So I met this girl online about 3 weeks ago, and played it perfect. Built great Rapport and she was really into me. Only problem was that she lived an hour away, but we met halfway on our first date.

For our first date we met for coffee, then walked around some shops, and finally went to a movie. I used someones advice off this forum and put down the hand rest between the seats and put my arm around her, and I was making out with her before the credits even rolled. Then we went back to my car and madeout, and went out separate ways.

About a week passed and we texted everyday, and I tried making plans but she kept cancelling because she lived so far. Finally, I said "youre on strike 2. 3 cancelled plans and its siyanara!" So she said ok, and i said, "If i drive to come see you, you come next week to see me (an hour). She enthusiastically said "deal".

So, I drove to see her and we hung out at the beach and then her house (her parents were there). She gave me a handjob and madeout and basically were talking about farking if no one was there. I made it clear that the next day was my birthday, and I wanted her to come and sleep over. She said ok. BTW, I told her I was not looking for anything too serious, and that after this week I cannot hang out much. Stupid idiot I am lol.

So, the next day i texted her, and she said she may not be able to come that day because of working late.. I was disappointed and basically sent 4 or 5 more texts that day asking if she could come (I know I was to needy). I said "you lie" and she said no im not lying. She didnt end up coming. The next day I text her, "today is the last day I can hang out before my cruise." She said shed text me after work and lemme know. I called her later, but no pickup and no text back.

Its been 3 days and she texted me once saying "hi", and I replied, but no reply from her. Should I text her something like, "So technically thats 3 cancelled plans, and you know my policy...but I do find broom heads hot (inside joke)...Im in a conundrum. what do you think I should do?"" I'm not sure what to do at this point. Did i lose her by acting only interested in sex and saying Im not looking for anything too serious? Ughh.

Yes.

And also, you need to create an abundance mentality. There are tons of women out there. Don't seem so needy, desperate, and eager to get her in particular... She will be able to feel your desperation.

So what now? I haven't contacted her in 2 days and I leave on a cruise tomorrow for a week. Should I shoot her a text tom before I leave or wait till i get back?

Resist texting her or calling her.

You told her 3 strikes and that's it (not something I'd recommend saying because all girls are flakey especially until you actually have sex. Their emotions are all over the place.) You said it... so stick with it. Have fun on your cruise and forget about her... Go meet 10 other women on the cruise and it won't be very difficult

Thats it dude; she won't respect you if you go back after this.

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She wasn't the only girl I was talking to. I had went on a date with and made out/fingered/heavy petted a different girl the night before this (lets call this one girl B). I told girl B I wasnt looking for anything serious as well that same night. I tried pushing the fuck hard this week with both girls because I wanted to get it out of the way before the cruise, but because I pushed the sex too hard/told them I wasnt looking for anything serious I messed both prospects up. Oh well....

BTW, I'll never tell a girl I'm not looking for anything too serious again. That is the third or fourth girl within the last couple of months that I messed things up with by saying that. Funny thing is, they are really into me before I mention this- but I know I am only in it for the sex, start to feel bad, and give them an "out" by saying this. It's almost like girls are begging for a jerk! You cannot be nice in this game and get laid a lot. Never again will I mention this "precautionary statement" lol.

I don't know - I've said that before: "I'm not looking for anything too serious- " and the chicks I've talked to have largely reciprocated the same sentiment. I don't think it's necessarily that line in particular which might have scared her off. It is likely some other aspect of the convo that didn't go right.

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