Hello Fellas!

I gamed this HB9(she looks like Hayley Atwell+Jennifer Connelly) last January till the beginning of February. You can see my previous post here:

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At that post I wrote that I was concerned of her really having a bf or a sh1t test but I never see her walking together with a guy so it's safe for me to assume that she is single and she was just sh1t testing me. Anyway, I broke rapport and "pushed" her/ freeze out/ stop gaming her since the middle of February. I met her again in June and she gave lots of IOI, I missed her so I gave IOI back, tons of eye contact, etc. Logically, any PUA would just go in and win her but I have some issues here:

1. Being an Asian descent, my penis size is 1" below average(given average 6"). I've been doing penis enlargement; JP90 routine (http://www.pegym.com/forums/beginners-f ... utine.html) for around 2 weeks now and I have been noticing greater erection quality and I also felt that the girth is getting thicker as well. It will take 90 days to complete the routine and if I'm lucky I can gain around 1/2-1 inch. To anyone who's interested in PE please follow instructions carefully(e.g. don't jelq at 100% erection, warm up and warm down, master all beginner's exercise before going to advanced technique.)

2. I had back acne and KP scars that won't go away. I get a few back acne here and there once in a while and they heal quite easily but the scars just stay there which sucks. Also, I had KP(keratosis pilaris aka chicken skin/ bumps on upper arms, too much keratin, not contagious) and after avoiding dairy(I have to take calcium tablets to replace my calcium intake) and taking extra Vit. C, they seem to appear less and less. But still, the scars are still there. I have a tan skin and the scars are dark brown, so it's quite ugly.

3. I currently don't have a car which I perceive as a DLV. I've just turn into a senior at a university (she's a sophomore) and perhaps around 20-30% students commute with cars. I can afford a car but the insurance+gas fees are things that I have to think about.

4. I'm a virgin. Yes, this correlates to the issues above. I'm just thinking of all the horrible things that could happen if I f close (skin scars, small d1ck, no practical experience whatsoever)

I'm not bad looking (get hit on by girls once in a while) and I currently workout(bulking phase). I know what's in her mind, "Why haven't this guy ask me out?". I loosely follow the M3 Model and I'm currently at the ending of A2/ beginning of A3.


Now the question is should I pursue her right now or should I wait till I gain some penis length and ripped body? Will not having a car at university affect my game/ major DLV? Can waiting too long destroy rapport?

Any constructive reply will be much appreciated.

TREMENDOUS respect for you. Improving yourself massively. Keep gaming!

Thanks Bro for the motivation

Ok a few things.

(1) by the time you are hooking up and your penis is out for her to see, you are getting it in 99 times out of a 100, so you definitely do not have to worry about what happens when you get there. Worst case you last 5 seconds: who cares! happens to a ton of young guys, just laugh it off. You will be surprised but the VAST majority of women will want to see you again after you sleep with them even if you have a small dick and you suck in bed. This is part of their evolutionary wiring and social conditioning, you do NOT have to worry about performance.

(2) Yea, you should go for it. Do not be afraid of failure. You are just afraid of failing. So what if you fail? It will make you stronger.

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1. I appreciate your input TheFury, that surely gave me confidence. Maybe I'm just overthinking.

2. Because I have oneitis? haha.

Anyway thanks. I guess things aren't as bad as I think they are.

Hell yeah, you were overthinking! That's what usually happens.

With all of us haha. You're amazing. Keep on remembering that as you keep on finding ways to "throw the hat over the fence" with your interactions. By just kissing this girl, it gave her the confidence to kiss me back... and then proceed to fuck a total of 17 times the same month.

You're amazing, BoS(s).

Aaron

I say bullshit on a couple things.

First, your dick size won't matter. But your performance will. The better you are in bed, the more likely you are to remain fuck material instead of bff material. Women will deny this till they are blue in the face, and they possibly aren't even aware of it, but the more you make her orgasm, the more unable she will be to let you go.

That said, it's not life or death. The only way to get good at it is to practice, and the only way to practice is to get in bed with her.

My advise for when you do get her in bed, let the foreplay go. It's likely you won't last long, so use other means to please her and make it fun for her before you go plunging in. This means when she's begging you to fuck her, you don't do it right away. That way even if you only last 2 minutes, the whole episode was a nice long period of physical pleasure for her.

Lastly, my advice is this. There is nothing wrong with improving yourself, but try to make sure you're doing it because you simply want to be the best you can be, not because you feel like what you are isn't good enough. E.G. is the penis exercises. You're not hung like a horse, no problem. I am 5". That's it. And you know what, a couple weren't thrilled. But the vast majority came back many a time, and my ex couldn't handle much larger than me. I could hit her cervix at times which was not fun for her.

In summary, improve yourself, but learn to be happy about the qualities you do possess. Any woman who isn't willing to accept the things that aren't ideal about you isn't worth your time. They are friends or fb material at best. So feel free to do your best to make them as such.

Folks, guess what? It turns out that she does have a bf (chubby, taller than me, has a nice guyish vibe) and it wasn't a sh1t test(I thought it was) when she told me that I while ago, saw them accidentally when I went to the grocery store. Which make things harder for me, since I don't sarge girls in relationship anymore but it doesn't mean I can't because I have tested my game on several girls before (one in relationship sorta attracted to me, another also in a bf/gf relationship dumped his bf, even a married woman in her late 20s gave me her puppy looking eyes calling me smooth). So my game did work, but there are threads in this forum saying why you shouldn't game girls in relationship for the reasons of abundance of single girls or that girls that cheated on their bfs may also cheat on you later, etc. I have allowed the oneitis to develop and it's kinda hard for me to just move on. What're your views on this?


In the mean time, I'm learning the dance floor game by Skillsmethod. I realized that it's easier for me to game two years ago in a college party compared to now in a downtown nightclub.

Throw the hat over the fence, I gotta remember that line Aaron.

Thanks Bro for the advice, taking notes here.

I do still worry about my size tho. There is a guy who wrote his success story on pegym.com
http://www.pegym.com/forums/success-for ... -read.html
Basically he said that when he was 5.85 in length in high school he had a gf and after they broke up the gf was mad and spread words around the school that he had a small dick, he became a laughingstock of the school. Now I believe he has at least an 8 incher with 5.75 girth, a hung motherf*cker.

If a 5.85 almost 6, an average, became a laughingstock. What about me? (well, I guess his ex was a b1tch after all, I very rarely call girls that).

I'm glad to hear your story of girls coming back to you and that your ex can't even handle much larger than you vhou812.

Hey man, I hope those exercises work well with you, but as it's been said before, sex it's not only your pennis. Practice as much as you can, and practice tongue and finger work as well

Dude, none of these programs work. They just prey on peoples insecurities about their penis size. If it was so easy to have a bigger penis, everyone would do this shit.

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Well it took him two years, so its not easy after all and I don't pay a dime for the program nor do I take any "magic pill" so it's better than not doing a thing for my situation. What I experience after one month of consistent training is that my flaccid length increased (due to stretching) and better erection quality, it gets more veiny too. Anyway, I'll update if there's any noticeable increase in my erect size and I also need to be more serious about it, haven't been doing it consistently since I moved to my new apartment.

Dude i also have acne scars, don't mind them.
Real men have scars, whether its from fights, acne or whatever, it looks OK.
I even know some guys who hurted them self just to get scars.

I sometimes make jokes about it like i got shot a few times like Tupac or something like that .