Day 69: 19th December 2012
My 2nd chance and I didn't do it again.

Goals:
- Showing my classmate that it's possible to get girls in bars (he didn't believe IT guys could do that).

Field report:

So last Thursday my classmate and I agreed to go out (when we were working for our school project). It would only be the 2 of us.

But before he would come over, my housemates and their friends would have a soccer game. 1 girl and 1 guy invited me to watch the game. At first I didn't want to, but then I convinced myself to just stick along anyway. Am I glad I did. I felt uncomfortable at first because I've never been to that gym before (it's only 10 mins cycling away) But men, when they were playing soccer, I could feel the testosteron. I've been slacking off lately and didn't go to the gym. Even though I promised myself to sign up, I still haven't. Very bad of me.

When we got back (they lost) we got into some chatting with everyone and laughing. Good vibe. I took a shower and got ready. My classmate showed up at 11 pm. We immediatly went to the city and there were all kinds of 'Proms' in the bars (not really 'proms', more like prom party's). At bar#1 we couldn't enter yet, but I asked a stranger (female) what all the party's were about. She explained shortly about the different education proms and started asking a why I didn't know about it. I told her that I was IT but she didn't bother that much. She happened to know my housemate so I said to her to say Hi from me. (Asked housemate later, she actually did that!).

So there was 1 'prom' bar where we could enter with no fee. I made a few approaches there but nothing really happened. They were all just either neutral or uninterested. (I had to warm up). In bar #2 I recognized 2 housemates from my classmate and called them by their names. 1 remembered me, other one didn't (probably bc. he was drunk). Nevertheless also in this bar I made a few approaches but nothing really happened. All rejections or not interested. Also there was more than enough room to dance but my classmate was like 1 feet away THE WHOLE TIME. I was to pussy to say something about it and didn't call out my boundaries.

My mood was a bit down bc. of no good responses (from in total of perhaps 8 approaches already) so I said (in a kind off bored mood): "Lets go to the final bar, maybe there some good party there". Oh, I forgot to say that in fact I led everything that night and my classmate followed.
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We now entered bar #3 (it was 2 am.) and it was crowded as hell. Immediatly when I came in I saw my housemates and their friends. I purposely DID NOT go to them and just walked to the end of the bar. None of them saw me walk by. So now my classmate and I were kind off surrounded by girls. I was yet in quite an opening mood so I opened some random sets. Nevertheless, even those were all rejections. 1 time my classmate had 2 girls grinding him. He looked at me, shocked, and I subconciously gestured "Just dance with them!" He then busted out some weird dance moved and the girls walked away. I wasn't angry but said: "Dude, don't EVER do that again when 2 girls dance close to you".

Rejection after rejection happened to the point where I started LAUGHING with every rejection. My classmate looked at me confused and I said: "Man, tonight I'm gonna be making a new record rejections on 1 single night!, it's insane! Because all it takes is that ONE GIRL, that's interested". He nodded. My point couldn't be made any clearer when the next girl that walked by was intrigued by my sexual eye-contact. Only a few words were spoken, I got close to her, danced seductively, she said something like: "I lost everyone". I said: "Oh you poor girl (teasing)", gave her a hug and laid my hand on her right cheek soon after. Well before I knew we were making out. I overlooked her right shoulder and pointed the my classmate: 1 ! No better example was made here.

She was drunk as hell nevertheless. She could hardly speak or stand still but her kissing made me a bit horny. Especially when she lip bited me softly, ooooh I love that stuff, it drives me crazy horny when a girl lip bites me during make outs. She sometimes took her hand on my hips and softly scratched it. I knew in my head that this girl was getting horny of me being sexual but I had a problem. My classmate was going to sleep at my place and I had no idea how to get him into my home without the key. I said to the girl that I couldn't leave him and she said: "No no, you should let him in with you, you can't leave him!" I had to figure something out which I did, so I just gave him they key of the house and bicycle-lock (I had 2 keys for the lock) and told him that I would let him know soon enough what I would do. I quickly rejoined the girl and she said (almost crying): "I don't belong here, I don't know anybody". Me: "Well not anymore, now you got me." I found out about logistics. She didn't have to get up early, she slept very closely at a friend and she was the only one she was there with. We quickly found her blonde friend. She wasn't really attractive. YET I SCREWED THIS ONE UP AGAIN. I took the easy way out and asked if the blonde friend would take her other friend home which she nodded yes. And then I said: "Ok well I'm going home now, cya" and gave kisses on the cheek. After I messaged my classmate and he was still at the bikes bc. he had trouble with the lock. We cycled back home and discussed the night.

