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Well cheers for the post really appreciated, but here is something I need help on, I mean its not like struggling with women but obviously their is no harm in ever wanting more, I have no problem holding a conversation with a woman usings whichever techniques its just that I am more of a day game person and hoping if you could swing across some brilliant "openers" cuz the city I live in is full of good looking women whom are always on their own, and its not the coward in me holding me back its the "opener" holding me back what should I say or do, I mean after that I feel at ease can easily chat to a woman, its just making the conversation start, your probably wondering how I'm at ease with women if I never open with them "so hence how do i ever hold conversations with them" but its normally thru introductions etc etc, I actually wanna go out of my own way and use PUA techniques so suggesting some great openers and in certain situations like book stores, coffee houses, clothing shops, etc would be awesome.... and another point how did you ever become so talented in the game thru practice or PUA lectures/meetings I mean I believe your a true PUA but how does one know when they are if u understand
How do you become good at pick-up? Well you need to put forth effort and time. You need to go to bootcamps, read material, and practice allot. I've been just learning as much as I possibly can about this, and I went to bootcamps. I went threw various schools of pua thought and adapted everything into my life. It's a constant progression really you do one thing then you want more. You are always trying to find ways to improve and once I started teaching I was challenged to be the best. I was also challenged to out perform other instructors. Some of them are just full of crap, and teach methods that don't work. They basically use people, and take their money. In return they get nothing out of the investment. When your a good pua you will notice a influx of women in your life. Pretty soon the number of women in your life will out weigh the number of men. Then you will start getting laid more and more. Eventually you just know when your a good pick up artist. My old friends without knowing I was a pua started asking me to help them, and now they're pick up artists. I basically also have hit on thousands of women. So I have been threw allot and adapted everything in such a way I understand women fairly well. To help you out with your openers you need to just keep your initial lines to girls indirect. For example today I opened an obstacle with this, "Hey do you know where the pet store is? I have no clue where a nearby store is?" I got her to write down the directions. While I had her writing directions I started asking for good dog names. I said I wanted to get two puppies and name one vanilla and one ice. They laughed then I threw a neg, and then I got an IOI. I had the girl qualify herself to me, and then I told a dhv story. It involved friends coming from chapel hill to hang out with me for the weekend, and another about valentines day. At the end of the conversation the hot girl my target liked me and I was in. Most of this success I feel comes from the way I deliver the material. How I tone my voice, and understanding how to react to these situations based off personal expieriance. My students when we go out have the knowledge they just lack expieriance on how to apply it properly. They need someone to visually show them how to get a girl attracted. It teaches them so much more than anything you can get out of the books.