Hey guys, Basically my current target is a girl I'm living with at Uni and have posted about before and I was just wondering if there are any mid-game techniques, games or ways to DHV that you guys might be able to share as I have to be attractive pretty much 24/7 so need a lot of mid-game material as she can see me anytime I'm in our University Accommodation.

Thanks guys

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Even if it takes until the day I die, I will be able to pick up girls.

Keep taking back girls that are prettier than her. She will get attracted for sho

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How far have you gone with her and how long have you been in this situation? How much friend zone vs lover zone?

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Whatever you do, don't get jealous or pissy if she brings other guys over. A lot of women (in fact, the most sensible ones) will have huge hesitations about hooking up with a roommate. It might happen at any point, if your game is on majorly, but it's much more likely to happen near the end of the lease/school year when there isn't the risk of a bad breakup leading to months of awkwardness. Just date the fuck out of hot girls and make her realize that you're preselected and comfortable, then keep taking her temperature every time you explain to her why you don't think you want to see one of them again. I think the hardest transition with a roommate is going to be kino escalation, because you're on a long timescale. You might try going to tango lessons with her, something to give you a sanctioned reason to put your hands on her. Then you can practice in your kitchen. Then...

Hey guys. Thanks for the advice. I've been in this situation since we moved in almost 2 weeks ago now. She's went home for a couple of days and is due back this weekend. And I've never brought a girl back to my place at all, ever! She isn't interested in salsa but is interested in scuba diving I think?

Is there a gameplan you can think of?
Thanks again guys

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Goodness, this thread totally misses the point of "what is attractive." You have to be attractive to attract girls. There are just no shortcuts. No amount of interesting "dates" or "DHVs" will make a girl attracted to you if you aren't behaving in a way that is attractive. This has far more to do with body language and voice tone than anything.

Being attractive + time with girl = getting laid. It really is that simple.

The fact that you say "I have to be attractive 24/7" tells me that you don't actually consider yourself naturally enough. It tells me you think you have to put it on. Let me tell you, girls aren't stupid (most aren't) if you are faking they will know. They might be fooled on a night out an you will/might get laid, but eventually it will click and you're toast.

You think when I'm with a girl I think "shit! Gotta be attractive now!" Of course not! I've spent years practicing and ALWAYS hold myself in a way that girls will be drawn to. For you being around this girl is an ordeal right? You are always thinking "shit! What do I say/do!?" This means your skills aren't there.

You need to go out and get that shit sorted before you ever even THINK about hitting up a girl you live with. It could go south very quickly.

Also, the fact that you have even posted this tells me you were not direct at all. If ou want girls you have to be direct. With your words, tone and body. You have to show attraction for them instantly. Being direct shows confidence and girls like confidence (duh!).

Anyway I hope this helps but you should really not be going for this girl. Tough to hear I know but it's the truth.

Spot on

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Hey guys. Thanks for the detailed reply mattr and I do try to always appear confident in my voice and body language and have received comments from the people that I live with that they think one or more (up to 3 of 3) of the girls that we live with are attracted to me so I'd say I've got the confidence fairly nailed down. I think I'm seen as the stone hearted alpha that can crack a funny joke, so my plan now is to connect to them on a personal level and have a 1 on 1 serious conversation with them. I was just looking for any conversation pieces or additional DHV material/ games you might have for when there are prolonged silences we sometimes have (especially in loud clubs)

Thanks again guys

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Let her fill the silence. If you are a confident guy you should be able to make girls laugh just by looking at them. Eye contact, cocky smile, hold the tension an let her break it by giggling.

If you are the confident alpha guy you don't need any routines. Let them pick you up. It's better to be interested than interesting.

I don't thing I could do that at all. I don't think I really know what I am doing. I'm just sort of wing-ing it. I seem to have them one minute, then not the next. It's so frustrating

Thanks guys, Please help.

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Definitely.

From my perspective, and this is probably stating the obvious but you're moving into social circle game now, which is nowhere near as simple as cold approach. Because of the unpredictability of social circle game, you won't find loads of material about it on the internet.

The good thing about social circle is its a bit more relaxed, and you have a bit of flexibility in your state. Night game/cold approach, you're state has to be 100% all the time. Social circle, not so much.

So be the attractive person you are, all the time you're around her. You have to tread the line between friend and lover here, and it can be quite difficult. What I have found works is organising a group of you to hang out, but when you're there, engage everyone, not just her. This way, you won't get too close to her to be put in the friendzone. It HAS to be casual. Look out for indications that she finds you attractive, and after a while, hang out with her a bit. Incorporate casual touch when you see her.

To be honest, your situation is quite difficult because you live with her. If things go south, its going to be a horrible year for both of you, so it might be best to not get close to her until later on. Uni girls are pretty forgiving about stuff like that. I slept and then dated a girl who lived opposite me at university, but it wasn't till the last 2 weeks of term that we got together and she gave the whole 'i've been waiting for this for so long' speech.