What have I learnt today?
- Apparently nothing. Last time I didn't f*ck the girl when I could and now this happened again!
- Rejections mean no sh*t
- Having someone sleeping over doesn't necessarily mean a problem. Just be creative.

Wallie

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uhmm! you are doing the mass approaching which i do not recommend cause though rejection don't mean anything you will get yourself burn out in venues.

I have said many times, that if you go out with a wing both of you meet in the place and drive different cars, in case one of you hook up. It is on the fundamentals of club game.

You still have some type of sexual type anxiety...Scare of fucking a girl, you need to work on that man, as i said a lot of dudes have it. I would take baby steps, maybe go to the point were you give a massage, and get her naked, even if nothing happens. Or maybe suck tits even if nothing happens.

^ just like aa drills some type of sexual type drills, have you wonder why you have sexual type anxiety??

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I think I know why. The fact is that with the 2 girls I've had sexual experiences with (4 years ago and my ex-GF from 5 months ago) is that I had a few troubles:

1: When going missionary, I couldn't get my dick inside of her pussy, no matter how hard I tried to push it in.
2: Because of failing miserably when trying to have sex, the result was that my dick couldn't get hard, or not hard enough.
3: I've always been very nervous to make noises in bed. Leading has not been that much of a problem but being Dominant, giving a roar when I come or dirty talking in her ear like saying: "Look at your wet pussy, you've been thinking about my dick all day long you little slut, don't you", (I actually get the chills when typing this) are all things I'm totally uncomfortable with at the moment.
4: Step by step I got more and more nervous when those things happened and it totally killed my Immersion (I refer to Sex God Method of Rose now) to the point where all my thoughts in my head screwed the whole sexual vibe.
5: This got me so insecure inside the bedroom that I already think BEFORE THE ACT happens, how in the world am I gonna pull this off and make her sexually satisfied.

^Could be the reason, and it's actually pretty silly when I read it, yet it has happened twice that I got a numb dick and that the sex wasn't merely dry humping....
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It seems to me that I'm gonna have to put this down into two new sticking points: These should be the goals for the upcoming months or perhaps even NYE.

Wallie

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Day 70: 28th December 2013
Housewarming party

Goals:
- Meeting new people
- SNL

Field report:
Before I went to this houseparty, I knew that many people would come that I didn't know at all. I saw it as an opportunity to get the first same-night lay.

I wanted to be there early so I could meet the people that would come in. By the time I got there, already a lot of people where inside. Nevertheless it was easy for me to open them up. I've been talking to 3 girls but not any of them got my interest. 1 girl had a disgusting peanut butter breath, the other was O.K. to talk to and the 3rd (one of her roommates) was just plain fat and totally annoying, not my type.

Fortunately I met some guys I already knew, and the girl who could have been my 1st same-night lay. The last time I met her she totally ignored me and was annoyed by me. However yesterday she was happy to see me, texted me if I would be there and we just had fun together. I could notice her making use of her looks because she made requests but I refused them when she asked me bc. I don't take orders from her. Soon enough she stopped asking me lol.

At 11:30 pm we went to the city and OMG it was sooooo busy everywhere. I didn't like it the bars that night, everywhere crowded, crowded and crowded. We only could go to one bar bc. 1 of the guys was 17 and the bar age is 18+. He was lucky to get in but now we were stuck in 1 bar all night. Mistake #1, staying in 1 place. The girl who was with us quickly danced sexually and had a guy all over her pretty fast. Soon they were making out all the time. It didn't affect me but I realise that I've not taken action when I could've.

I made a few approaches but nothing happened. The interest was never to be found in the girls I approached. Also the amount of guys vs girls was 2 out of 5 I think. Didn't really like that. We went to eat at 3 am. and stayed at the 'housewarming' place until 5 am, then I went home. Nothing really has happened that night unfortunately.

