I'd email her on Sunday and do some fluff talk along with talking about the thing on tuesday and whatever reason she wanted you to email her about it.

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Thanks a lot! Sounds like good advice!

Hey man, thanks a lot. It worked great. I gave her some fluff talk and talked about the thing. She already replied and said her weekend was good because I asked her. She asked me how my weekend was (so I guess she wants me to reply). Any suggestions? Why do you anwser so many peoples questions anyway? Do you get paid for it or something lol. Thanks a lot!

First I'd say tell her how your weekend was, she did ask, so be honest. Just remember to be positive and don't just be like, "Oh, I didn't do much, just sat around mostly." If you say that, she thinks you're boring, but if you say that you relaxed, got some work done and hung out with some friends or something, then she feels positively about. People always say that they didn't do anything, but generally it's bs and they just aren't thinking the stuff they do is worth note, but it is, even if it was just sleeping in, mowing the lawn and playing videogames with some friends, sounds better the other way.

As for why I answer people's questions, it's because people have questions and I seem to be able to help them, so why not, makes the world a better place. Oh, it's also not bad for building a good reputation for building a company on and making lots of money.

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Rye:

When you drop a C/F text to someone out of the blue, what are some things you say?

Hey! Everything went pretty well, except when we were leaving it was raining and very cold, so I didn't get to get her number. I'm still building comfort and I have her e-mail address. She also gave me and IOI right before I left. So, I guess I'm going to have to e-mail her again. What would you say to her? Another thing that happened was she was complaining about the fact that she had to wake up the next morning for school and I said "I'm good luck, we're not going to have school tomorrow," and we didn't (this is very rare). She also said at some point "Nobody e-mailed me today." (I took this as an IOI). Basically I just need a little guidance in what to say in the e-mail again.

I see how you do this to get a lot of connections. What kind of company do you want to start? I'm going to school for business if you have any questions let me know.

I recently inherited a bunch of money and also bought a new car... How can i use this to Dhv myself without looking to try-hard?

How much money did you inherit?

After i bought my Infinite G35 i still have 50k in the bank... and no, im not spending it on a chick, lol.

Need a few more details:

How old are you?
In school, or work?
What is your job/what classes are you taking (doesn't matter in highschool)?
Do you live at home, by yourself, or with roommates?
What clique would you lean towards if you had to pick one? Jock, nerd, prep, punk, unaffiliated, etc?

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Im 27, I have an office type job in the construction industry... I have a room mate. Im kind of like a chameleon... i can adapt to different people, so i never associated with an exact group, just kind of bounce around.

I was wondering if it would be helpful to incorporate my new car in some kind of story, but after reading a reply that jsmooth left me im going to take his advice and focus on myself and use the new car for dates, and not try to brag about it....

Any of your advice is still very welcomed, i love hearing multiple opinions especially from people who know what they are talking about.

Would this be a good time to introduce you to the concept of investing in a diversified stock portfolio?

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Dear Rye,

I'm going to a community type party tomorrow that will probably have some HB's. Problem is their parents will be there as well. Any advice on how to adapt my game to this little obstacle?

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Don't brag about the car in the presence of women, unless they are into cars. Don't brag about it a lot to guys, unless they are car guys and they are bragging about theirs, or really into yours, cause word WILL get around that you're in love with your car and think you're special because of it (not saying that's how you feel, but that's how people tend to feel about those people that always brag about their car). If on the other hand it is congruent with what you are talking about, then by all means mention it, why not, it's not an uncommon thing to talk about, just as long as you don't sit around waiting to mention your car in every conversation (again, I hyperbolize to make a point).

The money, again, I would bring up less than that, I would only bring it up if there was a good reason to, cause otherwise you attract gold diggers and people can use you if you make that stuff too public. Instead, I'd just buy myself a few shiny things that I was interested in and then do like Roads said and invest the rest.

Buy some sweet ass ties if you are a suit at work guy, cause a good tie is POWERFUL. Since I've gotten more into fashion, while watching Buffy the Vampire Slayer (fuck anyone who doesn't think this show is a cinematic masterpiece, whether it's a dramedy or not!) I took notice of how the character Giles, played by Anthony Stewart Head, always wore the most amazing ties and I found myself longing to have them. Women LOVE ties too. Notice how women are always grabbing guy's ties, well they do that for a reason, it's about as obviously phalic as you can wear out in the open, whether it affects them consciously, or unconsciously (hell I only just came to that realisation 2 minutes ago while writing this and I always knew chicks liked ties for all sorts of other reasons), while still remaining at face value, one of the few decorative things that a man can wear, plus it is just great for grabbing and pulling you in for a kiss, which they WILL do. Good ties can be expensive though, so being able to spend $120 on a tie would be nice and whenever you put on those amazing ties, you'll have this amazing energy and power.

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Run natural game, don't be asking them whether they floss before or after they brush and stuff that is obviously trying to get into their pants. Aside from that, befriend the parents if the kids like them, or if the girl doesn't like her parents, then show commonality with her on that, but while still being respectful, don't call her dad a "fucking idiot"....unless she voices the opinion first.

They're just obstacles, so work off of them, just like you would off of her UG4 friend and her bf that are protecting her from any guy that approaches. Build rapport, then isolate.

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Thanks for the advice... and about the money, yeah i need to learn what to do with it. Right now its just sitting in a cd account.