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Your becoming needy and clingy!
To girls clingy guys are like Wedgies, they just can't pull them out of their ass fast enough and they won’t care who’s looking!
Your hot and sexy vibe is getting its ass kicked by your needy and clingy actions.
Yes, actually calling and texting someone every 3 minutes does make you clingy.
Signs of Neediness:
1. Buying gifts.
2. Romantic gestures.
3. Expressing your desire.
4. Doing “favors” without reciprocation.
5. Chasing.
6. Over calling/text messaging. (no more than 1 to 1) EVER!
If you find yourself doing any of these things, YOU ARE BEING NEEDY!
Turn it around;
Being late for a date – In fact, women come late to dates all the time. It’s just a date, you can be 5 minutes late. In fact, you will find out that even if you are late, many times the girl will come even later. And don’t bring flowers!
Don’t call more than once – You called the girl and she didn’t answer? There is nothing urgent that you need to tell her. She might call you back (some girls do), and if not, you can try calling again tomorrow.
Don’t be too available – Don’t answer every call from her. If you are busy in the moment, she can wait. Show her that you have other things to do and other people to meet with. Yes, you can tell her that you are busy even if you’re not. But the better option is really to have hobbies and interesting things to do.
Meet other women – A great way to not be needy is just to have other women and other options in your life. Unless you are already in a relationship, you can date several women at a time.
React to her moves – Neediness is a relative thing. If a woman tells you that she loves you, you can say that too. But if she doesn’t answer your calls, and mistreats you, so do the same. Don’t show that you want her more than she wants you.
The one making the most effort, is the slave. _________________ They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.
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