Hey guys, so I msg a girl from POF. Her pics are her showing her "assets" such as her voluptuous tits. Easy to say she's DTF. She eventually texts me and our conversation back and forth has had a good amount of sexual tones, with me displaying confidence as well. We've only been texting for one day.

There is one thing I can't get past, she doesn't want me over to have sex just yet. She's not saying she won't, but obviously she wants to play the waiting game. She also has a kid, so i'm sure the "stranger danger" is there, but her voluptuous tits make me want to get this done ASAP haha.

I tell her let's go for drinks in her neighbourhood on Saturday, cause I haven't been there really. I ask her which ones she likes in her area, she states 3. I've been to one of them, so I will pick 1 out of the 2 soon.

The conversation has gone pretty well, here is the last bit of it:
Me: Never been to X and Y pub, been to Z pub though. Haha
Her: Did you like it?
Her: If we do go for drinks on Sat, you can't come home with me lol kay?
Me: It's pretty good, I wanna try somewhere different though.
Me: And hunny, big mistake... WHEN we go for drinks on Sat

I have a feeling she will ask me again, in a more serious way she doesn't want me to come home with her that night. How should I play it from there if it does happen?

She is just toying around with you. Girls want a man who doesn't just want to fuck and leave. I would be a little flirty but if she says "seriously you cant come over" be like baby I don't want to come over, I'm just looking for a real relationship and bs like that. The reason she is saying this is because she doesn't want another mistake (baby) she is being defensive. Try to make her let go and be open with you.

She is just toying around with you. Girls want a man who doesn't just want to fuck and leave. I would be a little flirty but if she says "seriously you cant come over" be like baby I don't want to come over, I'm just looking for a real relationship and bs like that. The reason she is saying this is because she doesn't want another mistake (baby) she is being defensive. Try to make her let go and be open with you.

Just some follow up, we've confirmed our date for a bar which is near her place (designed, since I can not bring her over to mine)

Not exactly sure how to describe it... but essentially I am getting some pre-sex LMR from her by text. Again, we have had sexual conversations and have traded sexy photos prior to this.

Me: Have you ever heard of ____ bar?
Her: Yep, its not to far from me
Me: We'll go there on Sat, 9:02 sharp
Her: 9:02? lol
Me: Yeah, don't be late
Her: I duno... lol
Her: What are your expectations of this lil get together?
Her: Cause i'm nervous ...
Me: Of course you know
Me: And expectations? I don't have any, i'm very much of a "go with the flow" type of person
Her: That's good because we're not having sex lol well not on that day anyways
Me: Haha slow down hunny, lets meet first
Her: Lol hey, im just keeping it real and making sure we're both on the same page here
Me: The only page we gotta get on for now is ____ bar at 9:02 PM on Saturday =)
Me: I'll see you there, sharp
Her: You're absolutely right... for once
Her: 9:02

I plan on us at the end of the night to catch a cab together, and then suggest she invites me over. I know when I do bring it up, she'll give me some LMR. So I'm just wondering how to play it...

Can't see any issues with the last text convo. Personally during the meetup I'd just play her at her own game, get her turned on, escalate, makeout etc, but keep reaffirming that YOU aren't DTF and that you think you should take things slow etc. You still may not get the lay that night, but you can build solid ground-work for your next meet-up so that you will get the lay that time. Unfortunately sometimes, you just gotta have a little patience.

_________________
"My toughest opponent is always myself"
Musterion's Journal

Hey man,

The best thing that you can do online is this.

Step #1: Extract her number from the online source

Step #2: Get your name/Face in her phone by texting her with a cool picture of yourself

Step #3: Get her on the phone by calling her.

Phone call should be quick and simple: Call up, vibe, chat for about 2-3 minutes... then find out what she's doing that night... get her to meet up wtih you that night or make plans for a future date.


Don't try to make plans online unless its a one night stand situation.


-Brad Holiday

_________________
Check Out My informative And Fun Videos Here:
http://www.youtube.com/TheBradHoliday
Find Me Here
http://www.1GirlDaily.com
and
http://www.Facebook.com/BradHoliday01