What have I learnt today?
- During the winter, the bars are too full on Saturday. Thursday is fine but Saturday...nope.

Wallie

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Crowded is good, Saturday a good day to go out, always there will be more guys than girls.

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Day 71: 1st January 2014
Great start of the new year!

Goals:
- Nothing particular, just go out have fun and start the year positive!
- Outcome or not, it doesn't matter.

Field report ++:
Hey guys, Happy new Year, mine was a blast. This year I've been going into 2014 in my hometown with my hometown friends. At first we got some food at 6pm, went to our local hangout for drinks at 8pm, ignited the fireworks at 12pm (at least my friends did, I think it's a waste of money) and at 1 am. we went to the club.

It's was 1/2 full because most of the people would be at a different location. This was actually perfect because I didn't recognise many people, which meant lots of opportunity's. The scale was about 2 girls for every 3 guys, pretty good! First we were in the main room and some of my friends and I were dancing on the ground floor and the plateau (which contained lots of girls, good-looking girls). A few approach tries but they weren't interested. Soon enough my whole group of friends decided to go to the lounge (low energy, lots of seats, not so loud music). I kinda used this as my base to go back to every once in a while. At 1 point 2 of my friends were in the main room when I said that I had to go to the bathroom. When I returned, they weren't standing in the same place anymore. So I just started wandering around to find them.

Suddenly I noticed a girl tapping a guy and asking (I barely heard it) if the guy liked her friend. He only nodded but didn't approach the girl. I took this as my chance and said to the girl: "Hey, I like your friend, she's good looking". Her: "You do?" Me: "Yeah sure, is she single?" Her: "Yes she is, go talk to her !". No hesitation from me, I approached the girl, got into small talk but I very early said: "Hey I can't stay long, I'm looking for my friends". After 3 mins I told her I would go look further, but I said to give me her number. She complied immediatly. When I was about to put the number in, I asked first if she remembered my name. She did so I then got her number, said I she owed a hug from me the next time I'd see her and walked further. After that I made a few more approaches, and some were interested, but I quickly found out that I didn't like much about them.

I went back to the lounge to ask if one of my friends wanted to stick along to find her again. Nobody wanted and it was already 3:25 am. She was going home 4:00 am. So around 3:30 am I went back in (this was about half an hour later than I met her) and quickly found her again. Though she wanted to hug whenever she would go home. Alright. I asked her if I could introduce myself to her friends and she said: "Go ahead". I got their names, remembered them all, and 2 of their friends were on some kind of plateau. Both were blonde, but 1 girl in particular was good-looking. I talked to her a bit, she was very interested. I kino'ed a lot, arm-shoulder, lower back. She complied all of it. Yet here is where I made the huge mistake. When I had the choice between the initial girl, who didn't kino much and wasn't sure if she was interested and her good-looking friend who was definately interested. I still don't know why for god sake I went for the initial girl. So after getting to know her a bit, it soon became 4 am. She had to go and wanted the hug. I said: "Hug or little kiss?" Her: "I don't kiss on the first time". We had a quick hug and agreed to SPAM day after.

So now today I SPAM her a bit about the night before. After a bit of comfort I wanted to meet her up for this Sunday (when she said she wasn't sure what she was going to do for the weekends). Suddenly she said she was going to a restaurant with her friends. Uhm... excuse? I didn't tell her on that and just said she was too shy to meet up. She hesitantly texted: "Yeah a bit, we don't know each other and already want to meet up? " (she's 17 years old, 16+ is legal sex age here). She rather wanted to meet up in hometown club. But I don't go out there that much anymore, because I don't like the there SPAM during weekends in comparison to the bars in my college city. I keep this one on a hold and perhaps text her once in a while.

Now I thought to myself, why not try her interested friend? She wasn't actually a direct friend, more somebody who knew her from one of her other friends. That probably means that these 2 girls don't know each other very well, or hardly speak to each other. A good chance to go for her then. I found her on facebook, added her and when she accepted I sent her some messages. Soon after I got her number bc. I said that facebook chat sucks. She wanted to know me better and I said:
"Well SPAM is damn stupid for that, i'm more into face 2 face"
She agreed so I just said: "Well let's meet up this weekend"
Her: "I'm sorry this weekend i'm too busy. "
Me: "Well what suits you better?"
Her: "Next weekend?"
Me: "Sure, your place?"
Her: "We'll see."
Me: "Alright, i'll text you some day next week".

