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What's your thoughts on flirting while in a relationship? I think it's healthy for a man. I'm not saying it's cool to be unfaithful to your lady and sneak behind her back.... in fact I see no need for it if you have good game. I've just noticed since I've been in a relationship (for 3 yrs)I haven't socialized with women like I used to.
I went to my best friend son's 1st birthday party the other day and I saw this girl I used to flirt with all the time. I started off trying to make the conversation normal with her and then i was like "oh fuck this" and it ended up as a fun verbal spar. I can't manage to avoid having a stimulating convo... I absolutely hate small talk now and I didn't wanna come off as a boring loser.
It actually felt good to flirt with her. I have no intention on chasing her or leaving my girl cause I'm happy in my relationship. I just think it's fun to flirt with girls just for the thrill. What are your thoughts?
Heywood's right. Once in a while flirting is OK. If the girl becomes attracted you just say: "Oh i'm sorry but I actually already have a GF, I just liked to talk to you".
In my experience I've been talking to many girls and sometimes I only heard 10 minutes into the conversation (when things got physical) that she said: "You're a really fun guy and so, but I'm actually already in a relationship". Girls do it with many guys, so did my ex-gf when we were in relationship. You shouldn't be feeling bad about it, and who knows, it might even spark the relationship a little bit

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Wallie