Life feels awkwardly good as I did something that I never even considered doing. On Monday night, I took a woman I meant at a cafe to the movies, we started making out in the car, which led to me undressing her in the car, and getting a blowjob. Nice way to start the week.

Tuesday, a date with a girl I've been dating for about a month and a half, two months, and she blew me cause she was on her period and since she needed to get to bed early I left at 9:30. At 10, an old sex buddy I had, dropped me a text as she was known to do, when she wanted to have an orgasm.

On Wednesday, I sent a bury the hatchet email to my ex. I met her on Thursday she had broken up with her boyfriend. I fingered her on Friday. On saturday, we went Apple picking and when we got to her house no one was home, and good times pursued. On Saturday night, the woman on her period wanted to go to a town fair, went with her, asked her if she's still on the rag, and good times pursued when we were back at her place.

I live at home with my parents. I'm about 50 pounds overweight right now (losing it, was once 110 pounds overweight). I'm balding. I got a little money to live on at the moment, but grow broke through the month.

If you knew how bad off I was. Something I just won't get into. You'd believe that it's possible for anyone.

This is a succes story, but it means to no value for us other members. Rather describe HOW you got into a wet spell and HOW you did it. That would help us more then a 'bragging' story about your succes.

Wallie

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Got you! 10 Rules To Getting 4 Women.

1. Be A Man. This means that you need to take responsibility for your interest and have your standards and never deviate from your standards.

2. Make Her Feel: Read that line, it's not make her feel good. It's make her feel. A man that can create a range of emotions, fractionating from different emotions through a conversation, will enrapture a woman. Don't be afraid to piss her off. Tell her the movie she likes sucks if you think it sucks. But, on the first meeting or couple of dates, keep it playful as well. Don't tell her she looks fat or any stupid shit like that.

3. Be with her: Once you've approached a woman, be with that woman. It really is that simple. If you're not going to be with that woman for the 3 to 10 minutes that you're with her, and for the few hours you're on a date, if your eyes are looking for something better, than you're not a fucking man, you're a fucking boy with ADD and you know what, women don't want a boy like that.

4. Don't give a fuck about whether or not she likes you: A woman knows you're an attractive male by how much you give a shit that she likes you. When you know--whether you know it or not right now--that you can go out and get another pussy on your cock, another girl sitting right where that one is, she'll know that you're not fucking around. If you are unapologetic and without regret of your thoughts and actions, she'll feel that you are a man women want because if you weren't, you'd be putting her on the pedestal.

5. Treat The Child/Fuck The Woman: Every woman has a little girl inside her. She's scared. She's insecure. She worried about how things are going to turn out. She fears the future. Sex has a great deal of consequences. Relationships have a great deal of hurt. Men are dangerous. They also have a Woman in them that enticed, allured, curious, sexual, and looking for fulfillment. When you're addressing a woman, make her feel safe like you would a little girl, make her feel confident and trusting in you. When you advance on her body, treat her like a woman, sexualize things, and fuck her hard.

6. You're A Man, Be A Man, It's All Your Responsibility: We talk about the modern age of women. Fuck that shit. For every modern, neo-nazi feminist, there's a woman inside them that wants a man that approaches her, that quiets her fears, and takes away her responsibility, that makes her feel like he's in control and that she's not only safe with him, but that she isn't a slut either. You've got to turn off that slut switch in her head that makes her question whether you'll see her poorly. You do that by making the decisions when it comes to sex. You do it by taking her to the bedroom, by leading the interaction, and by taking her body (Yes, Always Respect Stop And No, but as was once said, "Touch Till The Ho says No!" Don't be passive, don't expect her to carry the bag, a woman must feel like the man has made the decision, and she's just followed along.

7. Never Lower Yourself To Her Level: This isn't to say that a woman has a lower level than a man. It means she'll test you with her shit all the time. The women I'm dating ask about the other women sometimes. I don't respond, I'll kiss them, or I'll stare at them (7.1 Don't Be Afraid of Silence, It's Your Greatest Tool). There are times when a woman will tell me that she doesn't want to put me out by asking me out to go somewhere to her, even after I said we'll go. I don't respond to those things. If they bring it upagain. I tell them to stop it.

7.2 On Approach, if You're Given a Stupid Question, If She Tries To Insult You, Look At Her Quizzically And Don't Respond. More times than not, I've broken more than a few women who thought they were too good for me, simply because I wouldn't lower myself to their level.

7.3 Never Answer A Question You Don't Want To Answer. One of the most powerful statements you can say to a woman to make her know she's dealing with an Attractive Male, is "I don't talk about those things." Don't cow.

8. Never be afraid of touch: Be respectful of a woman's reaction, but, never be afraid of touching her. The more you touch her, the more she knows you're comfortable with a woman and the more she'll believe you've been with a lot of women. Also it's a quick way to constantly know where the woman places you.

9. Know What You Want: Pretty self-explanatory

10: Let her know that her reputation comes first. By not talking badly or even too sweetly about other women, by never naming names, by never talking about anything on going, a woman knows you will protect her reputation.

I can identify with most of this. Great post! Keep 'em coming.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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Now that's some valuable information. Thanks!

Wallie

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This is some good shit right here.

Things I Learned From My Ex, Now That We're Back Together

She was with a guy who was very forceful, he played push and pull very well, causing her great emotional pain, and though she didn't have sex with him--which he bitched about to me, calling her frigid. She did a lot of things in the three months with him that she hadn't done in the undefined relationship we had for five months (she also had done a lot of stuff with me that she didn't do in previous relationships--but, lessons are lessons, never let ego get in the way).

