Will. 17 years old.

I met this girl 3 weeks ago at her own b-day party, crashed there with some friends.
We've been meeting up a lot , had good talks, turned out we have a lot in common.
Saturday 1 week ago there was a party going on, we went together to there, all our other friends already went there, but we went for a cigarette some random place. ( so i could isolate her and make an obvious move )
Nothing happened, just good talks, as time flew by it was 4:00 AM. She had to go home already but didn't want to.
We went to the party danced a bit. Did lots of kino, been getting the right IoI's.
We went outside talked about how much we like each other, we hugged, we kissed.
No tongue ( Which I thought was fine. ) We held eachothers hands and I took her home, had 1 final kiss.
Now this week I met up with her again several times, and kissing becomes normal , more hugs and more face-kino , and playful kino, poking eachother and stuff.

We talked about if we had a relationship now.
I asked her if we were in a relationship and she answered :

I'm sure it turns out into something,
First lets meet up more.
But I really like you.

But still no long kisses , or tongue.

I've seen her like 6 times this week, and it's just been all the same , except for kino which is getting a bit better..

And when I try to make a longer kiss, she doesn't turn away, but she also doesn't turn away.
I get a feeling that it gets awkward, even though I know as long as you think awkward it is awkward.
I really like this girl and would love to have a relationship with her.

How can I escalate the kissing?
Or step further in the relationship.

-Will.

mate, you are being played. you did nothing. she picked you not the other way around. forget it. you are not in control. bail out and find the next target.

I'm not really playing game on her, like I'm not trying to bone her.
We have the same feelings about each other, but I want to take kissing to a next level without crossing her limits.

Its fine if you want a relationship with this girl but why is she setting the limits? You alot her to set the limits and she will have control the whole relationship. If you allow this to happen, she will leave you for another dude down the road. You can escalate and take control of the situation without coming across as crossing her limits.

Next time you are kissing, if you want tongue, then put the tongue into it. If she blocks you and doesnt want to use tongue when you want to, then you immediately stop all kino, small freeze out. If you are at a party and you have her isolated, a small freeze out would be to stop all kino immediately and going back into the party with everyone else.

Will buddy, you are AFC. Enjoy the frustration baby.

She controls the interaction, so forget about what you want. She'll decide, so unless you start controlling the interaction then you just need to go along while she leads you to relationship bliss, with your balls firmly in her purse. Mmmh. Sounds like fun, eh?

As a first exercise try to do the opposite of what she says. If she tries to take your hand, immediately go and look at something that you think is interesting or point at something. If she gives you the bambi eyes that say she wants to kiss you, then make a joke and try to ruin the moment. If she says let's go to the movies, tell her you are just dying for ice cream. Don't be an asshole and just have fun with it. Watch what happens.

When you do kiss her and you try to put the tongue, if she doesn't go for it. STOP! Start chatting with her, make her laugh, watch a movie, do something fun. Do this every time.

Give it a try and let us know how it goes.

LOL...i was taking it easy on this kid cause he was 17 but this pretty good....

That was quite some advice.
People told me that she is REALLY into me, like fuck.

I'm going for the tongue next time we kiss.
Now I'm going to set the limits , time to take over the relationship.

Smushed I think you said it REALLY well, I understand the problem now, it's so obvious now.
As soon as I hangout with her I'm going to do the opposite of what she wants me to do, I'll show her who's the boss. I'm curious of how this will turn out.

Thank you all very much, any other advice is WELCOME.

Just remember, don't be an ass or controlling, rather be fun and unpredictable.

Update from today :

Texted with her, went to unpredictable mode, and taking a bit more control.
It works like magic.

Thanks.

"With great power, comes great responsibility."

Tried the things you guys told me to.
Got a relationship with her, she's horny as fuck.
Thanks all.

I fixed by talking about our relationship, communication is important.

Another satisfied customer.