If you're good looking or have a nice body, you have the advantage and your game will be much easier vs someone who is not bc this guy will have to do a lot more to generate attraction. In real life, this difference isn't that much because you can quickly overcompensate for that with confidence, social status, kino and body languages within matter of minutes. This cannot be done online. You can't have a buddy or venue staffs jump in to DHV you. There is a limit to what your pictures can do.

Recently I conducted a quick experiment, I posted up two profile with pictures of my buddy who is a body builder. One profile was before he got ripped. One was after. Same exact profile description. Sent out exactly same message to about 100 women. The one having get ripped body - I was able to have them agreed to come over for bareback sex within 3-4 banters vs the one before he got ripped - that takes much longer and much more game - some won't agree to come over unless we're using condoms. On the ripped one, the girls complied to every demand I made while on the other one, they threw shit test after shit test.

In conclusion, if you're good looking or ripped, easy laid online, especially on Tinder. If you're not in that category, you can still be success, just much more work and time consuming. To me it's not worth it. So I'd rather do day game to improve my overall social skills. Using my time more efficiently.
This is true, I once photoshopped my face onto a male stripper's body. All of a sudden, girls were telling me how sexy my eye's were - despite that my picture with my same face an eye's got diddly responses from girls, I would have to stand out in the messages and charm my way for her to meet.

I too think I could get girl's to skip the dating and straight to my house for hanky panky with a big, ripped body.

I am not sure i'm ready to gym hardcore for 6 years for it though but I still do ok if I don't mind saying so myself.

RSD Jeffy's new online product is worth checking out. You're guarenteed to x2 your results with it.

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 29, 2014 6:51 am 
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This is true, I once photoshopped my face onto a male stripper's body. All of a sudden, girls were telling me how sexy my eye's were - despite that my picture with my same face an eye's got diddly responses from girls, I would have to stand out in the messages and charm my way for her to meet.

I too think I could get girl's to skip the dating and straight to my house for hanky panky with a big, ripped body.

I am not sure i'm ready to gym hardcore for 6 years for it though but I still do ok if I don't mind saying so myself.

RSD Jeffy's new online product is worth checking out. You're guarenteed to x2 your results with it.
Yea it's pretty bad. On some girls, I'm pretty much just said "raw or gtfo" and they still wanted to come over despite telling me they're not on the pills a few minutes earlier. So golden lesson here is always wrap it up. Women are so bad, they fuck raw all the time, especially the non-promiscuous ones. Slutty ones always have condoms at their place or in their purses. And yea his material sounds cool. Have you field tested any?

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