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PostPosted: Fri Apr 12, 2013 2:58 am 
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I took 20 numbers of 20 different girls but no one from them don't want to meet me . why ?
I txt them :

I met them at the mall and Bars and clubs !
- Hey Beautiful how u enjoy this beautiful day ?
- Hey Sexy how u enjoy this beautiful day ?
- Hey I had fun last night i liked how u dance / kiss
- How was ur shopping ?
- or samething about how i met her

then
what's u doing tonight ?
let's go to a movie
and i get all the time no!
and can't meet her

I working at the mall so i selling covers for phones
and i met one girl and i txt her
+hey beautiful how's the case ?
-she said i like it
+ what's u doing tonight ?
- nothing
+ lets go to a movie
- i got a lot of home work.. or anther excuse

what i doing wrong ? or what i should do to meet them ?
what it's worth if i got a lot of number and can meet non ?!


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PostPosted: Fri Apr 12, 2013 2:59 am 
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Because phone numbers don't mean anything


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PostPosted: Fri Apr 12, 2013 3:18 am 
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If your goal is just to get phone numbers, your goal is pretty useless.

Your goal is to make the girl horny and give her fun (emotional roller coaster ride); not get her number. If you make girls horny enough, they will ask you out; not the other way around.

If so many girls are asking you out, then you can select a few girls that are less likely to give you problems.

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 12, 2013 3:32 am 
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So how to make them horny ? when i met them on a first time before i asking the number ???


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PostPosted: Fri Apr 12, 2013 3:45 am 
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"I gave this guy my number. Guaranteed fucking"

Does that even sound right? Numbers are only good as a bridge for comfort building when you're not face to face.

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 13, 2013 2:05 am 
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this is right so how i will meet her ?


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PostPosted: Sat Apr 13, 2013 2:30 am 
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You shouldn't really have to "Ask" for a girls phone number. You should just get to a point where you exchange numbers. Give her a reason to see you again BEFORE you get it and she will be less likely to flake out on you.


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 15, 2013 11:58 am 
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Quote:
Hey Beautiful how u enjoy this beautiful day ?
Do you live in an english speaking country or is this translated?

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 15, 2013 5:18 pm 
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Numbers can be an escape for girls.

If they aren't all that interested, they may just give you their number to get them off their back. Rejection is easier over the phone than in person, so this way it's easier for them.

You have to make a better connection with them BEFORE asking for their phone number. As others have said, give them a reason to want to see you again, and try NOT to ask for their number. Rather, lead into it with an open-ended question like "I have to run, but it would be great to finish this conversation later. Any idea how we can do that?". If she's interested, she'll volunteer her number.

Also, use proper spelling and grammar. It makes you look like an idiot if you're using things like 'ur' in your text messages.


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 15, 2013 5:52 pm 
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You didn't build enough comfort and attraction. Those girls conversed with you in their autopilot mode, there was no connection there.

Stop focusing in numbers. Quality is always better than quantity. Try this next time. Open, build comfort, spike their interest and curiosity then cut it short and walk around. Rinse and repeat the process with different girls until one of them asks you for your number. Now, you know how to number close effective to reduce flakes.

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