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PostPosted: Tue Mar 26, 2013 3:12 am 
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So i've done a few direct approaches and i've gotten number closes. It seems as though they develop an attitude problem afterwards and think they are hot shit and dont really want to meet up or commit to plans? Anyone experience this and know what i can do during the approach or perhaps after the approach to change this?


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 26, 2013 6:59 am 
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So i've done a few direct approaches and i've gotten number closes. It seems as though they develop an attitude problem afterwards and think they are hot shit and dont really want to meet up or commit to plans? Anyone experience this and know what i can do during the approach or perhaps after the approach to change this?
The problem probably isn't in your approach... The problem is that you are treating their phone number like you won some kind of fucking trophy. Quit pushing so hard for the phone number just so you can eject the set and start to take time figuring out where you are going wrong IN the set.

A phone number should simply be a means of communicating between seeing each other. Don't be so afraid to "say bye and walk away" instead of pushing for her number. Girls will sometimes give you their phone number just so you will get the fuck away from them and they can just ignore you afterwards. PHONE NUMBERS MEAN NOTHING ANYMORE. My fucking cell phone number is all over the internet. Anyone who knows basic information about me can get my cell phone number. Most girls are the SAME WAY. You are screwing up somewhere else if the girls keep flaking on you my man.


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 26, 2013 1:17 pm 
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They aren't digging you. You aren't providing the goods so they don't see why they should even talk to you. Attraction is missing on your part. And you aren't standing out from the pack of other guys that have hit on her in the past.


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