I was right and I should have gone for this girl yesterday. I'm pretty sure I could have made out with her and the initial girl is probably too much work to go for. I'll see what's it gonna be for next week. Lesson learned. But the best thing of all is that I only consumed a little bit of alcohol, just enough to loosen up. Although my text game really needs to step up. Hard to go sexual with these 17 year old girls who are still virgins.

What have I learnt today?
- Again, read the signals. I've definately missed my chance with the friend of the initial girl.
- My new years eve went better than expected, because I didn't care wether or not I would succesfully close a girl.

Wallie

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Day 72: 10th January 2014
Brothers' birthday: 27 years old

Goals:
- Nothing special. It was my brothers birthday and I wasn't planning on going crazy approaches or anything.

Field report:[/u]
This was kinda unplanned but my brother apparently sent me an e-mail to invite me over to his place for his birthday party. Unfortunately he sent it to the wrong e-mail and I had to hear it from mom when I called her when I would get home. So party planned 6 hours before it even heard of it, nice!

Helped him cooking, ate at his place, helped things set up and at 21:00 o'clock the first guests arrived. I didn't hesitate to introduce myself to all his (old) college buddies and it was easy to talk to all of them. 1 guy apparently lives quite close to me in my college city (his home place at least). Had a good talk with him and his GF. At 0:30 am we went to the city. The bar we went was crowded. Some guy was looking at a girl and I eye-gestured like: "She's not mine ". He went up to me (normal tone): "Man these women, I'm a banker at (bank name) and still they don't want anything from me." (since he said in normal tone I thought he just was someone who thinks he's better than everybody). Later on I spotted a nice looking blonde, not my type but I gestured said to him: "What about her"? The crazyiest thing happened. This guy totally flips out, starts yelling and shouting to me, telling me to F*ck off and stuff. I was like: "What the hell?!?". Nevertheless I kept calm and just walked back to my brothers' group. I guess I was right, he had a big male ego after all.

Some small talk approaches by me but I knew nothing special was really gonna happen. The average age was 25 of the women and a 20 year old me wasn't gonna get much out of it. Though I had a fun night, and my brother had a good birthday.

What have I learnt today?
- Just ignore douchebags like described above. No reason to fight any of those guys, it's not smart. Just walk away.

Wallie

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Date#4: Girl from day 71 (the one I approached first on New years Eve; 14th January 2014)
No more movie dates, PERIOD!

Goals:
- Micro escalation followed up with a k-close

Field report:
F*cking hell I've screwed up big time. First of all she was interested in me, the girl I approached first on New Years Eve. Through SPAM I found out she liked me so we decided to meet up. I wanted to do the same as last time and just download a movie and watch it at her room. Yet she was too insecure about that, and she found it awkward to do that at her place while her parents are home. (she's 17, 18 in a month). And getting sexual at first wasn't really an option, since it was my home town and not my college town. Mistake #1: She wanted a movie date in the cinema and I insisted.

I drove to her place at 18:30 and was already there at 18:50. The movie would start at 20:20 with a 15 min drive so I was waaaayy to early. I rang her doorbell and she led me inside. This is where I met her parents and sat down to get a little bit to know them. (this is mistake #2). At 19:50 I stood up and told her we should go. In the car we had a little bit of small talk and before the movie started (the movie was Last Vegas) we talked a little bit. I got to know that her relationship only was 6 months ago and lasted 6 months as well. Also I got to know a little bit about her likes and dislikes as the other way around. But the problem was that kino was nearly impossible since the armrest couldn't be lifted up. During the movie sometimes small talk but nothing more.

After the movie a little bit of small talk but I was too nervous to even kino. I have no idea why, sometimes was definately wrong yesterday. Also in the car was a little bit of talking but that was all. At her home I got inside again and the same thing as begin of the night, talking with parents..... After that she hugged me goodbye, and I didn't even kiss her, only on the cheek. Mistake #3. She said: "Talk to you tomorrow, ok?" In the car ride home, I was so angry at myself, and ashamed because this SHOULD have gone way different.

