So this all happaned about a two ago.
My ex came back from a camping trip that she took with a program which helps kids deal with there paranets cancer. When she came back she was extremly happy to see me, nothing out of the ordinary... She had to drop off some shirts at these party they where having for everyone that went to camp.. She left at 9 and said she would only be there a hour, since shes not much of a partier. She came home at 2am, i ended up sending her home and told her i would talk to her tmmrw about it. Long story short our conversation didnt go so well, she said when she went home she thought of our whole relationship over the year and half and said she wanted a break, because she thought she was unappy threw it. I told her i think we should break up she agreed and now where here. the next day i poured my heart out told her i loved her and everything i saw us accomplishing togather and how i can me her happy she just dissmeissed it.

At first i didnt know why she was so unhappy i blamed myself, but then i found out that this guy she had feelings for at camp told her that he liked her at the party she went to.. She is seeing him now. So i gave her a few days just to think and have space to miss me.. I then initatied the conversaton again with her after debating to myself is this girl worth it, i know shes worth it... I told her i dont care what happaned and that i just wanted the truth, she told me she had feelings toward the new guy for a while and never acted on it.. I told her i didnt care and that i still wanted her in my life that she was making a mistake, and thats when she told me that she still is in love with me and that she miss me.. I ended up fucking her after our 3 hour walk/conversation in her back yard behind a shed that night, after we where done she started crying and told me that she dosent feel right about doing that, that she loved me but she wanted to give this other guy a chance since they have soo much in common. I told her that i didnt care about it and that if thats what made her happy im okay with her decsion, so i end up leaving and going home for the night.

I saw her the next day at this bar that was hosting the usa fifa game i go up and talk to her and she gives me the complete cold shoulder, tells me that she is seeing someone else and i should stop trying to hang out with her. I feel like she regrets having sex with me since it proved my point that she was only breaking up with me to be with someone else. I stopped talking to her until a few days ago... She had been doing stuff out of the ordinary to catch my attention she would do yoga outside her house when she new i was home, btw where neighboors KINDA OF SUCKS!!! But she had never done yoga before outside so i dont know if shes trying to make me jelouss when she already made up her mind or whats going on?? I talked to her yesterday she was watering our garden we built togather and asked her if she needed help.. she said yes, at first it was very causual and then she stated that she missed me and that she wanted to come over and ask if i could help her... She said she didnt because her roomate said you dont want to give him any ideas.. I told her if she miss me and if she still loves me why dosent she just come back to me, she said she loves this new guy to that they are offical and that he wants her to come down for the weekend to stay with him... I ignored her when she was talking about the guy and acted like it didnt bother me, i told her i still love her this is when we almost fucked again but this time she stopped me and said that it wasnt fair for him after 5 minutes of touching her.. I told her we can still have sex and she can still see him she tought of it for a bit reallly thought of it i can tell before she said no she couldnt she stated how i would feel if she did that when we where going out..she said that she can see a future with me right now she dosent know that this guys future is more like what see always wanted.. I talked to her a little more and ended up leaving on a good note now where here. I dont know whats going in her head, i think i need a pscatrist to figure her out.

I now she misses me and loves me but she wont come back.. We live right next to eachother so its painful to see her everday.. I dont want her to spend the weeked with that guy but i know she will shes very independent and strong hearted... Can anyone give me advice on what to do to get her back, i know theres 3 billion girls out there and i should forget about her for doing this to me, but i cant. i truley belive i foudn my soul mate there are small things that i abousoltuly love about her that i will not find anyplace else. I have been trying to get her back and no luck so whats the next move? I know she will realize shes making a mistake but i need her to wake up now. There where alot of small problems in our relationship but nothing ever to seroious. THis new guy is the complete opposite of me im more dominant hes more emoitional, he told her he loved her already, and even took her to meet his parents.. SO what do you guys think crazy right??

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Good luck with a response from any here. Paragraphs, bro. Wtf.

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shits confusing and a crazy story

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So? Put it in f*cking paragraphs.

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^ This repost in paragraphs.

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fuck okay i reposted it, can i get some help?

