how do i get out of ljbf mode how do i get out of it. it suck so much!
any advice for my problem?i mean she is 8.5 in my book and realy easy to talk to.

I've found the best way is to make her JELOUS, show that you are a man in demand & you have options, jelousy is power.
Remember you are the prize, she needs to win your affection. Dont tell her with words, tell her with actions, an dont try to convince her. Dont go running to her whenever she wants to see, remember your a busy man, give her the gift of missing you, Show her your attractive personality traits, kino her, only make your move when she is most attracted to you & grab that chance with both hands

Sound to me like you've got one-itis. I don't know where you are with your game but getting a friend attracted to you can be difficult. Easier to just go out and meet new women. There are many girls out there who are easy to talk to and fun being with. So go seek them out!

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Funny really how many guys that get into the game just to catch that great HB8 or friends little sister or classmate...
My solution as always is, get out there and sarge others. There are a lot of girls out there and you will learn the game fast! It will also give you the preselection switch and make you reevaluate this one-itis you got. Maybe cure you and maybe show you that you wanna keep the AFC style.

The game (in my humble opinion) is not about getting the girl. It is about getting the girls, then you can select the best and live happily ever after. In most cases One-itis is not true love but just the feeling that if you let this one go, you will never find anyone as good again.

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It is possible to get out of the LJBF zone, but never easy. I know because i have done it myself.
I read this (below) somewhere:

'never make someone a priority that only considers you an option'

Dont put too much importance on her, ezo is right if you start seeing more girls you'll probly just forget about her, and find someone else even more special. She may even come running some time in the future.

Note: if she has a BF it will be v.hard to get her, best to catch them while she is single.

yeah i may have one itis so im going sarging with my wing later

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Good for you:)

You have already come a long way by recognizing the problem and doing something to solve it. It is surprisingly few who ever get there.

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thanks it just hit me that there are more than 2 billion girls in the world and there's got to be 1 for me (may be 2 )so basicaly i need to improve my game so i can get them

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Slightly off topic, but that is an awesome quote! I have never heard that before.

Sorry to seem cliche, but here's one of my favorite quotes from "Swingers" on the subject:

Rob: I mean at first you're going to pretend to forget about her, you'll not call her, I don't know, whatever... but then eventually, you really will forget about her.
Mike: Well what if she comes back first?
Rob: Mmmm... see, that's the thing is, somehow they know not to come back until you really forget.

Freeze her out, man. Don't call. Don't write. Don't initiate contact. If she does, don't be a dick - be polite, but be busy and tied up. I was hooking up with this girl for about a month until she LBJF-ed me because she "didn't want a relationship" (funny, I didn't either, but she never asked...) So I did what I said above - froze her out. After 2 weeks, she's been blowing up my phone, wanting to take me out, sending flirty emails, and drunk dialing like crazy. I kept my cool, hooked up with her a few times, then LBJF'ed HER because she got attached and I didn't want to dick her over by pretending or lying. Never chase those who want to run...

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hey echo good advice and im trying that with her and so far she just replacing me with the guy with the witty answers so oh well too bad for her

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Hey, this is Stealth. My friend, I know how much it sucks to be in the "FRIEND'S ZONE" because I've been there as well. Here's what you do:
FIRST make her JEALOUS! This will drive her natural instinct to make her want you. Did you ever get stuck hearing all the bullshit what she did with other guys? Well sorry but you're being MR. COMFORT (A guy that is nice and listens to all this shit!). To get her JEALOUS talk about this girl you've just met at where-ever who's hotter than she is. This will cause a CHALLAGE and get her ANGRY. This is good because now in the back of her mind is, "I can't lose this guy!" Ever notice yourself thinking also, "I can't lose this girl!" when she brags about her ex's or boyfriend. This is the same principle! Make her think she could LOSE you any moment. This girl you met could be made up or an actual person. Make it dramatic and seem sincere. Go into ever bit of detail why she is so perfect for you and your HOTTIE8.5 will go beserk! A true PUA takes a RISK of losing his prize. Remember that! It's very important of becoming a REAL PUA.

SECOND thing you can do is: Create KINO by touching her lightly. Try not to make it seem weird but NATURAL. Use your hand gesters and while talking gently touch her on the lower arm, or upper arm. It's recommended touching the UPPER ARM. KINO is a physical way to flirt. This will cause her to be AROUSED and she won't know why. SMILE always and be that ALPHA MALE she wants.

See you're ERROR is that you're being TOO NICE where she is taking that for advantage. Bud, stand up for yourself-don't let her walk all over you. She may be HOT but still never put a GIRL higher than you are. You're the MAN and start acting like a MAN. I'm not saying your NOT but that's the only reason why she's viewing you as a friend. She see's no sexual chemistry and you must BUILD it before it's lost.

So what are you gonna do? First create her to be JEALOUS, then use KINO and this my friend will get what you want. Also PUSH-PULL; pay attention to her one day then PUSH her away. This will fuck her up!! Trust me; do what I say and you'll get her and maybe more! Good luck bro! Email me back and tell me how my suggestion went. I'm looking out for you man!

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Great amount of detailed info Stealth put up here... Thnx Bro...

Remember this: She doesn't know you as well as she thinks she does.
Quit talking to her for a while, and change the style of clothing you wear(peacock), possibly hair too. Start flirting with girls everywhere, and completely change your attitude. Be cocky, and funny, and not needy. This helps destroy the already stale image of you in her mind.
You can't fake DHV for a woman thats already decided you don't have that kind of value. You have to actually go out and create that value, and make it real!

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... what stealth said...