Thanks for reading guys, I'd like to share a quick background to help you better understand(and I'll keep it as brief as possible)

So basically, I'm a freshman in college in my second semester. I'm very busy at this point, and I don't really have time to socialize and meet people.

So last semester, I met this girl that I really liked, and I've read quite a bit about game, so I tried to use it on her early on. She was in a relationship though, and she sort of friendzoned me early on.

Anyway, over time I got more attached, and ended up displaying some Extremely afc behavior. I was extremely deep in the friendzone, until one of my buddies talked some sense into me over the break.

I started using game with her over SPAM and texting, and I really sensed that she might have warmed up to me. Anyway, after getting back, for some complicated and stupid reason, i decided to tell her how i felt. She basically said some crap, and it was obvious she felt sorry for me.

Anyway, on the advice of my friend, i decided to cut her off. i didn't talk to her for 3 months straight(she tried to contact me a few times, but i didn't reply to her or her friends), until last week i ran into her and talked for a bit. I didn't really completely get over her, most likely because i don't really have the time necessary to go out and meet new people. so we texted a bit back and forth, and last night she asked me if we could hang out, so we went for dinner and a movie.

Today we were texting, and at some point i was teasing her and told her to buy me dinner. She agreed, but then went on to say that she didn't want to lead me on blah blah and just wants to be friends.

It was my stupidity that got me into this situation in the first place, but anyway i replied saying that I'm not sure whether I even like her anymore (even though in reality I still have pretty strong feelings). I didn't want to give away the power completely and appear helpless.

I really don't want to end up hurting myself badly, but I don't think cutting her off is the answer since it didn't work the first time, especially given my limited social contact. Socializing isn't an easy solution as I don't have time, and I am only attracted to conservative girls, of which there are very very few at my college.

Would it be best to cut off contact, continue being friends with zero expectations, or just continue being friends and try my luck in the future. or something else?

I'm putting up a poll, but I would greatly appreciate any responses and feedback

I feel a lot of emotional pain again, and I just want it to go away. This is going to be really really hard for me, but I think I might just tell her that I don't think we can be friends anymore. Any feedback?

Stop your masochistic behavior and cut it off with her.
Don't be that guy in the friend zone who stagnates other opportunity.
Don't talk to her- it's clearly not going anywhere and you're getting hurt in the process.

There is always possibility of keep trying to seduce her, but you're not in a good emotional state to do that, you're way too invested, and because of these two, it's easy to tell that you're not as experienced as you could be to seduce a girl with a boyfriend.

Stop trying to put pieces together. Leave them alone and move the fuck on.

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If you have time to hang out with this girl then you have time to meet new people. Stop making excuses for your desperation and make time for what is important to you. You shouldn't lend yourself to emotional attachment until you have the ability to GFTOW. Once you can do that you will know who is really special and who is not. Figuring that out takes time. Tell this girl that you have feelings for her and you need to separate yourself from her so you can move on. I did this once. It was freedom. Until then, work on yourself and don't hang out with any girls in any frequency. Don't make desperate moves. Just pick up and hook up. If a girl wants a date then make it once every month or so. You're in college so you have more time for women, then make it once ever 3-4 girls or so. If you get too attached then leave one on a string and be too busy for her until you don't care anymore.

Keep GFTOW in your mind. why-you-need-to-submit-to-gftow-vt160319.html

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forget her, and also, stop reading so much it'll mess with your head. Its important that you develop your own 'game' and you do that by first working on yourself, rather than focussing on witty lines and having a cheap repository of gags.

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This feckin' guy. Wicked smaht.

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I'm still talking to her, I don't really have the same level of interest that I had before..anyone have something to add?

Hey chaiwalla,

man i just red you post. Iam quite new to all this too. Sorry for writing this but you should really work on your attitude. Work hard, play harder!

My dad always says other moms have other pretty daugthers!

Keep it up!