I'll check out tonight how she responds to my texts, but I'm pretty sure It's already over. I can't really think of any scenario where she would like to go out again. I should've set my boundaries, and kino'ed more.

What have I learnt today?
- No more movie dates in the cinema: PERIOD!
- Yesterday night I was totally AFC, at my worst.
- I'm pretty sure It's over now, but I'll see how she responds....

Wallie

Edit:

I was totally right. I SPAM her when she got home and got the cliché girl talk: "Yeah I like you, and you're fun to hang out with but I didn't feel any click, LJBF, blablabla, I'm not looking into any relationship right now..., I hope you will find someone on one day." Bullsh*t. It's girlcode for: "You haven't taken the action when you could, whenever you had the chance to take action you didn't, I'll find a more confident male, have a happy life". It's absolutely everything I predicted. Next time a girl only wants a movie date or such, f*ck her, I'll find someone else. Pff... what a waste of time.

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^ i don't understand all this, you know how things work, you read most of the books, you read most of the material, you know a lot of the methods... And you manage to do the opposite over and over and over...

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Oh it gets worse. I'm must be having a really bad focus this week. Read the following:

Day 73: 16th January 2014
Something is not right this week

Goal:
- Go out, have fun and got rid of all the tension building up from college stuff

Field report:
First of all I want to say that I was pretty disappointed in myself that I basically made pretty dumb mistakes on date #4, from the moment of meeting and the moment of the date itself. That should have gone better.

Second of all it has been a tough week. Our school projects deadline was nearing and we had to work 10 hours a day for four days straight to get it finished in time. That took a lot of energy of me and by the time I went out, it still wasn't finished totally.

Now the field report itself. I went to my classmate's house at 9pm. Some guys I didn't know were there and I introduced myself. Also some other guys I already knew where there so that was good. It made up a total of 10 guys and 3 girls. Now I have seen 1 of the girls only 1 time and I pretty fast noticed that she had some sort of interest. I took this IOI and gave a little small talk. After that I was getting in a pretty good mood because of joking around. At 1 pm we went to the city by bicycle and I told the 'new' girl: "Hey, if you don't have a bike, go at the back of mine". No hesitation from her, she insisted. During the ride towards the city we talked a bit to get to know each other. Once our bikes were stalled and only 10 minutes walking to the center I made quite some sexual remarks which she laughed and liked. For instance: I saw a wet small pool on the ground and when she almost walked into it I pulled her away saying: "Hey carefull, we don't want you to get wet already". or I made a joke and she said: "Grrrr.. (playful), Imma get you for that". Me: "yeah you will". Basically from start to end it went on like this. This was a second IOI.

In the bar itself it didn't take long before I kino'ed her on the back, grabbed her hands and started dancing and stuff. Yet I've made 1 terrible mistake. It was 100% sure she was into me. If we walked to a new place in the bar while it's was overly crowded, I was always holding her hand and guiding while she complied. But I didn't make out with her. For some stupid reason I cared what our friends would think. That has never happened to me, I normally don't give a sh*t. Well it didn't take long offcourse before some of my going out friends started doing the same dance routine like I did, got really close to her, and before I knew they were making out heavily. Seeing that happening in front of me made me really angry at myself. That could have been me, 100% sure! I just didn't escalate the vibe enough. After that some drama hit in the group with the same guy who made out (I don't know what actually happened). It was 3:30 am and we walked back. I again had some small talk with the girl just about my tough week and stuff. I needed to get that of my chest and she listened to everything. I could really appreciate that. She even told me her experiences about for instance what she does at first dates, and how she expects guys to kino (by giving them the chance she means). It's basic PUA stuff, yet I really needed to hear it again I guess. Before the house of one of the girls where I had my bike stalled I told her goodbye. She asked: "Aren't you gonna come in?" Believe me, even at that moment I wanted. But I had to get up at 8 am the next morning (it was 4:00 am at that moment) for an important presentation which I could definately NOT miss. When I wanted to say goodbye, she gave me a looong hug (30 seconds at least). That could have been a chance for sloppy seconds but nope, I didn't. The next morning I was being dissappointed by my actions...AGAIN.

