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| transforming | PostPosted: Sun Dec 08, 2013 5:26 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue May 28, 2013 7:33 am Posts: 170 | | In mystery method, confidence is one of the Characteristics of an Alpha Male(Just telling a story already shows that you're confident); while later, when talking about competence, Mystery says,"The best PUA’s in the world do not have confidence, they have competence and that’s a hell of a lot better to have than just confidence. " Does it contradict what he said about confidence? An Alpha male needs to be confident while a PUA doesn't necessary have to possess confidence, right? Isn't a PUA an alpha male?
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| Redlight | PostPosted: Sun Dec 08, 2013 1:13 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Fri Apr 20, 2012 6:51 pm Posts: 391 Location: Timisoara, Romania | | Alpha male and PUA are categories that occasionally overlap... an alpha male is not necessarily a PUA and a PUA is not necessarily an alpha male...
Alpha male = dominant male of a group, natural leader of the pack
PUA = pick up artist (focus on ARTIST, as a learned skill)
competence means knowing what to do in a certain situation, how to respond to it or how to elicit a certain response from the target, which beats just being confident... and a true PUA, based on his experience with women, most definitely already has tons of confidence... hope my response helps...
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| Jay (Majik) | PostPosted: Sun Dec 08, 2013 9:04 pm | |
| Offline | | The Coach |  | Joined: Sun Jun 19, 2011 7:44 am Posts: 4170 Location: Chicago, IL | | You gain confidence by working towards competence. They go hand in hand.
Confidence is just a feeling in a particular situation.
Competence is an understanding of what you should and shouldn't do in a particular situation.
The more competence you develop, the more confident you become.
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