I have been seeing a lot lately that doing/saying sexual things to girl is considered disrespectful to them. I was even told today by a girl I know that she thought guys smacking a girl on the butt was "disrespectful" and she didn't like it. She's Bisexual too so she somewhat understands both sides.

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Very general question. What one person finds disrespectful may be different than another.

Some girls may see being choked during sex as invasive, disgusting, and threatening. Other girls love it. If she doesn't like ass smacking during sex and tells her partner that, then it would be disrespectful if they do it anyway. Otherwise, I don't think so, since most women seem to enjoy it

Context and Individual variables apply. Learn to calibrate better so you run less risk of offending.

Well smacking a girl you don't know on the butt is a bit too much. However, if this is how you are and this is congruent to who you are, the girl will adjust to your frame. If she gets pissed, let her get pissed, she isn't use to this kind of SPAM and doesn't know the proper response to it so they will start criticizing you and berating you. I know for a fact, that it is okay if you are coming from a frame of boldness rather than trying to disrespect.

I did smack a girl on the ass after talking to her for around 30 minutes. I did it because she snatched a card away from me and I thought it would be great payback. Lets just say she got really angry, but I controlled the frame and i did not supplicate to her nor did I apologize. i just let her know that yeah, I did it, I do things like that sometimes, and made her give me a hug. Guess what? Next few days we texted back and forth. We are friends now (my choice).

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