Aaron Sleazy - Why Cold Approaching is Pretty Much Useless



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PostPosted: Mon May 20, 2013 5:42 pm 
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My style has been and continues to be, "BE An Interesting Man!" I go to Seminars, Writing Groups, Hang out at bookstores, go to the movies. I go to a gym regularly. I attend a monthly supper club. I go to Conventions on various fun topics. Everyone is easy and fun to talk to and you meet people quite easily as well.

When I go some place warm like this, some place where I'm surrounded by people that are like me or with my interest, I've found that 1) 3 out of 10 women will almost always go for you (they might not always be the women you want. 2) 3 out of ten women can be talked into giving you a chance. 3) 3 people aren't interested. 4) 1 Person usually doesn't like you at all. That's a crass break down, but, it's worked very well and been my general experience.


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PostPosted: Mon May 20, 2013 7:34 pm 
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I think the lesson here is not "fuck cold approaches", the lesson is don't underestimate how easy it is to get girls when you have a shared activity.

To illustrate this, the first time I got my dick sucked was at an archery club.

Archery...

And it certainly wasn't because I had game, back then...

Do something, anything with your life, and you instantly become more relatable.

"But once you free up time in your schedule to “sarge HBs”, the situation is much less favorable."

I think this is a huge insight. The vibe you give off of having "free time" is not helpful to your cause. There's a fine line between being gutsy because you approach and seeming like a loser because you've got nothing else going on but to hang around random women.

In favour of cold approach, it can be excruciating when it goes wrong, but it holds up a mirror to you in a way that nothing else does. I agree that it's character building.

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I'm going to go ahead and take odds with the claim.
I'm also going to qualify it with the following: daygame is a waste of time for most guys, but so is night game for that matter.
I know guys that do very well for themselves with daygame.
The fact remains, if a fit, good looking guy (legitimately good looking, not this "handsome" chump bs that gets thrown around for every 3rd guy), wearing nicely matched and fitted, high street brand name clothes, CASUALLY starts a conversation with a decent looking single girl, and does not act like the creep most guys who pick up the book of dark sorcery that is PUA are, then he will not have to perform circus tricks to get her interested, and to get a date out of it. I know this for a fact.
The biggest problem with people who go in to PUA, is easiest explained with an analogy.
I like Muay Thai. I also know a lot of guys who like stand up fighting. Most of them... don't do any, nor have they. However, those 140 lb guys with the stringy arms and the 115 pound bench press have seen all the videos, and read all the books, and they got it ALL figured out. They might have even gone out for 3 minutes of "bagwork" when they saw one hanging in their cousin's garage. They've never seen what a gym looks like, and they don't ever train endurance... Despite this, they COULD go out and kick anyone's ass, with their superior agility and mastery of technique. but... the only strange thing about it is, you never actually see them spar, let alone fight matches.

You can read PUA until you're blue in the face, and you can approach thousands of girls until they all look the same, but until you sort yourself out, you may be able to score drunk sluts from clubs, but you will not be able to hold down a hot girlfriend, period. PUA is only one tool that you have to grow to be able to use. If you have no education, no career, no money, no assets, no hobbies, if you're out of shape, have crooked teeth, acne, and you smell funny, no amount of PUA will help you land a sober HB. 70% of PUA is self improvement, 20% is confidence and practice, and 10% is "tricks" and tips. People have to realize this before they fancy themselves the next mystery.


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PostPosted: Sat May 25, 2013 8:27 am 
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Ohh, man, aaron sleazy the scammer. Oh man, ooh man. Not him again.

Aaoron sleazy lacks understanding about PU and women.
He just writes retarded essays and sell's SPAM coaching advice.

We could refute and make counter arguments to everything he ever wrote but we prefer to make him suffer being a cuckold as a consequences for bashing pick up artists.

Aaaorns sleazy's penalty for scamming people and pretending to know shit will be his lack of options. His cuckoldry will be his punishment.

Most of the time aaron sleaze bag trolls puahate to steal anti pua ideas.

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 Post subject: He's at it Again!
PostPosted: Sat May 25, 2013 2:01 pm 
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Hey guys,

Aaron Sleazy's at it again! Check out this post:

http://www.aaronsleazy.com/forum/viewto ... =15&t=1918

Some guy went by, fed up with the gimmicks, it sounds, of PUA, and wanted to know more about this anti-pickup movement, namely if it does anything beyond tear down bloggers/authors, then say - The End -

Look at the defensiveness! Look at how he lashes out at that guy for simply posing cordial questions!

When you've got to be that defensive, that clearly shows something's up.

Plus who the fuck has moderated forum, where EVERY POST is subject to approval??!

What a fucking faggot!

That's definitely one way to have a forum where every post is sterling and says nothing but praise about you.

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PostPosted: Sat May 25, 2013 2:41 pm 
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Ohh, man, aaron sleazy the scammer. Oh man, ooh man. Not him again.

Aaoron sleazy lacks understanding about PU and women.
He just writes retarded essays and sell's SPAM coaching advice.

We could refute and make counter arguments to everything he ever wrote but we prefer to make him suffer being a cuckold as a consequences for bashing pick up artists.

Aaaorns sleazy's penalty for scamming people and pretending to know shit will be his lack of options. His cuckoldry will be his punishment.

Most of the time aaron sleaze bag trolls puahate to steal anti pua ideas.

Dude is legit! like him or not...

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A mall? A sportsteam?

Come on.... I don't 'try' to find the place to run day game. I live my fucking life. I run day game when I see the moment to strike. It's a reflex now.

The only time I truly go to FIND pussy is evenings when I'll go to a number of bars/clubs to sarge.

