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Zip what do you do when a girl is not playful?
okay first of all this is online sarging. Every other girl i talk to are playful and take things well meaning negs/cocky-funny/jokes etc..
There is this one girl that i know for some time. i used to talk to her and she was cool, she would answer joke around but now that is all changed!! Here is a few things i have noticed bout her. She doesnt get any comments from anyone meaning guys lol thats sad.. she is a 8 i would say, she has a big bitch shield, she think too highly of herself but ofcourse she doesnt mention it but i notice this from the way she talks and her pics/places she has been too with certun people.
One thing that realy makes her talk is when you trough a little compliment at her. She loves it when you talk about herself/ what she wears and how nice it is. She instently answers with a big smile loll.. Im not the type to cpmliment very often unless i feel she earned it or if its time and since that is the only way to comunicate, what do you think i should do??..
How do you go by deepening this relationship? maybe hang out/# close etc.. I have talked and tried to open here and once in a while she does but she usualy answers short, some times she answers long if yours asking like an opinion type question, but after she stats her opinion and the its my turn to do so, it seems she doesnt care or want me too i dont know its weired. I want to make her qualify herself to me

.. i know most people would say drop it she is not interested, i know i want to learn how to overcome this issue, and i know its not because of my looks, she dates guys with my style

plus I mean look at me loll Now watch out im like a P**** magnet....you'll fall in love with me quick, some call it lucky, some call it americal but im know as "The irresistible man"

lol
a little help would be appreciated
excuse the language

Okay,
This girl is screening herself out. This is why we do what we do... we're going for high quality women. This girl is not behaving like a high quality woman, and you're not going to be able to change her. This is like reversed-bad-boy-syndrome. You want to be the one to change her. Watch yourself.
If a girl is not playful, you can't make her playful. She's feeding off of your positive attention, and she's not earning it.
Dude, one thing you can do is call her out on it. Point blank. Call her out on not caring when it's your turn to give an opinion, the fact she vibes only off compliments, etc.
Then, give her a compliment. Then try bringing playful banter back into the mix. If she doesn't respond here after you've just thrown her a flip (which is designed to cut through her bullshit and make her vulnerable in a good, open way) then LET HER GO. You can cook a bad egg, but it won't make it any better.