When you hook up with a girl who is seeing someone else or you are running great game that you have the girl considering doing the deed with you. You suddenly become the new guy in her life who provides a little something different...even if she does give you the bf objection, you can see her giving you a little something...does this get you down when you look for your own special lady to settle down with?

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Yes, completely.

If you feel alone, please don't! Not only has this made me hesitant to settle down with that special girl, but has also made me never really able to trust previous girlfriends that I have had for the fear of this exact reason. I personally try to stay away from girls with boyfriends maybe just because I am a compassionate guy and know this fear, but I know that there will always be guys who don't give a shit. I can't say that I can give you an answer on how to get over or deal with this but I can say that I feel the same way you do about this situation

At least someone else knows what I am talking about. I am still young and that may influence the way I think or it may be because I am still relatively new to this whole playerish lifestyle, but I know better. Just need to keep working on getting this perception stuck in my head.

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Ya I guess you just have to give them a chance to earn or posses your trust until they give you a reason not to, and if that is the case just move on and learn. Like I said I have this same fear and looking at it from a perspective with all emotions aside it would be foolish to let it hinder how you act or to prevent you from giving a quality girl your trust who deserves it. I'm glad you posted this because it was a sticking point in my inner game because I had never really thought about it and didn't trust anyone, but now realize that it's only hurting me to continue doing so.