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so I read all 3 replies and all are saying interrupting is actually good. but I don't know if we mean the same thing by interrupt. I will make up a scenario
you: "why did you decide to get this breed of dog?"
her: "I just love them. when I was like 6 years old...."
you: "have you ever been to Africa?"
doesn't this make you look like a prick?
That's a bit douchey. It just has to come naturally from a dominant yet nondouche frame, not preplanned.
This isn't as bad:
you: "why did you decide to get this breed of dog?"
her: "I just love them. when I was like 6 years old...."
you: my buddy has this breed of dog. (said because that thought came to you and you felt like expressing it within the context of the conversation)
Just don't make a habit of constantly interrupting.