is interrupting a girl a big no no?



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bartm
PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2014 1:21 am 
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I think interrupting a girl while she is talking is an instant attraction killer. is that right? or sometimes interrupting is ok?

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2014 1:56 am 
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It's only a big no - no if the girl is a feminist, in which case she is undateable anyway. Focus on physically attractive feminine girls, not confrontational feminist dykes.

Sometimes interrupting is necessary to keep a stronger frame. Don't interrupt just for the sake of it though. Go with the flow. Sometimes letting the girl blab on and on about herself makes her more emotionally invested, so it really depends on the context.
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It's "a big yes yes" to be open to interrupting a time or two.....if you want to eventually have sex with the girl. Don't do it on purpose or just to be a douche, but yeah just within the natural context of conversation, for example you may end up never interrupting a particular girl, but don't be afraid to do so.
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It's not an attraction killer, It can actually be an attraction builder.

Likewise, if a girl says something that isn't funny don't laugh. If she says something boring then don't pretend to be interested. If she says something that you disagree with voice your opinion. You want to have the stronger frame of reality.

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so I read all 3 replies and all are saying interrupting is actually good. but I don't know if we mean the same thing by interrupt. I will make up a scenario

you: "why did you decide to get this breed of dog?"
her: "I just love them. when I was like 6 years old...."
you: "have you ever been to Africa?"

doesn't this make you look like a prick?

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so I read all 3 replies and all are saying interrupting is actually good. but I don't know if we mean the same thing by interrupt. I will make up a scenario

you: "why did you decide to get this breed of dog?"
her: "I just love them. when I was like 6 years old...."
you: "have you ever been to Africa?"

doesn't this make you look like a prick?
That's a bit douchey. It just has to come naturally from a dominant yet nondouche frame, not preplanned.

This isn't as bad:

you: "why did you decide to get this breed of dog?"
her: "I just love them. when I was like 6 years old...."
you: my buddy has this breed of dog. (said because that thought came to you and you felt like expressing it within the context of the conversation)

Just don't make a habit of constantly interrupting.
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