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PostPosted: Sun Dec 08, 2013 5:26 am 
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In mystery method, confidence is one of the Characteristics of an Alpha Male(Just telling a story already shows that you're confident); while later, when talking about competence, Mystery says,"The best PUA’s in the world do not have confidence, they have competence and that’s a hell of a lot better to have than just confidence. " Does it contradict what he said about confidence? An Alpha male needs to be confident while a PUA doesn't necessary have to possess confidence, right? Isn't a PUA an alpha male?


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 08, 2013 1:13 pm 
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Alpha male and PUA are categories that occasionally overlap... an alpha male is not necessarily a PUA and a PUA is not necessarily an alpha male...

Alpha male = dominant male of a group, natural leader of the pack

PUA = pick up artist (focus on ARTIST, as a learned skill)

competence means knowing what to do in a certain situation, how to respond to it or how to elicit a certain response from the target, which beats just being confident... and a true PUA, based on his experience with women, most definitely already has tons of confidence... hope my response helps...


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 08, 2013 9:04 pm 
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You gain confidence by working towards competence. They go hand in hand.

Confidence is just a feeling in a particular situation.

Competence is an understanding of what you should and shouldn't do in a particular situation.

The more competence you develop, the more confident you become.


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