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So yesterday afternoon I was with my friends and we were just hanging out waiting for a movie to start. We brought out tickets an hour early because we heard the lines were going to be long and then we just hung out and talked. Now I will describe my friends and I:

You can skip right over this if you guys feel like it. It is just trying to give you some info on how me and my friends are.

1. Tall guy, 6"2, White, Blonde hair, blue eyes, goes to Yale but came down here because he is done with classes. Chiseled face and has been told he can model, is a bit reserved, very speculative and thinks a lot.

2. 5"8 guy, White, brown hair, goes to UF:Gainesville and is almost done with college. Round facial features and very outgoing.

3. 5"10 guy, Latino, curly brown hair, palish skin, goes to UNC: Chapel Hill. Chiseled features but not really that good looking according to most girls and what others say about him, but is reserved and going to Dental school soon.

4. Then there is me Paramount21: 6 ft tall, Indian, jet black hair, olive skin, and goes to a D-1A SEC school. Good looking but no as much as guy 1, overthinks, overanalyzes, and well you know me.

This is our conversation.

So we talked. Friend 2 tells me "dude, you are going to be a doctor, those women are going to throw themselves at you".

Friend 1 says "that would depend on confidence, personality, and a lot of other things man".

Friend 2 says "he is smart and doctors have money, if he gets there, it will be like shooting fish in a barrel".

Friend 3 intervenes and says "Cousin is a surgeon, talks a lot about his struggles in dating life".

I think about it and say "You hear of pro athletes having women throw themselves at them, you hear it happening to musicians, but why never doctors and engineers?".

Friend 1 says "Because smart guys are in a way screwed, why else does a kid in a division 1 school who joins a frat get so much more action than a kid going to Harvard?".

I reply "Because kid in a division 1 school has the time to devote to all that stuff while a Harvard kid is too busy planning for the future, but in the long run he will be better off for it!".

Friend 1 says "true, women will look at the intelligent guy as the settle down option, the guy who can provide her a house to live in, the guy who can be her security blanket, but the muscle man will always be the one getting in one the action. Think about why the poor and stupid have so many kids while the rich and brainy have just one kid."

We all looked at him and nodded.

Well, conversation fizzled out from there and then it hit me! My friend was correct.

Guys who are brainy, educated, and intelligent have all these standards. A lot of these guys will often become their worst enemy and over-analyze themselves. Every rejection will have some sort of science involved. Every interaction has to go a certain way.

I applied to my situation. As many of you know, I have been pushing the "Why don't Indian men ever get with pretty blondes?" question down everyone's throat because I am an Indian guy that likes good looking Blonde women. But then I thought to myself and looked at the given situation. I am analyzing the life out of a situation. I am pretty much thinking along the lines of "well historically such relationships have been blah blah blah" rather than seeing a rejection for what it is, a freaking rejection.

One thing I have noticed that intelligent guys fail at is irrational confidence. Let us be honest, a lot of confidence comes from delusion. Believing you are Superman when you really aren't. Intelligent men cannot let their minds believe in delusion, intelligent men always have to make a reality out of something instead of just accepting it as it is.

Why else do you see athletes, athletic trainers, drug dealers, and small name musicians getting more action than scientists, doctors, and college professors?

Remember the "ignorance is bliss" saying? Well it has a lot of truth to it. Sometimes you are better off not knowing things. When I stumbled on to PUA forums I had to read endless threads by Asian and Indian men complaining about their race. A man like me never though of my race as a setback but then by stumbling on these threads I slowly started to analyze my actions.

Thinking a lot, something bright minds and educated minds tend to do can lead to self defeatism. So why waste time beating yourself up?

But, we care about action right?

So I took at as a challenge, I will believe and make my own reality. In my own reality, my Indian or Brown appearance is not some sort of a setback but an exotic delight to women. I am my own man. Screw the statistics, screw the "social norms", etc. If I want a girl, I go after her, pure and simple. I will approach 20 blondes before one says yes because that is what I want just as I will approach 20 Latinas if that is what I want.

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The last paragraph is all good for you. Given that this is in the lounge, I'll focus my answer on the theoretical side of this, and keep it away from you personally.

