Greetings gentlemen.
I got into PUA 18 months ago because I was frustrated with my inability to score with
legit hotties(real 8's and 9's) consistantly despite being above average looking and putting a lot of effort into it.
I watched and studied all the products you can think of as if I had a PUA exam coming up(mainly blueprint decoded). I went out as if it was my job. It eventually became my job since I got my old bouncer job only to practice more, be paid for it and use the social proof to my advantage.
This is actually one of the only things that actually helped me on the field(getting a bouncer job.) If you guys still believe chasing club sluts is worth it after reading this then I recommend you to try to get a job in a nightclub if you can this is a legit boost to increase your ability to get laid.
I have been working the doors for a long time now and been observing the field just as much as any of the hardcore guys here. I'm paid to watch the fucking dancefloor. I have seen more rejections than you can think of. I barely ever see a hot woman being pulled from the club by a complete stranger from a cold approach. When it happens, the guys dont fit the RSD stereotype. Are they the guys who are "having the most fun in the club"? Dancing silly, clapping hands and shouting "I'm awesome"? Did they listen to self-esteem tapes on their way to work and watch DVD's on how to get rid of approach anxiety?
No. They usually have other things going for them. Let's list what I have found the guys who pulled HOTTIES very often had in common.
-High status/high social proof in the venue: have you ever seen a celebrity entering a nightclub? Do you know what you are talking about when you mention "rockstar success"? I can tell you a top soccer player stepping on a dancefloor has a mindblowing effect theses guys actually can get laid with nearly whoever they want by just poiting the girl and clicking their fingers. No hyperbole.
Club owners and even club staff have a huge edge over you. They have a big social proof and are figures of authority in the venue. I dont understand why PUA's dont try to inflitrate nightclubs this is the only thing some of you could actually pull off and get success from. But you usually need connections and good looks to be accepted in this industry.
-Male model-tier good looks: If you dont believe looks are a crucial part of cold approach you are incredibly delusional and brainwashed.
Women have a high sense of entitlement and are only attracted to the top men. There are numerous studies online about hypergamy but as a new user on here they wont let me post links. If you havent got status and want to rely on looks you have to really stand out. Very few men turn female heads.
Let's see how Christiano Ronaldo gets laid:
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The Sunday Mirror claims the waitress was treated to one of Ronaldo’s irresistible chat-up lines last summer on a trip that would see him hook up with Paris Hilton.
A "friend" described the moment the two lovers met: "Ronni looked the girl in the eye and said extremely directly: 'Me, you, fuck fuck.'"
The woman apparently played hard to get, however, saying: "What?"
Ronaldo, perhaps realising he was being a little bit forward, changed tack. The window by his table was steamed up, so he drew a heart on it with his finger and said, "Me, you, kiss." Ronaldo then reportedly took the waitress back to his hotel room.
Was the hot waitress seduced by his core confidence? By how congruent his approach was? LOL; This is the kind of direct game you can pull off when you are the very elite of the LMS(Looks Money Status) hierarchy.
NOW LET'S SEE WHAT BEING A MASTER PUA GETS YOU: despite being a slayer of hotties according to RSD marketting, Jeffy Allen was exposed when he got rejected by this feminist writer:
Google: the girl who rejected RSD Jeffy. Shit bricks.
I don't pretend to be a Master PUA yet I have much hotter girls to bang or see for a date, how is this possible?
Google Tyler Durden and David D and Papa's girlfriends if you also wish. This is what going out 7 nights a week and devoting your life to "the game will get you".
Tyler's ex: google owen cook roxy.
David D and Papa from the game are married.
DO YOU THINK THESE BUISNESS MEN CAN TEACH YOU HOW TO BED HOT GIRLS?