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Like I said to the other poster with a similar thread, let it go, accept that its over and move on.

I know your sad, but the more you remain attached to her the more damage you'll cause yourself. It's only holding you back in the end, clearly she's made her decision you now need to make yours. She can't be any clearer.

I'm not entirely sure why you'd make a big deal of her "overstaying" at a party. I mean seriously there is absolutely nothing worse than having a great time with your friends while knowing that once you're home you're gonna have to deal with some major ass drama.

Anyway, we've all been in your shoes at one point. And we know how it *seems* impossible to move on. But the sooner you do it the better you'll be off. The new guy is a rebound. She didn't madly fall in love with him over night, she was contemplating breaking up with you for a long time now. Him? He's just the opportunity she needed to make it easier on herself.

Also, the more you chase, the faster she'll run. Stop with all the "I still love you talk". Stop talking to her at all for that manner. Grab your best friend and go out every night if you have to. Get some numbers, talk to some girls. Bring one home and hate fuck her eyes out. Keep your mind busy. And yes, I know you "don't feel like it". I know it all feels counter-intuitive but that's because you're highly volatile and stuck up in your own head. Force yourself to do it.

Like I said, if you chase, she'll only run faster. So do the opposite. Take your own time and meet someone new yourself. Really nothing wrong can come out of that. Chances are you'll meet a great girl and have the time of your life. If not, at least you're making your ex rethink. Nothing gets an ex chasing more than seeing a girl walk out your door.


A good friend of mine gave me some golden advice when I went through this shit. He said: "The only way you can even hope for your girl to ever come back to you when she just left is to simply look her in the eye, smile and calmly say :"Cool. Need help packing your bags?"

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You're neighbors with this girl?

Start bringing other girls home! Fuck their brains out with the windows open so she can hear it.

Have raging parties with girls running around in bra's and panties in your front lawn.

Build a dirt bike ramp ontop of the "garden" you built together.

Fuck this girl, man. She's clearly over it... You should be already too.

Go fuck 10 other girls... See if you still miss her then.

I did well with women all of my life man. I was always the one to break up with them and I was always to one to get a new girlfriend shortly after.

And then I dated my next door neighbor; and I was the guy you are now about 8 years ago.

All I can tell you is.. Is that it doesn't work. I personally had to move, because its tough getting over someone when you know they are right next door.

PM bro.. I went through the exact same thing so I'll do my best to talk you through it.

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Hey thanks for the advice.. I cant let you know a little more about her if it helps.. She was not always my neighboor we were dating before she had moved in next door this summer. Now i know i should have never agreed to it.. I still love her alot and she has told me the same threw out this ordial, she also said she wanted to come talk to me neumorous times becasue she missed me but never did.. I dont want to let her go completely i just want her to come back to reality and relize shes making a mistake.

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That can only happen if you go cold, get out of your house, do whatever makes you happy and not focus on her. She will see then, and only then that she made a mistake. And if not.....mrs new pu$$y

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Well the only thing you can do to make her realise her 'mistake' is move on. Or at least act like you're moving on. When you see her, treat her like an old friend and if she still doesn't come back then, she won't ever.

Also, having been in a similar situation myself, I think you're a bit of a scumbag for attempting to get her to cheat when she's clearly not up for it.

I too have been in this exact situation while I was in college. I never gave a fuck about a girl until I met my neighbor and started dating her. Almost the exact same thing happened where she would say almost the exact same shit...she still loved me etc. but then she would be seeing another guy. It fucked with me the way its fucking with you, I would stay awake at night, would randomly show up to her place, sometimes when the other dude was there....I was pathetic.

Then she left for the summer and I moved to another place. I went complete no contact and when she returned for the summer, she literally tracked me down and told me she couldn't believe I didn't call her for the entire summer. I lived my life and moved on without her and it worked. She broke it off with the other dude and got back with me shortly thereafter.

My advice is to do what everyone else has already said. Stop telling her you love her, in fact, stop trying to talk to her altogether. If you randomly run into her keep the convo's short and make sure you end them. Let her see you having a good time and getting on with your life. Its hard but its the only way. Good Luck