Be a sexual guy who goes out and meets women, not a guy who goes out to pick up women because that's the only way he can get any.

This is a huge realization everyone should have. You are a sexual guy who goes out to meet women and have sex with them. You are not a dude who does PUA because it's the only way you could ever get a girl.

This new mindset will automatically make you more comfortable, more at ease with everything, and you will even understand all the principles that pickup teaches because you will naturally feel them resonate within you when you are already a sexual guy who just goes out to meet women. Forget about all the PUA stuff. You are relying on this shit to get you laid. You can already get laid. You are already a sexual guy. For fuck's sake coming from the old mindset will give you a real hard time getting laid because you believe you require PUA to get laid. Whenever you believe you need something to get laid or any result for that matter, you will have a hard time. "Oh no I didn't follow this rule of PUA, I won't get the girl now." Fuck that. I am already a sexual guy, I can already have sex. Let's see what will happen tonight.

Even when I began all this stuff when I had 0 girls, yes 0 girls, not even a kiss, I went out thinking I am a sexual guy, I am worthy of all this sex, I KNOW I am a sexual animal because I am human and I have a penis, and I knew I could fuck a girl. It's NATURAL. It's a part of me.

So feel the sexuality resonate within you wherever you go. It's a beautiful thing. You are a sexual guy going out to meet women. Why? Because you ARE. It's TRUE. Believe it and women will feel it within you. You don't even need any tactics or things to say, because you already resonate that vibe to women when you truly believe it. You are then a sexual option and guess what, girls will want to sleep with you. Identify yourself with your sexuality. Girls will love it and you won't have to do anything anymore.

This is natural game in its essence. This is where you can game wherever and whenever. It's not a hobby you do. It's a part of you. This will account for most of your results. Probably 80% or so if you want to put a number on it. Combine this with going out a lot and things will naturally fall into place.

The idea that most people practicing PUA don't get is the vibe transformation. It's really simple, put yourself in a sexual vibe and other women will easily feel that vibe within you and start having it too. It's all about energy frequencies resonating around us.

Let me demonstrate with a small and obvious example: When you are going out alone with a person who has such a negative/shy personality, you'll start feeling bored. You cannot talk to him, neither can you game other girls because you start feeling that negative energy feeding on you unconsciously. However, when you go with an energetic/positive person who likes to party just as you want to party, then you'll both be having a good time, talking to different people and feeling a positive vibe where you can just walk up to chicks and close them in minutes, be it a k-close, n-close or f-close.

I am personally happy to be one of those positive people, I'm always surrounded by friends whenever I go out MAINLY because people have fun around me due to my positivity and having a great time. It's a really simple concept. I've talked this topic with TONS of intelligent people (PR people, bartenders, head bartenders, promoters, event organizers) and I was really surprised to hear the same thing. They all opened up topics of energy and vibe and how it could be transformed, I was really stunned that these people knew these concepts.

This is basically the common "Just be yourself" advice explained. I think many guys could benefit from this. As I stumble across the forums I see lots of guys with very similar issues, or issues that have the exact same cause. 99% of these problems could be backtracked to:

a) neediness(lack of frame control)
b) inability to escalate
c) calibtration problems

This mindset will instantly fix the first two and with field experience, calibration can be learned easily.

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This is exactly the type of information that I should have gotten waaaaaayyy earlier. I've always believed that by learning all the concepts of attraction, numbers, k-closes that I would eventually be able to go for f-closes. Yet I've always had this low sexual vibe, low sex-drive and just couldn't picture a girl in front of me naked, f*cking me deeply and deep throating my cock. Only because I didn't think of myself as sexual or bc. I wanted to get laid. It has actually destroyed me twice in the chance of a same-night lay. This should be stickied.

Wallie

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This is ALL about energy exchange and nothing else. It's helpful sometimes for a guy to throw out every "Tactic" that's swirling around in his head and instead to simply go in with the demeanor of a classy & smooth motherfucker that women swoon for - in other words, to BECOME AND BE a classy & smooth motherfucker that women swoon for. Everything else falls into place from there: it can't not.

The vibe Traveler & Xoved talk about in their posts is absolutely essential.

Wow man props to this post this is actually quite true. To be honest

I think the more and more someone becomes submursed (I think I spelled that wrong)

into the whole idea of the "game" they DO tend to become social robots who don't

do much and just has to follow EVERYTHING as if it were A play by play in A book!




I have found that even if you believe in one method, FOLLOW ONE METHOD. Don't confuse

yourself by listening to to many other guys, because then you just get A mix of to many

people's ideas in your head and you never really master ONE skill or method!



For example I stand firm with the mystery method! That is the only method that has

been working for me and books by mystery are the only ones I read! The point of

the game (I believe) is just to get the concepts down! Not to follow all the step by step!



As Mattador said...once you get the concepts down, then really you don't need the game!

As A matter of fact all the game is...is getting out of the house and actually approaching

you will learn more about the game then staying on the forums all day!


Which I am guilty of...because I haven't been in practice for awile, but thats only

due to me focusing more on business lol.



-Talk Soon
Prince

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Couldn't agree with this post more. Just let the horniness out... Stop being so afraid to hide your feelings.

I have been amazed by how my behavior has changed since I started to be concerned with the vibe and the aura that I gave off. It works. It is Inner Game but admittedly higher level IG stuff. I always figured that if you could have amazing IG, than the other stuff really would not matter. Not quite true but not far off, I believe. Cheers

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My goal: To become a Pickup Artist in everything but name.

And yeah, This is (still) just the beginning.

I have been liking your posts traveller

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