| I'm going to go ahead and take odds with the claim.
I'm also going to qualify it with the following: daygame is a waste of time for most guys, but so is night game for that matter.
I know guys that do very well for themselves with daygame.
The fact remains, if a fit, good looking guy (legitimately good looking, not this "handsome" chump bs that gets thrown around for every 3rd guy), wearing nicely matched and fitted, high street brand name clothes, CASUALLY starts a conversation with a decent looking single girl, and does not act like the creep most guys who pick up the book of dark sorcery that is PUA are, then he will not have to perform circus tricks to get her interested, and to get a date out of it. I know this for a fact.
The biggest problem with people who go in to PUA, is easiest explained with an analogy.
I like Muay Thai. I also know a lot of guys who like stand up fighting. Most of them... don't do any, nor have they. However, those 140 lb guys with the stringy arms and the 115 pound bench press have seen all the videos, and read all the books, and they got it ALL figured out. They might have even gone out for 3 minutes of "bagwork" when they saw one hanging in their cousin's garage. They've never seen what a gym looks like, and they don't ever train endurance... Despite this, they COULD go out and kick anyone's ass, with their superior agility and mastery of technique. but... the only strange thing about it is, you never actually see them spar, let alone fight matches.
You can read PUA until you're blue in the face, and you can approach thousands of girls until they all look the same, but until you sort yourself out, you may be able to score drunk sluts from clubs, but you will not be able to hold down a hot girlfriend, period. PUA is only one tool that you have to grow to be able to use. If you have no education, no career, no money, no assets, no hobbies, if you're out of shape, have crooked teeth, acne, and you smell funny, no amount of PUA will help you land a sober HB. 70% of PUA is self improvement, 20% is confidence and practice, and 10% is "tricks" and tips. People have to realize this before they fancy themselves the next mystery.
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