Okay so I don't really know how many women are actually on this website, but I'm facing a bit of a dilemma. I'm going to get straight to the point, basically my situation is getting a man to see me as a long term commitment. I have no trouble attracting men, and I have quite a flirtatious personality, and have been described as a bit cheeky (which i guess could be the problem?), but I don't want men to see me as just an easy target. I want to know how to initiate an emotional connection that could lead to a relationship, rather than someone trying to get into my pants.

advice would be greatly appreciated!

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In my opinion, girls who are in a more long term relationship are girls who don't give everything away.
When a guy hits on you in the club. Don't kiss him (especially french kiss), say he is nice and give him your number.
Give the guy little by little more sexuality, now you are a challenge for the dude.

How does a guy who doesn't even know you, know you're good for a long term relationship? Do you meet strange men and think "Gosh, I can picture myself engaged to this man"? Because if so, you've got other problems. Flights of fantasy being at the top.

The only guy who would meet you and think "Future wife right here!" is a dude you don't want.

How to get a man to commit? Be awesome. Most girls aren't worth staying with for long, because they aren't well developed people and get boring very fast.

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This is correct. And Versalis makes an excellent point --- we don't know you and can't tell you what you're doing right and what you're missing... And what makes it harder is that it's a moving target. The qualities I like in a woman are probably not the same as most of the other guys here.

I can tell you this: I've taken a grand total of 2 women home to my family - ever (and I'm mid-thirties). One of them I married (I'm divorced), and the other is the girl I'm with right now... For me (and I can speak for only me), the girl would have to be:

-Hot (though this is actually secondary for me)
-Smart, smarter than me - which isn't hard
-Sarcastic and witty
-Someone who can hear me use the word 'cunt' and not freak out
-Wants to hang out with my friends, wants me to hang out with her friends
-Awesome in bed
-Isn't a slob. Takes care of herself (doesn't have to be a marathon runner, but it's great if she's not Jabba The Hut)
-Is good to animals and likes dogs
-Can live without me for a few days

That list sounds cheesy, but it's actually true... When I'm just 'dating' or hooking up, this list is considerably smaller.

One other thing I *ALWAYS* do with anyone I'm looking to get into a relationship with, is get them shitfaced drunk one night while we're out having fun... and see what happens: Do they turn into flaming racists? Do they make out with half the bar? I look for red flags and disqualifiers.

This may or may not have been helpful - hopefully it was.

This is a lot simpler than women think it is and I am actually working on a article titled " Give Him Pussy Without Giving Him Pussy" in which I break it down.

I'll make this version short.

All a man really wants from a woman is a woman that know show to reflect his own power back to him. Men want to know that we have power. This is why guys so desperately want to have sex with women. Because not only does it feel good; but more so than the sensations, every time the woman moans or screams it is a signal to the man that he has power. He has the power to affect her in these ways.

Now a woman that knows how to moan and groan outside of the bedroom need not worry about a man trying to use her just for sex. Those are the women than men usually wait months on before they have sex with them. Because the woman is already fulfilling the things that sex would fulfill in the subconscious mind.

If you would like to get into a more detailed discussion about this. PM me.

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