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'd say the hotseat wasn't woth the money for me and I'll explain why below
coming into the hotseat the main thing I wanted to see was that this stuff was possible and looked like nothing special when gaming hotties. I live in scottsdale arizona, which for those who don't know is filled with hot girls, very similar to LA, in fact I would say even better quality than LA since I've lived in both places. My main problem is breaking through the bitch shields of the 8, 9, and 10's that are out at the bars/clubs because i struggle with that so I was really hoping to get the seeing is believing type effect from the hotseat that i could take back with me to az. i am well capable of getting 6's and 7's but get blown out regularly by hotter chicks
so, here's why the hotseat didn't make the grade...NONE OF THE GIRLS JEFFY HIT ON IN THE VIDEOS WERE HOT!!! One was a fat european who jeffy admitted he had to make her feel she was good enough to hook up with him...not the mindset a dime would have that's for sure...another video the girl actually approached jeffy who was miserable in the corner...again something a hot ass chick would never do cuz she doesn't give a shit and would never approach to begin with so that was useless. Techniques such as the mouth rape were used in some videos but it's like "ok great this works on a 6, but does it work on a 9 or 10?". That's what I kept asking myself and what I wanted to find out buy now I'm just left to my imagination and to hearsay on the forums which sucks.
The daygame girls were also mediocre at best and one was like 6'11...who the hell wants to hit on a 6'11" chick? not me
Finally the online game...jesus these girls were beat...which again begs the question..."ok this mass email system works on 5's and 6's but does it work on hotties?"...who the hell knows because there was no seeing is believing affect...jeffy even said with this system you get a handful of 8's and 9's and he's banged 26 girls this year so far using it, then WHY THE HELL NOT JUST SHOW US THE HANDFUL OF HOTTIES YOU GOT USING THIS SYSTEM??? I mean it makes no sense to show the 5's when you've gotten a handful of 9's using this technique so we can see that it works on them...I don't know about anyone else but seeing shit work first hand on hot bitchy chicks has a major impact on me and my belief system...I did not see this in jeffy's videos
lastly, hot chicks tend to roll out in groups and very often with high status guys, promoters, etc, so it would have been great to see jeffy approaching mixed sets like that or girls at a vip table and being able to isolate them away from the group...that's the kind of situations I deal with in scottsdale, but it was really just jeffy approaching girls by themselves or a group of 2-3 girls
Now the positives...jeffy was a solid speaker and I did learn things about physical game, body language, tonality, etc so that was cool...it was interesting to see jeffy hit on a girl and the student hit on a girl and see the massive difference between the two. Leading the conversation was probably the biggest thing I took away and how jeffy was able to orchestrate that throughout was interesting
The reality is that pick up is only a number's game and that you are much more likely to pick up average and below average women than hotties because hotties know their value on the dating market. They are on such a pedestal it's not even funny. Pulling a hot girl from a club, knowing these girls have sky high status and self esteem and a huge social circle ready to cockblock you is a real feat. I dont think PUA gurus are the guys to pull that off from the evidence there is.
I just want to expose PUA and mostly RSD for only getting you average and below average girls. A lot of guys came to PUA because they were mislead into thinking we could get hotties and that they werent on a pedestal. Let me tell you about legit hotties: they are rejection machines and they live on a pedestal. No RSD instructor or major PUA is banging girls of this caliber. Only high L MS people do and this is my point.
As a mma guy, when I grapple with a guy who went to ADCC my mind is blown. If I box with an international level pro boxer I feel the enermous gap in skills. If a wrestle with an elite grappler from the former eastern block I feel like the guy has super powers. And a friend of mine who sparred with Anderson Silva told me it felt like this guy what outside the fucking matrix. This is what seeing an expert in his field should be like. But seeing an actual PUA in action is just as facepalm worthy as any other guy getting rejected on the dancefloor.
Even if you have the ability to be successful I'm not sure this game is worth it. Is the validation you get from fucking club rats from time to tim worth all those sleepless nights and days of fatigue at work? All the drama, all the bullshit, having to listen to top 40 music busting your ears at 3am just to get the attention of some cockteasing hypergamous whore.
All this mass approaching shit is humiliating and only helps you lower your standards. Getting rejected left and right is like being a creepy doors to doors salesman for free. High LMS guys barely ever approach and yet they bang super hotties.
Legit hotties have a princess status and are rejection machine. They have spent their whole life developping their ignoring skills and raisoing their standards. You are a beggar to them when you stop them on the street to offer them an awkard moment of asperger's display while they were minding their princess buisness. This is the reality of daygame.
Keep believing in the pipe dream boys but you've been warned. Watch the end of "blue print decoded" , the testimonies part, and ask yourself: do these guys get laid?
GET REAL