What have I learnt today?
- This week too many mistakes were made, WAYYY too many
- Fast escalation is the key, no matter how interested she is
- It has been a very, very bad week but that's no excuse for my dumb moves.

Wallie

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Day 74: 23rd January 2014
Are you here alone?

Goal:
- Focus on what's important because last week I've failed hard at that

Field Report:
Some guys from my education wanted to go out last Thursday. I insisted but didn't expect much. Once in the 1st bar the vibe kicked in pretty fast and I was having fun pretty quickly. Some guy (apparently he knew one of my college mates) came up to me and said: "Hey dude, if you ain't gonna score some ladies tonight, I don't who will." I didn't even do anything special or something, I was just getting into the vibe. Soon after I kinda got 'split' from my group and some girl saw me having fun. She came up to me asking: "Hey, are you alone here?" She was O.K. looking, but not really something special that made me wanna f*ck her. I was just being polite but I had no interest in her. Nevertheless I was surprised that she approached me, that rarely happens to me. In that bar I made a few more approaches but nothing special happened.

At the 2nd bar I came upon some people I knew but also here the approaches didn't work out much. I might have to screen better. It didn't take long till we got to the 3rd bar. A few approaches were made and also here it didn't go too well. It's ok though, sometimes I have those nights. Apparently I looked at some point where the rest was and couldn't find them. So I just went back to the 1st bar to get my coat. On my way to the back I made eye-contact with a brunette girl. She didn't break it, so I just made the approach and introduced myself. After she told me her name, I stood close before her and held eye-contact. She didn't break it again, so I tried to k-close her but she said: "NO!" Without further thinking I simply just walked away.

What have I learnt today?
- I guess that if I'm in a good vibe and women notice it, they might approach me (nevertheless this doesn't mean I shouldn't take action).
- I should have made some micro-escalation with the final girl

Wallie

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Day 75: 30th January 2014
"I have a boyfriend"

Goals:
- Approaching girls to and express vulnerability (I'm re-reading Models from Mark Manson)

Field report:
I knew I was eager to go out this night. I had to get up the next morning at 08:00 am but that didn't matter to me. At first we were watching the movie Ender's Game with my housemates at home. It was actually karaoke night at the sorority but meh, I didn't want to go there.

When we arrived they all were about to walk towards the city, so we did the same. I hung my coat and walked into the bar. Apparently my housemates were in some other bar but I quickly came upon familiar people. 1 of the guys was a stranger to me so I introduced myself and we got into a good mood. He was very open to hang out with. When they had spent all their free coins on drinks, we went to the bar where my other housemates were. Only sorority members were here so they were all familiar to me. We soon went to a 2nd bar which was also pretty empty. Nevertheless we had a good time there.

The guy I met at the first bar said he didn't like the SPAM of that bar, and wanted to go somewhere else. I said I wanted to do the same. He had to ask the "boss" a.k.a. my housemate that he wanted to go. My housemate said that he would stay and so my new friend stayed as well. What the f*ck? Who is my housemate to call if we go or not? Does this mean he's been respected as some sort of leader?

Eventually we had enough and just went ourselves. Man that bar was crowded but waaaay better. In this bar I actually made some approaches (before weren't really much approaches I've made). Yet I was having bad luck or just not receptive girls. The first was a 2-set in which I made some situational opener towards the brunette and asked how she and her blonde friend knew each other. A photographer came by and I made a picture with me in the middle and the girls. They both after said that they have BF's. I didn't want to waste time so I just ejected. Afterwards one of the guys laughed when I said that because apparently one didn't have a BF. I didn't care, if she has one or not, just not interested. 2 more approaches with different girls and they also had BF's. I called my friend (at 3am) and said: "come on, we go to one more bar, I know a good one". He wasn't familiar in my city so I guided him. I came upon some sorority guys and one said that he was being grinded by some girls while his GF was next to him. I took it as a good call and went it with my friend. However though he had tough luck and didn't get success. When we were about to leave I had a f*ck it moment and did one more approach. It was her birthday and I gave her birthday kisses. Had some good kino but she didn't react. At some point in a sentence she mentioned her BF and I was like: "Wtf, you gotta be kidding me, this happened to me all night". I ejected that one and just went home. BUt nevertheless some approaches even after rejections, I'm happy with it

What have I learnt today?
- For some reason, my older housemate is being seen as some sort of "leader". I don't know how but that same SPAM is at my college house. I might have to find out his 'secret'.
- Even other guys sometimes have problems with approaching, I'm not the only one
- I'm not sure wether or not they had BF's but maybe I should've used the BF destroyers.