I've never worried about the lines, places, tools, pawns, etc.... I learned the concepts... the why's, the how's, the reasons... the mental aspects... If you learn that - where you go doesn't matter - it becomes part of you!
Couldn´t agree more. Running around and opening girls that roam the streets randomly, actually going into the streets with the intention of doing that always appeared rather lame to me. If you do cold approaches the way Rodeo suggests (and the way I do as well) you will see that the success-rate will be much higher then the original post suggests.


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PostPosted: Sun May 26, 2013 11:35 pm 
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Dude is a ..
1. We do not respect cuckolds who have no options and no ability to get a shitloads of High quality women.

2. He has no ability to convince his wife to allow him to have sex with other women.
If you are a true master seducer and are really good in attraction then your wife should have enough love for you to allow you to have an orgy and get your dreams and wishes fullfilled but he ca not. He is nothing but a wimpy failure of a trash.

3. Has no capability to have an orgy.

4. He always chickens out everytime someone challenges him to a pick - up competition

Aaaorn sleazy is nothing but mentally masturbating dweeb of a loser.

A fraud.

He bashes and made several dozen libels, false claim and defamation against carlos xuma, richard la ruina, sinn and adam lyons.

We made an investigation on him and found out he was a puahate moderator and bashes every PU guru in this forum. A hater so to speak.

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PostPosted: Sun May 26, 2013 11:57 pm 
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Dude is a ..
1. We do not respect cuckolds who have no options and no ability to get a shitloads of High quality women.

2. He has no ability to convince his wife to allow him to have sex with other women.
If you are a true master seducer and are really good in attraction then your wife should have enough love for you to allow you to have an orgy and get your dreams and wishes fullfilled but he ca not. He is nothing but a wimpy failure of a trash.

3. Has no capability to have an orgy.

4. He always chickens out everytime someone challenges him to a pick - up competition

Aaaorn sleazy is nothing but mentally masturbating dweeb of a loser.

A fraud.

He bashes and made several dozen libels, false claim and defamation against carlos xuma, richard la ruina, sinn and adam lyons.

We made an investigation on him and found out he was a puahate moderator and bashes every PU guru in this forum. A hater so to speak.
A couple of my friends has actually went out with sleazy. One more than once. Sleazy is a legit seducer. You don't have to like it, you don't even have to accept it but it is what it is.

Also, I agree that Sleazy is a conceited asshole with low self esteem. Being a good seducer does not make one a cool person and Sleazy is a perfect example of that.

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PostPosted: Mon May 27, 2013 12:12 am 
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A couple of my friends has actually went out with sleazy.
(sarcasm)
OHH Man, I am so mentally retarded and gullible that I actually believe in people's fabricated stories online without any proof or evidence.
(sarcasm)


A story without evidence or proof is akin to hearsay. No videos, no ego validation for you. Try again.

I have evidence of his slanderous libels against adam lyon, richard la ruina and carlox xuma from his previous forum handles but you don't.

You shut the fuck - up and stop advertising and marketing aaron sleazy.

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PostPosted: Mon May 27, 2013 12:18 am 
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Aaron sleazy himself is an internet marketing scammer. A hyporcrite.

He bashes and hates PU but hires professional internet marketers to post in forum and to market his shitty sex stories

Use an I.P. tracer software and trace the I.P. address of his aaron sleazy forum handle in puahate.com and you will see he has so many troll accounts connected.

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PostPosted: Mon May 27, 2013 12:27 am 
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This belongs in the hall of fame for bans from the Aaron Sleazy forum.

That story above I posted; well now there's been a development.

http://www.aaronsleazy.com/forum/viewto ... =15&t=1918

THEY BANNED THE GUY! And you can even view the candid, respectful original post this guy put up before getting banned.

You see Sleazy has this "guest writer" named "EagleEyes" who by now has written probably close to 10,000 words specifically trying to take down RooshV.

The quote that they decided to use as basis for banning him:

"EagleEyes, your hard-on for RooshV has lasted longer than 4 hours, and you need to call a doctor."

Classic, lol.

I've said before and I'll say it again: "Never trust a fully-moderated forum."

I understand he lost his moderator role over at PUAHate for constantly banning people who would mention his conflict of interest in selling pickup books, lol.

What a dipshit.

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PostPosted: Mon May 27, 2013 12:37 am 
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Dude is legit! like him or not...
I had sex with britney spears and that's true, whether you like it or not.

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2 people can play the same deception and scamming game.

Aaaron sleazebag bashing and making negative comments and other slander, libels against richard la ruina/sinn/ carlos xuma/ adam lyons etc is unacceptable and will not be tolerated especially from someone who has ZERO in field videos.

We should file a lawsuit against aaoron sleazy.

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Ok now we are getting off topic... If you do not like the dude cool... The dude is legit (as warped mindless says he has sarge with 60, teevesters and others), but more importantly is that most of his advise matches a lot of what i have seen in the field. Anyways back to warm and cold approach... If you learn how to do warm approaches or to force approach invites, or to identify sexually available girls. It will make seduction super easy and efficient, before and during the whole process. But the only way to really find out this to FIELD TEST.

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PostPosted: Mon May 27, 2013 3:19 am 
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we are getting
Still, he ain't got any in field videos.
All of his words mean shit.


Have a bit of intellectual integrity buddy.

Plus, any real PU understands that the purpose of cold approach is to make it warm but he attacks without setting his facts straight. He is deficient in his basic knowledge about PU.

But of course I understand that he is just trying so hard to make money out of the anti-pua market niche by attacking the straw man.

Straw men are concepts which has no valid grounds. They aren't factual.

Even the newbies has in field videos of sex but he doesn't. What a scamming douchebag.

He attacks any competing guru so that he can monopolize the seduction/attraction market.

He is a fraud and I will repeat. HE HAS NO IN-FIELD VIDEOS, just stories.

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