So basically I dated this chick for 6 months and the entire relationship was hell...She cheated on me and kept going back to her ex boyfriend who she lost her virginity to. The entire relationship was on and off, when I dumped her she would beg for me back and I fell for it and when she dumped me she begged for me back lol so I guess you can say I was obsessed since i kept going back
Anyways I finally dumped her and cut off all connections to her and I kept getting calls from her for about 3 months.....Then one day I finally answered one of her calls and became just friends with her....now she calls me out of the blue to talk whenever something isn't going her way and I as a AFC would comfort her and make her feel better telling her all the things she wants to hear....so now I started getting feelings for her again and told her and she said she just wants to be friends but continues to call me whenever shes down....
so getting to the point....whenever I call her when I want to talk she doesnt answer or says shes busy and whenever she calls me even at the most random times I answer so basically she is just using me whenever she feels....what should I do??

So she cheats on you on several occasions when you guys were dating and now you guys are just friends? I think you need to revisit and think about the concept of friendship. If your ex claims to be your friend and uses you to make herself feel better while she ignores your needs, then you are clearly not her friend. If you are sticking around because maybe you have a shot at her again, I can tell you will get burned again and it won't be worth it.

Make it clear that you don't want anything to do with her. If she doesn't understand why, then explain to her. Maybe it is her ignorance, not malice. But be firm and clear about your intentions. These kind of relationships are toxic.

_________________
Ask Friend for advice on Romance and Relationships

thanks for your reply askfriend I really do need to re-examine what friendship is...It's just that she was the hottest girl I've been with in my eyes even though my friends tell me I've been with hotter girls...so I guess you can say that im really really obsessed with her....I'm going to cut off all ties with her and delete her number and next time she calls me I'm going to tell her straight up that I dont want to be friends with her.....I was thinking of doing this for a while but I guess I just needed that advice from someone else thanks again bro!

You're making the right choice. People who are like her drain your energy and influence your general happiness in life.

Yep dude, she's using you and it seems like you're not getting much in return. It's an imbalanced dynamic. Run.

_________________
Preston's Game Log - Please critique

She uses you. Plain and simple.

My advice, don't call her to be her friend, but instead USE HER when she calls you. She's obviously looking for attention when she isn't getting any from the males in your life. It opens you up for a pity fuck, but FOR HER. Everything you think about or want to say, do the opposite. And if she ignores you and blows up in your face about it, whatever who cares. We are counting the girls we get with, not the ones we haven't been with.

Try to play it like she is running to you for something she needs, turn that need into sex. And you will feel like a king.

I like where youre going with this but how can I turn it into sex?

It's too late for this, and you know in your heart it is. Move on.