Wallie

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Day 76: 1st February 2014
"Be a challenge"

Goal:
- I didn't care wether or not something would happen

Field report (long story) (++)
Crazy night which was totally unexpected. Normally on Saturday my home town friends never want to go out or anything. Yet yesterday we were with a whole group and it turned out better than I thought. However though I was sort of tired because all week I haven't got more than 5 hours sleep per day. That day I bought a red blouse and put it on. Drinks at friends at then the club. The club was crowded, yet not that crowded that u were being pushed by all the time. Perfect.

Took me a while to get loose and my friend was gonna sleep over since he wanted to drink alcohol. Me myself didn't shave that night. I wanted to test out if results were different If I would let some facial hair (it only grows on my chin and stache however) on my face. I didn't get compliments or something but definately more eye-contact. Some small approaches to warm up until we headed to the stage where lots of hotties were. Some blonde, curly girl was dancing loudly on a plateau. I went up to it and started dancing with her. However eye-contact wasn't possible since she kept looking at her friends. At some point I was dancing right behind her, and a friend came up to her. I introduced myself but she pulled the blonde girl of the plateau. I didn't care and just danced more.

It was a little bit back on forth with the girl. Going to group - on the plateau - going to group repeatedly. 1 guy must be somewhat jealous because everytime she was dancing with me, he came up as well and tried it himself. I saw another guy I know dancing with her. She loved it, all the attention she got. I went off it and didn't give my attention.

Another time I was dancing with her and her best friend tried to pull her away. She was definately the mother hen and a big cockblock. However though I handled her pretty well. When she tried to pull her away I pulled her back and said: "She's not yours anymore, she's mine" with an strong, dominant voice. I could see she knew that I meant business with her best friend. I don't really know what I've said but when getting the number of the blonde girl, her best friend insisted.

At some point I went back to my group (they stood next to the plateau) and the GF of my friend asked me about her. She noticed the whole thing and told me: "Look, she's just fishing for attention, be a challenge" She was right. She told me more stuff about being mysterious, bc. it makes you hard 2 get and that you don't give a shit if you f*ck up or not. I couldn't believe what I heard. She literally was telling me all the stuff that I've read in the books on this forum and heard from other PUA's.

Later on some girls I know were also with our group. They had one brunette girl who wasn't familiar to me. I was into seducer mode so I introduced myself to her. She was very shy so I called her on that. Strong kino and I made a picture with her (my friend took it). My friends GF in between gave me a good tip: "Go on the plateau and just dance with her. Make that other girl jealous as hell". The blonde girl was still near and kinda tipsy. I took it and pulled the brunette on the plateau. She was hesitant at dancing so I just started and slowly she complied and danced as well. I noticed the blonde girl next to me. This was the moment I would be the challenge. I didn't give ANY attention to the blonde and my full to the brunette. In the corner of my eyes I could definately notice the blonde wathcing me. My friends GF gave gold tips, it all worked so well! Soon after I went off the plateau and got the brunette's number as well. However though getting a make-out was hard. I tried to isolate but she didn't want to leave her friends. We agreed to SPAM each other the next day.

After both the blonde and brunette were gone I made some small approaches. The final one was a 4-set which I've seen all night but dind't have the balls to. I said to my friend F*ck it, I'm going in. Which I did. Used the standard "I think you look good tonight" line and it was already O.K. Introduced myself to the group (it was 3:40 am) but apparently some guy was trolling me at my back. I didn't notice anything but my friend called him on that. He wanted to punch this guy because he wanted to make me look like a fool. Even if I had noticed him I would've just ignored him, I really didn't care. Soon the girls left and I tried to get a final n-close but she pulled her shoulders and said: "sorry gotta go!" Too bad, she looked cute. Guess she didn't know what price she could've got.

