Hi All, i broke up with a girl little over a month ago now, we been talking lots here and there...

Just friendly banter, we have hung out a few times, same friendship groups same taste etc kinda impossible to avoid her, but its all good,
last few days we been talking more till the early hours of the morning, and texting her last night, told her im off to bed if you have no other news..and she responded with

" not anything that should be said over texts" - i joked with her saying

"lol that sounds dangerous fair enough" and had planned to sleep she then text me again saying

"just one of those things that your meant to say in person is all" i thought great now what i do not wish to get emotional we did that bit when we broke up moved on bubi ya know, so decided to push a bit...

"now you have got me up" her response

"Its not to do with you its thats what your worried about" when she responded with this i figured it was either true at which point i dont care anyway lol, or its her putting up a last guard cause she wants to say it to my face... so i just said well im still off to bed dont be a stranger well done on the new job ...she text back "cheers night"

now we had previously arranged to meet tonight to watch a movie but im not gunna meet her and listen to her moan about someone else all night, im not interested in that....SHOULD I CANCEL???

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No don't cancel everytime she brings up that person change the subject, that simple. If she won't stop bringing that person up be direct and let her know you don't want to talk about it because its to depressing

So She comes round, and actually doesn't mention anything about if there is another guy, and i dunno if there was even another guy tbh...

we had a really good night listening to music with a few pals of mine, and i said to her my hands need to be busy, come here grabbed her legs and started giving her a leg rub, which she didnt stop me (and we used to do when we where together)we talked about anything really lol lots of stuff, and like our plans for the next day, she said she was clubbing and i talked about being out iceskating with a work friend, then she started talking about not sure if i can be bothered etc etc,...(fishing for an invite to be with me i think :/ but i didnt offer thought i could maybe use it later on that night seeing how things go ya no)

After that started playing and rubbing her hands lightly touch and half hold, when i pulled away and out my hand back she put her back in mine again and then we where, drawing faces with my finger on her hand, and she was doing the same back to me just like faces and "hi" on my hand, i draw an "X" on her hand and said it was a kiss so she draw "O,X" on mine, for hugs and kisses ....

after that got her to spin around on the sofa, and rubbed her shouldered and neck while she was lent up against me, running my hand down the centre front of her top n up her chest, between her boobs and she didnt stop me, still doing this and listening to music, it got to about 4 am!!! my mates said im gunna go, and she said yea me too i gotta get up early, he left and she stayed sat on my lap (another good sign) we laughed and jokes a little more, and she started going "what, what, what" all the time joking around dont no how it started so i got straight in her face...(she is still sat on me just leaning back at this point) i went up nose to nose, said "nothing , nothing nothing" teasing, she giggled started doing it again so i moved in touching noses held it there for a little second then went to kiss her!!!....AND SHE PULLED AWAY saying "dont" !!!!

i went back to laughing bout something so did she, and i went "oh dear what are we doing" and she responded with " i thought we where being mates until you tried to kiss me"....i just said "yea felt right in the moment doent wanna now how weird" and she said "yea i no that feeling, lets just forget it" and i went "forget what lol"... we laughed for a little longer like 20 minutes she sat up saying i should go, i said alright let me no when u get home, and just stay sat there and she stood there kinda looking at me and put her arms out, i went "oh hug yea ill stand up" gave her a big hug she left bout 10 minutes later i get this text " Home and in bed, night x"

totally confused now any advise, cause u dont tend to get that close and touchy and "nice" with friends lol....but if u want more you dont tend to dart away from kisses either

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I've messed with many girls like this before they are showing all the signs then pull away when you escalate, act like you were doing her a favor trying to kiss her, game her, escalate sexual tension more then go in while your doing this game other girls she sees you with other girls or texting other girls it raises your value a lot

you have to be the prize with this one. She will give you this shit until she finally decides to sleep with you. Just keep gaming and keep being attractive.

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Little update we had another close day, massages play fighter etc etc, ended in underwear on the bed cuddled up i didnt go for the kiss this time, instead told her to kiss my neck "she asked why" and because i was rubbing her back at the time i just went "well u feel nice i wanna feel nice" (not that being half naked in a bed with her wasnt nice lmao ) and she complied i didnt push anything else for that day.... she did make a comment that stumped me however!!!

she said "i wouldnt mind you seeing other people, it would make me feel less guilty about seeing other people" :/ i dunno what to take from that tbh ...

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keep it casual.

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if i keep it as casual and nothing else, how can i get her to move forward ?

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be her lover first and then her boyfriend. Do little things. Such as cooking her dinner, sleeping over, etc. Basically, be the ultimate man and she will fall for you.

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thank you i will see where this leads, one last bit of advise if i may, in terms of contact... if im being a lover first, should i make an effort to stay in touch or wait for her to come to me ?

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it should be/feel natural to both of you, as long as you are being attractive, you can initiate...she should be initiating back if you are doing it correctly... While you are displaying your attractive qualities to this girl you should be going out and meeting women still.

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