What up boys. Long-time lurker here looking for some advice. What is the general consensus on using money as a cornerstone in your pickup game? I’m not talking about buying girls drinks, as that was the first thing I learned to do whilst picking up girls, but I mean finding ways to flaunt cash and expensive belongings as a way of impressing the girl.

Here is an example: I was in a bar with my boy the other night, and I wanted to run some game on these two ladies standing at the bar. I happened to be flush with cash at the time, and when I pulled out my wallet to buy them a drink, one of them noticed the greenbacks plumping out my pocketbook. She immediately made a joke along the lines of “whoa, big spender!” and we were off. We haven’t hooked up yet, but I got her email address and am about to send her the follow up email today.

What are some other tactics for this? I’m not the richest guy in the world, but I can afford some nice things. Maybe a not-so-obvious version of “oh, I dropped my Beamer keys” or “can you check my Breitling to see if the time is right”?

I appreciate the help, guys. This forum has been so valuable to my game since I discovered it.

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It's not the size of the boat, it's how often you take it for a ride.

Do any of the above and all you'll ever get are gold diggers that want your cash.

Also, don't EVER buy ANYTHING for a girl you haven't slept with yet. That's one of the big(If not THE BIGGEST) rules of pick up.

Getting women is all about Confidence. Somewhere you got the wrong Idea and ended back up in AFC land....

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You say it's all about confidence, but showing off my money gives me confidence. What's wrong with that? Most of the time, girls have no problems going out to dinner or for drinks with me, and I can use casual negging (something like, "I like that you're not worried about being a self-made woman, helping other people is important") to get her to seek approval.

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It's not the size of the boat, it's how often you take it for a ride.

If you are spending just to impress her then you have the wrong idea. If you are spending because you want to have a good time...that is another thing. I personally do not like spending money on a girl until I know her at her core or know her intimately or had sex with her.
I suggest you make sure she invests some of her own money to make it clear that you won't be paying for evvverrrything. Because you will be slotted as a provider and she will probably withhold sex from you at some point or slot you into being a boyfriend or a husband type. Sleep with her first and then spend some dough...

I have went out women and they tell me that all they see the guy spending all his money as either A) a boy toy B) he provides me things a.k.a. the gold digger.

And of course a girl wouldn't deny free drinks or free dinners. Who in their right mind would?! I even accepted dinner offers from a girl when she stated that she would pay. I even accept free drinks.


Dean A.

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People that have cash learn the consequences of flaunting it. All you will attract are gold diggers. They will wreck you if you let them.

Secondly, bragging is approval seeking behavior. Don't seek approval from anyone other than your SELF.

Once you approve of your SELF, you find out if you approve of HER.

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Get a money clip or a wallet that has a money clip.

Personally, I have a money clip/wallet and whenever I need to pay for something I whip it out and pay with my card. Everyone see's the money I have clipped in though.

Other ways you can show it off is to reach for something in your pocket and drop your money clip/wallet on the floor.

Flashing the cash wad
Is a good move if it leads
To pussy noming

If you got a shit load of money then why not o.O I am broke so i tend to avoid this

Well, he did say, 'flaunt it', not 'spend it', just a mild tease, lol.
You don't' seem to realize that practically anyone can pull that of, i used to know jobless broke guys who lived with their moms in fucked up shit holes who did that, guys that stuffed all their savings in their wallets, with the solo purpose to show off to their drunk friends every time they were going to by a piece of gum, there is nothing special about that unless the fact that is utterly retarded.
Someone up in the topic touched the 'provider type' that the girls you are interacting with would mistake you for, it's somewhat reasonable, but more truthfully, you would be attracting street hookers who would run away with all you have in the middle of the night, care to sleep with your eyes open?
And about the other dudes!? In many places i have been, you would be stabbed in the hearth the instant you put your fancy ass outside the club door.
In terms of pick up, per se, that's just piss poor game, tell me, you are in the grocery store, Saturday morning, you are relaxed, dressing casual, a cute girl passes by, what are you going to flaunt to her!? Your million dollar mug!
That attitude is only going to limit your game...

^ it works if your goal is to fuck gold diggers(why would you want that)... But why just don't get escorts is faster, if you have all that money... My advise to you is to stop trying to cut corners and learn how to do things correctly, here is post i made on the subject, read it in your free time...here:

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[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bNLjvzs6KVo[/youtube]

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People are giving you good advice you should listen to them. I'd like to add something very short.

Being an attractive man is all you need to get the women you want. And being humble is a sign of good character. You should strive to build character and the rest will follow, money, friends, women.

No need to flaunt shit. The way you behave and dress conveys status !

As a haiku traditionalist, I must commend you. If it is not 5-7-5, it is crap.

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It's not the size of the boat, it's how often you take it for a ride.

If I am in the grocery store trying to run game on a girl, I would be sure to have an expensive bottle of wine or a bunch of grass-fed kobe beef tenderloins in my basket. Or both. What kind of girl wouldn't start dripping at the thought of a man who can afford that?

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It's not the size of the boat, it's how often you take it for a ride.

Showing off your bill fold or flaunting your cash does nothing to help you seduce a woman, sure you may get more attention and some temporary best friends, especially if you're buying everyone drinks and throwing the cash around but it's not a panty remover, if anything its a crutch.

1. It attracts gold diggers and shady girls in which you become the prey and the one "being seduced".

2. A lot of women get turned off by men who flaunt cash, especially if it's obvious to the woman, they may become insulted thinking you assume they are the type of woman that puts a mans value on his bill fold.. etc, etc. ( If you don't believe me, ask a few women)

3 If you get into the habit of using this as a tool to gain attention it will eventually become a crutch and give you a false sense of your seduction skills.

4. If this becomes a part of your pick up identity, what happens when your pockets are empty?

There's nothing wrong with showing off your financial status, especially if you worked hard to get it but their is many ways you can go about it without looking like you're trying. Jewellery, designer clothes, designer shoes, nice car, etc etc.

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.

From where i'm from, almost everyone could afford that, thus defeating your 'so called' advantage, as for the 'dripping' thing, well, suppose you can try that approach with homeless, starved women, if it suits you...

Honestly, i have nothing more to ad, everyone in here have given sound advice in the matter, props for the sexadict response, by the way.

Even, if personally, judging by the overall tone of your post's i begin to suspect you are trolling, which is a relieve actually...