I made a thread soem days ago about women who date other guys and how to get over that.

As Im learning more about this chick, Im starting to realize she does the same thing to each guy, uses the same lines, isn't selective, doesn't want to commit, wants to play the field, tries to collect as many as she can, and just "uses" them all.

Theres nothing you can do to curb this kinda behavior right? Just cut your losses and realize you got played right? (Now I know what a trophy HB9 feels like.) It's all fair since its not a LTR, but wow I feel cheap.

Trying to change someone else's behavior is futile, as a man you either adapt or cut them out of your life.

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Girls that are players are generally not people you ever want to date. Just like us. Would you trust YOU if you were a girl? On the other hand... As long as you're not doing anything you don't want to, if an HB9 wants to use you for sex as a boy toy, what do you have to lose? How many guys here would say "no" to (insert your favorite model/actress/whatev here) wanting to use them just for sex?

remember that you don't want these kind of girls for a relationship. If this girl doesn't live up to your standards then you just either have them as a fuck buddy or find others.

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Focus on what you control: YOU.

If you stay with women like this you are passively condoning their behaviour. You don't control what she does, so focus on your behaviour. If I were you I would just not tolerate it.

If you are known as an assertive person people will treat you as such.

Cheers, Jack.

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Today I took a hard hit. All that attraction building to realize... damn a date with some other guy.

It doesnt affect my performance when talking to her, but damn that just makes her less attractive.

Are there any dudes that do not care in the slightest if shes gaming other guys? Would love to pick your brain about this.

We are players, or at least we try to be. We don´t judge our brothers in arms for that. Not here in this forum, not in the real world. Actually we help each other to become even bigger players.

So what the fuck should be wrong with chicks that do the same? We shouldn´t judge them, we should include them into our learning process.

Any PUA that get´s played by a chick and complains about being "used" has double standards, because what we do is exactly the same. Learn from the experience and eject or accept the challenge, is what I think.

Well I probably over reacted today.

I told her maybe its not for the best. While she was in a high state from having gone on a date with the guy previously.

Thing is, most girls should feel lucky to get with me. Im not God's gift to women, but I treat women right and I dont like the feeling of being just another one on the shelf. Also she uses word for word almost the same lines on other guys as she does to me. I guess in the moment I was pretty disgusted. Afterwards I cared less.

Also there might be some girl Game books out there. I talked to another girl and she was using nearly the SAME exact lines. Sentence structure. Everything. Could just be a coincidence, but the resemblance was uncanny.

Of course there are "game"-books for chicks out there! I just ran into that recently and posted on this subject/experience. Titled it "Have you met THE RULES yet?" (PUA Lounge)...

Yeah 'The Rules' was out long before there was literature for men on the topic of Game.

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A. Goddamit I love player girls. So much fucking fun, because you just know there's none of that relationship baggage waiting for you. Plus they really give you a run for your skills, and bring it all to the forefront. So much fun.

B. Nearly all women are like this. Some are conflicted over it, some choose not to play, and most choose to play in their own "invisible" way. You just caught her, which leads me to...

C. Don't you use the same lines and tactics on all the girls you want to play with? Don't you practice your routines over and over to make sure you get it even better for the next one?

What exactly is the difference?

Or are you just mad that she's outplaying you?

Don't take it personally, she's just at a higher level than you are...you'll get there eventually and maybe even bypass that chick.

And yes, 99% of women sound identical when they're in the same state. Horny girls almost always sound a like. Sad girls almost always sound alike. Excited girls almost always sound alike. So a lot of it is just, that's how girl are, you know? I've seen women use the exact same sentence on me that another used the day or week before. It was weird at first, which is what you're experiencing: a paradigm shift, beginning to understand that girls are players too..

They're way better than us. Not only do they discuss all this shit with their friends, constantly, but there are tons and tons of books readily available about how to play men and get what they want from us.

Then they say PUA is wrong because it's manipulative.

And some guys really start to think that maybe they're right...

Because...

...that's how fucking good they are at Game. They know every trick in the book because they wrote it and shared it with each other.

Exactly like we're doing here.

See what I mean?

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Thanks for big response. Also every where I ask they always say "get rid of her," but to be honest I'd like to be one of the guys that just doesn't care.


When it's ambiguous who she's sleeping with I dont care. But when you KNOW that tonight she's gonig to see this guy and get screwed it's like wow, tearing me up inside.

I really dont like the feeling of being used or the whole sloppy seconds thing though, so it's a conflict of emotions. Part of me wants to just leave her, but I dont want to overreact if it was just my imagination. Is it okay to just ask, in a joknig playful way to see if it really is true?

Edit: Do small freeze outs hurt or help in this kind of situation? On one hand it makes you a little more scarce, but at the same time cant that give her more time to get into the other guys?

Man, remember one thing. All this stuff we learn, all this stuff we read, its all about one thing: you control the game, you get those you want. If you think it sucks she dates other men, well, dont lower your standard, period. Thats not a person you want, is it(be honest to yourself)?. Who the fuck wants a girl dating other men. Its stupid and senseless. And no, she is not a player, she got other options and thats why she dates(you failed on the attraction/comfort part). Move on mate and this is the best option for you. You dont have to say bye, just prove for yourself, that you also got options and with clear mind, you can decide later, what you want from her.

Good luck.