Basically gamed this girl for 3 months, where sleeping together decided not to be together, then finally she crumbles and she asked us to be together! Now we are going out and I dunno if I should keep doing what I was doing or now treat her a a gf? She goes out allot so I dunno how I should react when she says she's goin out without me? Any help?

I hate this shit and too many people believe Game and Relationships are essentially the same thing.

There is a distinct line between gaming and being in a relationship. They're totally separate from one another. You can't be aloof, have fuck all interest in the chick(Or convey that towards her) and play games designed to attract her when she's your girlfriend. Relationships require a lot more than simple attraction and interest. They require a bond, consideration and time together not to mention a certain amount of sacrifice.

The only thing you should carry over from gaming a girl into a relationship is your frame which should be second nature to you. That is to say when you game her you show higher value(You are of high value, or should be by default), you're fun and not easily phased. Don't change that but keep your morals, your expectations and how awesome you are, the crap she came and stayed for. Don't play jealousy games, don't entertain her jealousy games and realise that you need to have ground rules in a relationship.

For instance while gaming you're instructed NOT to be bothered if she plays a jealousy routine on you(Pictures or hanging out of guys, kissing them and shit) and it's good advice because it's all a balancing act where you have the balance in your favour. In a relationship you cut this out. If she plays these jealousy games you have to show dominance and show your position in your relationship, your position as her boyfriend. As soon as she acts up and does something you're not happy with in a girlfriend you cut the shit, be up front and tell her "No. Stop that." like hanging out of other guys and kissing them and shit(Cheek, peck on lips, whatever you're not comfortable with). Don't let that shit fly or she will do it again and she will not respect you or your relationship.

Well if she's your girlfriend you treat her like your girlfriend, that's a given. Otherwise she wouldn't be your girlfriend. As for the going out part, give her some space and don't be so clingy. If there's something you're uncomfortable with, say it and ask her to accommodate that. No games, just be honest.

No, relationships are different. You no longer need to do any of that attraction crap. All it is about is an emotional connection and a sexual one.

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