| This is a long post but a good one... Please keep your hands and feet inside the vehicle at all times while I take you on this ride into the vicious cyclone of self development...
The only reason a girl will sleep with you is because of your value as a man. By bringing value to the table, being a bad ass mother fucker, you will make girls horny. She will want to fuck your brains out and release your semen into her vagina, in hopes that your genes will carry over to her offspring and produce more men who are "alpha males." Women seek to mate with the best man that there is out there. They emotionally want to be impregnated by the man who will allow them (and their offspring) to live the best life possible. So, if you want to have and sleep with high QUALITY women, you must be a high value man. Live the best life you possibly can.
Now, how do you know if you are a high quality man? What type of man are you? Are you the type of guy that high quality women would really want to be a part of your life? Are you a guy who has value? Are you a guy who has an interesting life that women would want to live with you? Are you hustling your fucking ass off to live the best life for yourself that YOU want to live? Your "dream life" as you could call it.
Or are you the type of guy who works at Wal-Mart, sits around all week with his buddies on his off days, watching ESPN and drinking beer? What kind of girl would want to be a part of your life at that point? Honestly... I don't know many girls who like a guy who lives like that. It's dull, boring, lame, bound for depression, always feeling like a failure and when its over... You end up in a state of confusion as to why and where you went wrong because you did everything that "society" told you that you had to do to become happy.
The first step to all of this is realization. You need to realize your own status and value. Most of the time, you need to realize that you suck. Realize that you have no status and value. The way to really develop solid inner game is to start yourself at ground zero and really want to improve. Are you happy with your own value or could you be something better? Most times, the answer is, you can always be something better than you are now.
So you have two different options after your realization of yourself and what type of quality and type of value man you are. You can either accept yourself as who you are and what society has defined you as. Accept your value and status given to you. Or you can take action towards becoming something bigger than society tells you that you can be... ultimately becoming the person that YOU want to be.
Let's look at acceptance first. Alot of guys, people like my old friends and co workers, choose to accept the reality that has been given to them by others. Work a job that you hate but you are fully (and beyond) capable of because have little to no chance of failing. (Security) Make enough money to get by. Get a roof over your head. Never take risks. Get a wife. Have a kid. Live a basic life and survive as long as you can with "The Basics" because that is what society told you that you should do. You can be the guy who sits around with his buddies, drinking beer, watching ESPN and complain about how "you have it so rough." Maybe you can go to TGIFridays once a week if your budget allows it. You can achieve what society tells you that you will achieve or you can say, "Fuck That!" and want more.
From here, once you say "FUCK THAT!" and want more, you take action. A plan with out action is only a plan. It's not real. So, again, you take action to become the high value person you want to be. You start to do things that a high value guy would do. You start to live a life that a high value guy would live. Doing interesting things. Having access to tons of different resources to help you become better and better. You start to get the women that a high value guy would get because you are now living a lifestyle that a high value woman would want to be a part of. You have now entered the cyclone.
Become your own definition of a high value guy. Start taking risks. Stand out. Be different from the crowd. Achieve the things that you want to achieve vs. the things that society tells you that you should achieve. Have your own definition of happiness. Do what ever it takes to make YOURSELF happier and happier.
You want to put yourself into the vicious cyclone of self improvement in all aspects of your life. Always be wanting more. Never be "acceptant" of mediocrity. This is how you ultimately get better, higher value women... by becoming a better, higher value man.
Be a hustler. Be a guy who works for everything you dream of. Turn your life from the downward spiral of "some lame shit" into an upward spiral of "some pimp shit." Don't be afraid of living a bad ass life. Don't be afraid of failing... because you will still be a step ahead of the guys who are "average." Stay leveled and focuses and never accept failure by giving up. Use it as leverage. Learn from your mistakes in the process of becoming more high value. Always be wanting more and take massive action to get it.
Now, I'll wrap this up and relate it to pick up and women... You can either accept the quality of women you get. Accept the quality of life you have. Or you can take action to get the women that you want and always be taking action to get better quality women by improving yourself.
-Majik
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