1. When she says she doesn't do that, or finds it gross, it means you're not making yourself man enough to demand her want to please you. Never supplicate. If you want your woman to give you head, tell her that you want that. If she says no. Grab her, finger her, bring her to the point, and say it again... My experience with women is that it's better to arouse them to the point that they are in a fog--you'll be considered a very different forceful man in her eyes to the point that her submission to you is based on pleasure not pain. It's based on your strength and expertise as a lover, not your expertise at avoidance. The loser way that was taught by PUA's originally--and this works--is to go cold on her, treat her like toxic waste, don't even touch her, make her feel your absence. Now, when you're looking for the quick lay this is the best route because you don't really have to consider her emotions or building resentment toward you for the long haul. If you're looking to date this woman consistently, you don't want to make her feel guilt and shame over her uncertainty.

Making her feel a range of emotions with you should happen outside the bedroom. The ex will bring up the other girls that I'm dating occasionally. At first I brushed it off. Then, even though it didn't anger me as much, I said, "You Know what, you really Need To Stop! I told you before we started Dating that When I'm With You I'm With You Because That's Where I Want To Be. And I TOLD YOU THAT I WOULDN'T DISCUSS THE OTHER WOMEN WITH YOU!" Now you see, getting angry at her and avoiding her after this says that you won't take her violating your rules. Your a man with standards.

The only time to start fractionating in the bedroom is not when she won't do what you want. It's when she does what you said not to do. My ex and another woman I'm dating both feel insecure about their pleasure and ask me Are You Sure, Are You Okay With This, Is This What You Want To Do? I now go to stop doing it. I look at them. "I want to, but, I'm not a fucking child in need of a mother to give me permission, so I think maybe we should stop since it seems like that's what you want to be for me and I don't need a mother."

2. Be dominant. The latest thing I told my woman is that, when she told me that with her last relationship she did things she wasn't fond of and wasn't 100% sure she wanted to do. I told her that I'll always respect your stop. But I'll always demand we push forward and go deeper and I'll always take you deeper and further than we were previously. Then, I told her, I've played with that girl inside you long enough, now I'm going to take out that woman inside you.

3. Be Respectful/Be Disrespectful, She'll Respond Either Way: When you're respectful, let her know it's because you value her reputation. My line that got her butt naked, "I will never put my pleasure ahead of your reputation. But where your reputation is not on the line..." And I began to strip her naked on the second date we had without a single complaint. I've used that line on a 21 year old woman and she was blowing me in a car on the first night out. You can be disrespectful. Women will test that you're a man and remember her being uncomfortable is okay. Her being mad at you is okay. She tells you to turn around and you don't. Don't be shy. Stare at her openly. Know when to respond to her childish banter and when not to. I made this mistake once and it took me back two days with a woman to reestablish the man I was in her eyes. You can do it playfully, but, you want to be fully respected yourself and that means being occasionally disrespectful, occasionally going against her wishes, telling her about something you don't like about her look, insulting her movie pleasure.

3.1 Be A Man Not A Boy: Don't be disrespectful by talking about other women or looking at other women. The occasional flirting with another woman is only merited if she's not respecting you sexually or respecting you as a man that can get laid. Flirting with another woman in her presence is a mean technique and she'll bring it up, for which the less you say, the better. "It happened. Come here. I'm here with you, I know that." Kiss her.

4. When You Fail A Test Don't Fret Take A Day Or Two: I always text all four girls in the morning so they have me to think about all day and I'll often wish them sweet dreams if I haven't talked to them throughout the day at night. Outside of that even if I see one of them--like I have a writer's group, I might kiss her goodnight, but I won't invite her back to my place, and I won't go to her place. But I'll tell her when we will meet again. Let me repeat that. I'LL TELL HER WHEN WE WILL MEET AGAIN! Last week, I had a writer's group and I held her back and told her I'm not coming over tonight. I told her I'm going to a party on Friday--I had previously invited her and she said she didn't want to go. I told her I'll be leaving the party at about 9:30 or 10 and I'm going to come over. I might stay the night. (Notice I didn't say I want to come over. I didn't say that I'll come over if you want or if I can. It's I'm coming over.

Which Brings Us To The Final Thing I've Learned About As To Why The Dick Of A Man Got Further Than I Got As The Needy, Supplicating, Submissive, Pussy.

5. Never Ask But Respect The No (As an asshole you don't have to respect the no, you just have to be derisive enough and give her enough emotional pain for turning you down that she stops saying no. She may enjoy the physical contact for awhile but it won't last long and she'll build resent--my way, you get both the respect and the body): A man doesn't ask permission. He does what he wants to do. He understands that it's easier to get forgiveness than it is to get permission and that a man who lives on the permission of others doesn't get far. A woman doesn't want her man to ask permission. She wants a man who takes what he wants. She also needs to feel safe in that man's arms and know that he respects her and values her enough to listen when she's too uncomfortable.

Tell a woman what you're doing. I'm going to make love to you. If she doesn't stop you don't stop. A woman can always say no to what your plans are. But never ask them what they're willing to do unless you don't care. Asking a woman if she wants to go to a party you're planning on going to and are going to no matter what, acceptable, still masculine--it says, I'm doing stuff, your free to tag along. Asking a woman if you can come over is a child asking for mommy's permission. Always be doing and if it includes her she can say no I'm not comfortable with that or she can accept it.

Great posts, read them all.

Keep up the good work.