I disagree with what you say about intelligence Not every intelligent person over analyzes things. Not every "less intelligent" person doesn't over analyze things. Both intelligent and less intelligent people are equally prone to over analyzing social situations as each other. It's not like analyzing a case study or a scientific problem. Social interactions are things that every human being analyzes.

It's all about your personality and persona. Answer this - you take a guy who is already good with girls. You give him the persona as a musician who plays a few gigs, but is poor, lives in a downtrodden messy flat and can hardly pay the rent because his music career hasn't kicked off and likely never will. How many girls does he get? Well, he's good with women, so still quite a few. You take that same man and make him a doctor. He's got a flash car, a big house or stylish apartment, lots of money and a college degree. He's got the confidence almost bordering on arrogance that a lot of high end professional have. How many girls does he get? Well, he's still equally as good with girls, but now he's got money, a nice car and a nice place to go back to. He gets more women than the musician.

Intelligence is just another superficial element that really means very little. "Stupid" people can over analyze a situation just as much as an "intelligent" person. The reason a lot of doctors, lawyers, professionals etc. don't seem so good with women isn't to do with their intelligence, it's to do with their poor social skills. They don't know how to have a conversation with a hot girl. They're "nerdy" essentially. But you get "stupid" people who don't know how to have conversations with hot girls as well.

Drug dealers have the risk and excitement factor, musicians have got the balls to stand up and perform in front of people which is always a turn on for women, athletes have got great bodies and usually have great social rep because they are performing in front of hundreds of people and representing the entire college/town/team whatever. But you get a bad athlete, or a bad musician, or a drug dealer who is obese and shy, and they aren't going to get any women.

SOME intelligent people will over analyze things, yes. Some "less intelligent" people will do likewise. Some intelligent people will be intelligent, good looking, charming and get into girls pants before the "stupid" people have even got into the bar. Ultimately, it's just another element of your being. If you make the most of the tools you've got, then you'll get women. If you don't, then you won't. Intelligence doesn't equate over analyzing necessarily and it doesn't equate doing any better or worse with women than anyone else. It's the other aspects of your personality that do that.

where esta el problem de le looks skills360

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

Well i was in high school and all my class mate say i was so ugly with big ass lips and a big nose... So i went to my mon and told her, and my mom says that i am "the most beautiful kid in the world"....

Why do women and dudes at my high school think i am this ugly dude probably a hot dude 2, and my mom and my aunt think i am hot dude 10. Do you think is because my own mom and aunty were attracted to me and my skills since i came across as a humble dude. Or do you think the dudes in my high school were jealous since i am so beautiful with a bold head that shapes like the head of a penis, so they automatically associate my big head with a penis, so they shit test by calling me ugly? and the dudes see all the attention that i am getting and try to amog. Thanks in advance this is something that i am still wondering through out my youth.

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The claim in the title is actually not true. Women don't like idiots. They also don't like dorks. Most girls I have slept with, even the bimbos, slept with me more for my intelligence than for my looks. I was able to impress them with stories, explanations of anything they asked, and being able to talk about any subject they brought up in depth, and it got me places. The people that succeed the most are those that have multiple qualities, and intelligence is a very, very big plus. Intelligence isn't juts an ability to recite formulas and theorems. It's being educated and worldly, and being able to talk in depth about any subject and teach them about anything that they ask about (be it philosophy or how a plane flies). That turns women on like crazy.

For perspective, last night my guy friends at a party were puzzled that women weren't tripping over each other and competing for my attention, because my friends know about my past. The reason is that looks alone don't get you laid. Girls don't swarm to guys just for being good looking. I didn't feel like gaming (party was full of really ugly girls), and wasn't out to get laid that night. I wasn't approaching girls and was just looking for old friends that I knew. As a result, girls weren't going gaga for me. It's true. Ugly guys basically don't get laid. However, looks are only a pre-requisite and get you in the door when you open, but your personality has to do the rest.

