Hey guys, hope it's okay to post here. Need some advice...

I'm trying to work some game on 2 different girls... and both are kind of not going the way I want.

Girl 1:

Met her online and we text back and forth now and again. I can't really get her to connect with me with some more interest... she just seems like she can't be assed to speak to me and will go a few days without really messaging me. Basically she has no interest it seems. How can I flip this round and get her to actually have some interest?

Last night we were talking and she was talking about how I look. We were making jokes about eachother and our profile pics. Anyway, she kind of pissed me off when she said she didn't like my beard (I no - no need to really get annoyed, but I just did)... I never said anything rude. I just said "well it's not for everyone" and she said "it's just an opinion"... after that - out of frustration I said "well I gotta shoot. Need to get up early, have a date with this latino chick" (obviously a lie)...

She then said goodnight etc.

I ignored her today and she text me "how did the date go?" - I ignored her again. She text me an hour later "not so good?"

Any ideas on what to do next with this chick?

Girl 2:

I no this girl from a long time back and we've always spoke now and again. Whenever we talk on the phone we have (I think) excellent chemistry. But she once again doesn't really text much - she'll go almost a whole week before she actually hits me up and says hi...

How can I again get this girl interested more than just a random text here or there... I actually prefer girl 2 and like her quite a bit.

I'm quite new and not sure what I should be doing here...

Any help appreciated!

J

Don't waste your time.

Just get to the point and go for the meet.

Girl #1 , you lost some serious man points dude with that one, I would take it as a lesson.

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I agree with Pebble on the man points comment. I'm not at all a fan of negging, but in this situation you could have picked something about her pic teased her got a verbal sparring match going and built attraction that way. Another thing man don't lie if you're not doing it don't say you are. Go to www.wayoftheplayer.com and look up the article 7 things every player needs to stop doing, but I'm not a fan of jealousy plots either. I think you should walk away from girl #1 however if you wanna give it another try I'd use the I'm divorcing you routine I've never had that not work for me get a bit of role playing going then escalate how you see fit from there.
Hope that helps good luck!!

You tell girl #2 about girl number #1.

Girl number #1 shit tested you for strength. (She probably really likes you or she wouldn't be talking to you. But might not be a fan of beards. So she asked you about it. Probably thought you would look more handsome to her if you didn't have it. You passed the shit test. By getting shutting down the conversation which was a good move. Showing your confidence and making yourself more attractive.

Text back girl #1...the date was all right. She was pretty cool...do you have plans for the weekend, monday, football game etc? (Your subtely telling girl #1 that she better want to date you or your going back to the latina. She'll probably bite.) She would be asking about the date if she wasn't jealous.

Girls that don't care, dont talk, they stop communicating.

But time wasters reply..

Surely you have talked to a girl on a night out and she talks to you for a while then you find out she is happily in love ?

She isn't interested, but she is ether just friendly or humoring you

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