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I am a dancer and am used to getting laid with other dancers. Lately I've been taking "daygame" quite seriously and have been approaching women on the street. For some time I tried routines and negging to see what happened, and it got some bad results. It's made me a little insecure about approaching on the street, but for the most part I'm getting there.
Typically I will wait for eye contact, and as soon as I get it I will smile. Sometimes I'll smile before, just because I feel like smiling. I've noticed that typically I don't get any smiles back.
I've found that women who make strong eye contact are perfectly willing to chat, although some of them are busy. I've invited them to a local bar, but they tell me about other things they have to do.
Am I going about this correctly? It's still feeling a little strange to me.
Street game is a good start for sharpening your body language reading skills and perfecting your situational openers. As someone noted earlier, it's creepy as fuck to be smiling without any approach invitation cues from the girl whatsoever.
Instead of focusing on verbal routines, focus on nonverbal routines. To shoot up your odds for an instadate or #close, what you need to look for are these nonverbal signs:
1. When your eyes meet a girl's eyes, she looks down and looks back up again and then smiles at you. Some girls will blush. You can easily number close these girls when you eye fuck them.
2. When you eye fuck a girl, she eye fucks you back. Some girls will look down repeatedly at your cock area while you're eye fucking them, these girls are easy to pull for an isolation bounce (instadate).
3. Some girls will get so close and start rubbing their breasts at your arm. These girls are easy to pull for an isolation bounce.
Since logistics is the most common problem during daygame (girls need to work, need to go to school, are going somewhere, etc.), start with an instadate (a big request) and when you get turned down (it's not your fault, the girl is just busy or is going somewhere) go for the #close (a smaller request). When you get turned down on the #close, go for an email address close (an even smaller request).
Your closes will be easier though and your flake rates will be very minimal if you can give girls maximum possible fun in 10 minutes or less while eye fucking them during the interaction.
For instance, inside a public transport, I opened this girl yesterday with a situational opener on her jeans which has so many holes in it. This is the current fashion trend at my place.
PUA: "How many booster shots did you get for rabies?"
Girl: "Huh."
PUA: (Points to her jeans with many holes.) "Was it a Shitzu puppy, or Spitz, or Pomeranian that ruined those?" (Eye fuck starts.)
Girl: (Giggles.) "No. We don't have a dog." (She eye fucks me back.)
PUA: "Ah. So it was a cat then. So was it a Persian cat or a Pusakal?"
Girl: (Laughing.) We have a Siamese cat. A relative gave it to us. (Her eyes twinkled. She's a cat lover.)
PUA: "I presume your cat has a different meow than the local cats. Do you speak to her in Thai when you feed her?"
Girl: (Laughing out loud uncontrollably.) "My cat is a HE."
PUA: "Oh. He has a big penis then because your cat is imported. Is he hung like a horse?"
Girl: (Hits my arm and looks at my cock area.) "You're so funny. I'll disembark at the corner. My name is xxxx. Here's my number. What's your name?"
PUA: "Hellhound. Pleased to meet you. Let's see each other sometime." (Shakes her hand.)
Girl: "Okay." (Winks.) "You're handsome."
PUA: "I know. See yah."

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