It's easy to find a good looking person, its easy to find an interesting person, its easy to find a dominant person, and its easy to find a smart person. If you want women to really fall for you, you have to be all four, and that's not easy or common. There are tons of "handsome" guys with the intelligence of a cow and the sophistication of a woodscrew. They don't actually get laid that often, because they 1. tend to be boring as fuck, and 2. have "pretty boy" personalities, which are great in high school, but not even remotely alpha. They get stuck in the mode that helped them get laid as teenagers and don't grow out of it.

On the other side of the coin, a lot of smart men have entitlement issues and think that just because they have a degree in astrophysics, it entitles them to a harem. They also lack any and all social skills and a life outside of books. On top of that, they're usually in horrible shape and have no hygiene. Trust me, I know many. No HB wants to be with someone like that.

I do disagree with doctors and lawyers being introverted. A lot of med schools and law schools push being well rounded and students have to have good extra curricular activities in order to get in.

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Buddy, you sound like a huge chump who resents women because you can't get them to play with your ding-dong.

"Bitter men are not successful with women."

"Guys who are making money don’t bitch about the economy; guys who just won their lawsuit don’t bitch about the court system; and guys who are getting laid don’t bitch about women."

Men who claim that women are not attracted to intelligence clearly indicates that he is too dumb to understand that women want different types of intelligence.

Some women want musical intelligence
Some women want kinaesthetic intelligence or intelligence in bodily movements i.e. jocks, athletes, football players, dancers, martial artist, basketball players and even people with a swagger walk is a form of kinaesthetic intelligence.

Women are design to reject inferior human beings and mate with High Quality men.
(although there are ways to circumvent and exploit loopholes)

If a woman rejected you, it was not because you were too intelligent.
It is because you are an arrogant retarded prick. The woman was right for rejecting an asspie such as you. Generalizing things and making false assumptions about women from subjective limited experience.

I see these puahating loser virgins all the time complaining about how evil women are because all we do is reject intelligent men.


We love intelligent men, it is those mentally retarded men that we reject.
If we rejected you, that is because you are too mentally retarded to understand what women want/need/desire etc.

You are total virginal freak. You have no understanding of women at all.

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Fucking mentally masturbating keyboard jockey thinks intelligence is all about I.Q.

what an epic facepalm of a FAIL.

For christsake's grow up. I am tired of baby sitting manchildren online.

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I was about to respond to this post but it seems Tiffany stole my thunder. . . although . . . I think I would have phrased my thoughts with a gentler voice.

The biggest mistake unintelligent people make is believing that they are intelligent.

*Confidence is not born of delusion. Confidence is born of knowledge and ability. Delusion is born of ignorance. One is self serving, the other is suicidal.

**360. Ever hear of the idiom, "A face only a mother could love"? In your case, add "aunt" and you'll figure out your lifelong mystery.

That! ^

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Lol! thanks!

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Who the hell was that intended towards? I just knew you were a women because you were too damn indirect to even address the poster, fucking learn how to quote stupid!

Oh you speak for all women? Alright so LOOOVE Intelligent men and nice guys and hate those douchebags and badboys, you hate them so much you spread your fucking legs for them to plow you to another century. Seriously, take care of your 50 something cats and get off this thread where you add no value.

Seriously can't get a real discussion going without some dumbfuck coming into a thread and throwing out insults like they are in kindergarten.

This time it is a "woman" (most likely some lonely old users alternate account).

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This is why the PUA community needs more women to post. 1000 men will tell a guy something and it will make no impact, a woman tells him the same thing, and see how quickly he'll stfu

Only downside is that you clearly like The Wedding Singer, awful film...

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I'm intelligent and it is a HUGE advantage, and when I act like a dumb fuck like us over analytical people sometimes do I get the scorn of a woman like you just did. I actually very much like the advice she has given because it is quite honest and said with the passion that women feel when we act this way. I say we because it could easily be directed at me as well. I'm an intelligent, arrogant prick who has an ego. I like to ALWAYS, ALWAYS F'N WIN!! But sometimes admitting you are wrong is the only way to become better. Her answer is spot on. It's so good I would almost agree with you that it's a man's fake account except the frustration she has. She obviously is attracted to intelligent men and has her own experience on the matter. I very much like Tiffany's advice.