We are both in college shes 20 and im 21. So it has been a month since the break up and it all started When my ex came back from her camping trip wih her orginization. The day she came back she was extremly happy to see me, nothing out of the ordinary... She told me she had to drop off some shirts at thes party they where having for everyone that went to camp.. She left at 9 and said she would only be there a hour, since shes not much of a partier. She came home at 2am, i ended up sending her home and told her i would talk to her tmmrw about it. Long story short our conversation didnt go so well, she said when she went home she thought of our whole relationship over the year and half and said she wanted a break, because she thought she was unappy threw it. I told her i didnt do breaks, so we might as well end it. She agreed and thats when i knew something was seriously wrong.

during the intial stages of the break up i acted like a complete pussy, you name it cried to her begged her etc.. I just didnt know what was really going on how someone that could love me soo much just leave me like that. She would always say i would never leave you blah blah etc... It wasnt until a week later that i had found out two days after the breakup she went to a baseball game with a guy from her camp. Thats when i realized that she left me for another person. I confronted her the next day and she admitted to me that she had feeling for this other person and that she wasnt happy with our relationship anymore. That broke my heart.

Fast forward a week and i talk to her again. I tell her that she means the world to me that i dont want any other girl out there, and i wanted to take the realtionship back to when we first started dating. she told me she loved me still but wanted to give this other guy a chance because she might regret it if she dosent. that they have so much in similar and blah blah blah. This perosn is almost the complete opposite of me, he told her that he waited to years for her and that he loved her the first week they were going out. His parents are super loaded so apart of me thinks shes a gold digger.I told her if thats what her heart feels like im okay with it. Luckly i went in for a kiss and ended up fucking her that night. she ended up crying though, and when i asked her why she said that she said that she thinks there offical and that it wasnt fair for her, i told her that its okay and that what shes doing to me isnt really fair to me.

After that night she went completely cold at me any attempt for me to talk to her where just dissmed and she didnt give a shit about me feelings. She was convied that she left me because she was unhappy and that she had found her soulmate. I ended up fed up with being treated like shit, so i told her new boyfriend that i fucked her that night and everything that happaned. I was on that fuck that bitch shit. He told me i was fucked up for it and she told me that she pittied me and im a monster blah blah blah.

Now where hear, i havent talked to her since that incident i talked to her friend receantly and let her now that i would never forgive her for what she did to me and what really happaned between us, because she tought i was asshole for what i did. There still togather and she told me thats shes happy.

I just wanted some advice its very hard to move on i loved her so much, i want to get her back but i dont know what to do.

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Sounds like she's moved on, and you'd made it easier for her in doing so by playing into it telling her bf that crap (she'll backwards rationalize her decision as being the right one). Once a woman loses her attraction to a guy it's over. It's not like guys who see their ex who still want to fuck her if they're physically attracted to her.

My advice move on and don't look back not even for a second.

Everyone has been there, maybe not the crying but for the most part, in your exact shoes. Take the advice from this forum and follow it to the T. Don't contact her any more, don't stalk her social media, stop confronting her about her new dude as its none of your business anymore. Move on, this relationship is over....would you really ever want her again after she broke up with you for someone else? It would never be the same. Even if you think it would be, its impossible to go back to the way things were. Drink heavily, fuck other girls, lift, hang with friends...but Don't CONtact her anymore!

I thought this story sounded awfully familiar.

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RSDTyler

WTF? This is the same goddamn story! You didn't get the responses you liked the first time, so you just reposted it hoping SOMEONE.... ANYONE.... would tell you what you want to hear?

You're nuts, buddy. Actually nuts.

Girl is going to get a restraining order on you.

Needy doesn't care about being sensible. He has oneites so severe, he will stop at nothing to fuck it up worse.

Women Hate Needy And Desperate Behavior

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

4 posts guys hes done 4 posts

ex-broke-up-with-me-for-another-guy-vt181084-30.html
my-ex-girlfriend-loves-me-but-is-with-s ... 80903.html
post861432.html#p861432

the story is also different in two of them from the other two. but starts and ends the same

Maybe he's trapped in some sort of reverse Groundhog Day.

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RSDTyler

Who cares how many times he's posting, it shows how much he is obsessing about this girl and how much advice he needs. To the original poster if you can you need to get out of town for a little while, take a trip, backpack, go back home, visit a friend....whatever it doesn't matter. Just get away from everything for a while and stop obsessing, certainly won't make it any better.

Like the above posters said, I think you want a response that will get your ex back. There is no magic line or text that you can send her to make her reconsider. She made her decision and picked someone else, the more you try to get her back the worse and less likely it will be that she will come back. It sounds counter intuitive but trust us, you can't talk her into coming back....

your trying to eat a hamburger right after having a buffet.

if you wait a day you can eat that hamburger