I think I have to say it this way:
- Girl #1: Neutral (might've been the alcohol)
- Girl #2: Neutral/Receptive but shy.

What have I learnt today?
- I need to be more of a challenge. My friends GF was right I give too much away of myself (a.k.a. kinda needy)
- The "making jealous" move pulled off very well. I could see the first girl being gasping for my attention which she didn't get anymore
- Yet I should've grabbed me by the nuts and complied further than just a number.

Wallie

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*Quick note*
This story got a little tail when I tried some sexting

Basically after the last Date #4 where I screwed up because of me being non-sexual, I've committed myself to stop being a pussy in both real game as well as texting. Since I've got 2 phone-numbers from last Saturday, I'd took it as a great opportunity to comfort myself more with sexting.

I tried it first at the brunette. She thought it was funny but she problem is that she lied about her age and is only 16 years old with a tough dad. Most of the things she does are secretly. Now I'm not saying that it's a dealbreaker, but I'm not putting too much attention towards her since logistics are pretty hard.

First a little flashback towards the 2nd girl: I waited till Sunday somewhere around 7 pm to give the sexting a try. Basically what happened is that she kept giving short replies from beginning till the end, yet kept replying. I only used her as practice, to see what seems a bit O.K. to say and what not.

Until yesterday I got this really strange message from a guys' number. It contained 10 HATE messages of me being a cancer faggot that I was hitting on his GF, a stupid 13yo guy with a sick mind and that he wanted to punch me in face. I was like: "What the f*ck?" I replied: "Dude, you need to check on your GF. If she's giving her number away to guys like me without you knowing, then that's not my problem, I didn't know anything about a BF". He started raging more where he said where do you live, bc I"m gonna throw a brick through your window blabla. I simply just blocked and ignored him on SPAM and the blonde girl as well.

Funny thing happened, today I got a text saying: "Hi, sorry it wasn't going very well between me and my boyfriend, we broke up yesterday since he's a freak". I replied with: "Yeah you got me pretty suprised when I got 10 hate messages..." She didn't reply anymore to that but I still think it's funny after all. This guy totally mad and me the reason probably how it broke up.

What have I learnt today:
- There's no doubt in this one: Sexting creates a lot of emotions within girls, I'm gonna do this more often! Strange that I've never had the guts to do it.
- Sexting is a fun thing to do
- If a girl is in a unhappy relationship, she will try to find a different guy.

Wallie

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Day 77: 6th February 2014
"Another thing that has never happened before"

Goal:
- Nothing special

Field Report+:
Good night. 1 guy was about to sleep at my room since he had to come from very far and he took the train. At first we had some drinks at our place. It was a good warm up for the night.

We went towards the city at 11 PM. The bars were not too crowded yet and it was a good time to warm up. My friend was talking to some girl that was in the city as well. We had to move to another bar for her but I didn't mind. After we found her I recognised her from introduction camp. She's not the most hottest but definately good-looking enough for fucking. I asked one of the 2 guys if they were her BF's but none of the 2 was. They both are from introduction camp as well. Apparently one of the guys tried to hit on her all night, but he must have done it wrong because she didn't want to talk to him anymore. When I flirted with her (hugging-hand holding, hand caressing, hand on lower back and then intimate dancing) he must have probably been jealous. In between I used my "I don't think you dare it" line when saying what I wanted and I managed to slip a 3 seconds make out in with her. I smelled her hair, breathed warmly in the back of her neck and using it all to make her goddamn horny.

But then out of the sudden this guy who tried to hit on her all night started crying. Crazy sh*t dude, she felt bad for him and he was kinda drunk. So she actually brought him home and wow I was pissed. Only because this guy started crying I was not able to escalate further. My friend noticed it and he said: "Dude come, we're going to the next bar". It took me a while to calm down, but I didn't have the mood for approaching anymore. Yet he still gave me her phone number and I've started SPAM her. She lives 30 minutes cycling away from me but also lives with her parents. I've said: "You should stop by sometime, on a different day" in which she responded "We'll see later haha". I take this as an IOI and definately gonna try hooking up with her. Even though I heard from other that she's difficult in expressing her sexuality, it should be possible during isolation.

What have I learnt today?
- I guess you can't control the situation all the time when it's being difficult.

Wallie

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