OK to start of, I'm no AFC I have been gaming for a while, I know how most of this works, and that's why I fucked up.

I have been on and off girls for a while, but this one was special, I completely fell in love, like deep, really deep without lube. Now You have to know the whole story to be able to to help me out here.

She got put in my group for film, I instantly was interested in her, so from the beginning I didn't talk to her much, and when I did, I wasn't the nicest person in the world...I didn't do any kino...well because I really liked her and didn't want to play games, a year went by I dated other girls and had sex...yet near the end of the year I got really close to her, talking more, calling, going out, at this point I was completely in love. At some-point we went out to the club(before this I was going to tell her at another time, but the words didn't come-out) so she kept nagging me to tell her what I wanted to say the other day, so I thought she liked me as-well, she also kept asking if I would miss her over the holidays, and I always replied no in a nice way. So in the club I told her, and she was so confused, she kept saying to me I thought you didn't like me, I thought I was just someone you spoke to when you're friends weren't around.

She hugged me, bit my shoulder gently and so I got my hopes up high, very high. So I told her, lets go outside and talk, she got up and said let me go to the toilet first, she was in there for one-hour, most likely talking to her best friend about it, she came out and started giving me the col-shoulder. We went home, oh BTW the biggest thing here is, there is my guy friend Jake who was always with us, all the time, trying to help me, giving me opportunities to talk to her alone( I know, big mistake) so we came to my place, and it was awkward as fuck, she talked to me normally, no difference, I felt friend zone, but my hopes were to high to give a shit. I thought fuck it im going to tell her again properly tomorrow in uni, and so I grabbes her hand and took her outside sat her down, looked in her eyes told her everything, went to kiss her. She pushed me away gently and said, but I only like you as a friend.....WHA DA FUCK! ok I completely deduced how this happened, but whatever the case, I really do love this girl and can't even think of anyone else right now, all those girls who I was talking to before are getting ignored, I cba, I really cba with anyone else right now, I just want her.

I need help on this, we start the second year of uni in 4 months, long time I know, she wont be in the same class any-more either so that's good, I can ignore her easier. HOW DA FUCK DO I GET OUT OF THIS FRIEND ZONE AND GET HER TO SEE ME AS A SEXUAL ENTITY! seriously guys, I depended on you before and you helped allot, and this right here is my last request, so please....help me out. I deleted her of face-book, her number, threw her shit out of my room, talked to other chicks, but I can't forget her atall. I really do want her, so please don't come-out with shit like, oh just go date other girls she'll come to you. I know she liked me, I know this, there is no fucking way she thinks of me as a friend, she's just scared of a relation ship and her "advice giving friends" are fucking it up for me. So what do I do? between now and next year of uni and/or when uni starts.

You're developing (already have developed) a case of one-itis. Figure out what you did wrong with her and onto the next one. There are 7.2 billion people on this planet. To chase after one of them is idiotic.

Exactly

cmon man, I love this chick -_- one-tit or two tits. For now If I know that to do I wont make the same mistakes again.

She has not slept with you yet, correct? And you are in LOVE? what if she has a dick? Move on for the sanity of yourself....

ok lets try something else. how do i get over this sht -_-

stop asking for quick fixes...you know the problem, and it is coming from your behavior. Change it.

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so you have NOT slept with her, and you are in love with her?

sounds like you went full chode one-itis son. what can you "learn" from this?
-Always game every woman & never stop. she is not diffirent so you cant drop the games.
-keep your feelings under wrap until youve fucked her (a.k.a. play it cool)

your friend probably fucked her in the bathroom for a whole hour.
go balls deep and dry in love with game so when the next "the one" comes around you will know what to do to make her yours.

this is the game

I am in a similar situation, its only that I haven't said anything to the girl yet.

Here's what I would suggest.

You have to stop thinking about her. Period. I'm not saying this is the end.
But please get busy with your life, with your studies, your friends, go out, party, do stupid stuff.

She's thinking about you, its only that she's not showing it.
If you try to chase her, its not going to work. She has to come back to you and she will.

Leave her alone for some time. Give it some time. Do not contact her for 3-4 months.

When you see her after 4 months, act if nothing happened. Show her that you're happy with her. That will fuck her up, then she would want to be with you. The key to show her that you can be happy without her.

When I asked other members what I should, most of them said, fucking "act", don't verbalize, don't tell her that you like her and shit. I'm not sure how well that works, but from what I'm hearing from your episode it does make sense now.

Solution: Freeze her out for 4 months. Let her re initiate contact. Act cool. But this time please fuck her.

I made another mistake, I re-added her on face-book, and she wished me happy birthday... and she was like Its been difficult for me you know, when you was completely ignoring me. So I made another mistake and replied with Look I cant pretend nothing has happened, If I want to be friends with you, you'll hear from me in a month or maybe over summer. To that she hasn't replied and now I feel like I have lost my masculinity.

Another thing, there was this "Fit" guys who was flirting with her the whole time and I'm assuming she likes him or something, he is needy as fuck and she does ignore him quite abit but whatever. I was so close to getting over her and now I went and did this, its going to hurt again for a while...but from now on, I will ignore her, the whole of summer (4 months)....and we will see next semester, If she is with this guy then I should be able to move on, but if she isn't then....I don't know, why am I still typing.

Oh and she wants me to come out with her and my other guy friend next week. So I'm thinking of chilling at home but I dunno man, If I go with them I can get on other girls and ignore her but I really dunno.

Ruminating about the situation won't lead you any closer to resolution. In fact, over-thinking will, if anything, frighten her away as the neediness will leak out in various ways (e.g., being paranoid about where she may be when she says she's out with 'a friend', not returning all of your texts or being slow to respond etc.). Now, here's a GREAT opportunity for you to learn how NOT to be...you can practice being present more rather than swept away in a sea of thoughts. Go download the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle (audio book will suffice), it's an excellent introduction to being more mindful and living in the presence (a state incompatible with worry).

hmm well, apparently I feel fine now, I went out and met some other chicks today, I'm just gonna ignore her here I guess fuck it. I was talking about her to another chick and she got SO ANGRY she was like I wish I was in her place...so yeah I feel cool...and erm I guess there is a slight hope in my mind right now, I dont like losing, and I'm getting a feeling that even if I win this one, I'm going to drift away, Ill be satisfied by the fact that I won! she had her chance, she lost it.

ironicly,
shortly after i posted on this topic my main girl dumped me for another guy hahaha

i have slept with her, she was the single most awesome person ive ever met, we had an amazing connection and the sex was the best we both ever had. first time ive been dumped by my dream girl.

this gives me focus as i was getting too comfortable and lazy, going to game harder and work on my physique till perfection.

peace!

I wish I could laugh it off, I was feeling empty these days, so when I felt abit emotional I wanted to carry on chasing it, but I got my hopes up to high I guess.