i got her, but she's loosing interest



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PostPosted: Fri Jan 31, 2014 4:04 pm 
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hey fellas, i got this girl we had sex before and she said we were talking. which is cool but i feel as if she is loosing interest in me. i started to grow feelings with this chick. Before i didn't care much and we had a great time. but at this point i'm actually pretty nervous around her but i do my best to not let it show which is kinda working but, the interest she gave me in the beginning was much higher than it is now. I feel kinda of the same to. i kinda was out of reading the forum and watching pua vid's because i felt as if they made me think to much. at this point i think i'm slowly going back into a different kinda of AFC who is not very interesting. before I knew how to make her completly interested in me that she would want to be around all the time. now i forgot these things and i might have even lowered my value in front of her it feels like. I need to get my head straight. Everything went down hill once i got this oneitits 2 or 3 weeks ago. This is really irratating for me i feel as if i have to qualify myself and i don't want to do that you know. But it's definitly fixable at this point it was just one day were there cracks in my frame just yesterday. I want to fix this not for the chick but for me next time in this situation or even while i'm in the situation. I feel like i'm thinking to much that i'm starting to get depressed over it..... it's super annoying and unneccasary. I just want to scream out FUCK!!! WHATS WRONG WITH ME. i'm going to start diving back into my pua and relearn what i have felt i have forgotten. but ya any advice on this would be awesome!


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 31, 2014 6:25 pm 
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I always thought PUA stuff was for getting her initially attracted? I don't think it helps you keep girls.
Once you're dating, she basically has to like you.

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 31, 2014 7:34 pm 
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Instead of PUA "Stuff" Try some 'common sense" and "self-esteem"

Your becoming needy and clingy!

To girls clingy guys are like Wedgies, they just can't pull them out of their ass fast enough and they won’t care who’s looking!


Your hot and sexy vibe is getting its ass kicked by your needy and clingy actions.

Yes, actually calling and texting someone every 3 minutes does make you clingy.

Signs of Neediness:
1. Buying gifts.
2. Romantic gestures.
3. Expressing your desire.
4. Doing “favors” without reciprocation.
5. Chasing.
6. Over calling/text messaging. (no more than 1 to 1) EVER!

If you find yourself doing any of these things, YOU ARE BEING NEEDY!

Turn it around;

Being late for a date – In fact, women come late to dates all the time. It’s just a date, you can be 5 minutes late. In fact, you will find out that even if you are late, many times the girl will come even later. And don’t bring flowers!
Don’t call more than once – You called the girl and she didn’t answer? There is nothing urgent that you need to tell her. She might call you back (some girls do), and if not, you can try calling again tomorrow.
Don’t be too available – Don’t answer every call from her. If you are busy in the moment, she can wait. Show her that you have other things to do and other people to meet with. Yes, you can tell her that you are busy even if you’re not. But the better option is really to have hobbies and interesting things to do.
Meet other women – A great way to not be needy is just to have other women and other options in your life. Unless you are already in a relationship, you can date several women at a time.
React to her moves – Neediness is a relative thing. If a woman tells you that she loves you, you can say that too. But if she doesn’t answer your calls, and mistreats you, so do the same. Don’t show that you want her more than she wants you.

The one making the most effort, is the slave.

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 31, 2014 8:24 pm 
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You're way too invested in her. The more you want to qualify yourself, the needier you will seem.

See other girls, focus on other things in your life too.

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 01, 2014 1:05 am 
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ya i see that those tips helped me out. I actually just went sarging today at the mall and felt amazing doing it like i just broke out of chains in a pit. I need to do more like hobbies and other talk to other chicks. I need keep my a game up and do stuff for just my self again like i used to and playing the game is fun i just needed to breathe it once more. she is not gonna be the center of my movie i am!


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