Hey,

This weekend I hooked up with a 27 year old. We made out at the bar, then got a cab back to her friends place and fooled around for a bit. The next morning, she found out my age (23) and was kind of thrown back but I played it off well. She ended up giving me a ride back to my place. That night, she was out again and called me a few times at 3 am, trying to get me to take a cab (I had friends up and it would've been an expensive cab ride so I played it off like I couldn't). I sent a few sexually charged texts and the next morning she asked how my night was, I replied with some exaggerated events and threw in something that happened at her friends place the next morning.

Something like "Almost was mugged by the cabbie, no food in the morning though " She said "hahaha sounds like a good night" That was our last exchange.

It's been about a day without texting. How should I re-initiate a convo? And try and bring it around to a more sexual humor?

For this one, never, ever, ever, bring up the age factor.

If she was fooling around with you once, found out your agree, and then was drunk dialing you at 3:00am, she is still interested. She will lose that if you become too available. Try just ignoring her for a few days. This will increase her interest because of your scarcity. I don't know how much interaction or how long you've known her but it seems to me that she is still within striking distance.

If she initiates contact, reward that behavior!! If she doesn't wait until Thursday and send her one of these...

Thursday is my favorite day to fool around with chicks. Are you in?
I don't have sex on Thursdays, so it's safe for you to come over.
I'm on my period today. If you want sex it's gonna have to wait a few days.

Your texts never have to actually make sense, they just have to be flirty and different then any other shit men send her.

And remember dodge her ?s and don't ask any yourself unless sexual.

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Ha, I just read that field report, pretty good. I think I need to work my way into that one though, possibly on girls I care less about (even though I should care about all on the same level). We met for one night, she was drunk and so was I. She kept saying how sexy I was and wouldnt let me get back to my friends at the bar (who eventually just went home). That's when we got the cab. I chilled at her friends place for a few hours then she took me back, said we will have to hang some time, then called me the same night. Have any other approaches that may be softer or slightly less direct?

Well there is what you actually text her, and then there its actually what it means.

For a few of my own tried and true stuff here's some examples.

I'm good at backrubs, but I'm good at other things too.

Text speak = I've had my hands pleasure other women before, use your imagination to guess what else I can do to you.

What color thong are you wearing, and by that I mean happy Friday.

Text speak= I'm thinking of you sexually, glad its the weekend.

I won't have sex with you tonight. If want me to come over though, I'll like your pussy until you cum.

Text speak = I'm not just looking to fuck. I'm not selfish in bed either or afraid to escalate ASAP.

Would it be inappropriate if I made out with your face the minute I see you today?

Text speak= I want permission to escalate as soon as possible.

The amount you care about her has no impact
on your text game. I myself find it harder to follow the ridiculous rules required when I actually care about someone but, they still remain the same. You will be very surprised at what kind of sexual nonsense you can send to chicks and get great results.

I like the I'm on my period today. If you want sex your gonna have to wait a few days.

Text speak = I'm totally available for sex. No waiting is required just play along with me.

You could tone those texts down but, not sure why you want to. Being alpha and sexual is a turn on to women. It applies on the streets just like in text.

Don't fall into the AFC trap of being all up on her shit in person only to become a nice guy pussy in text. It's incongruent and no longer arousing for her. If you care about her, I'd try to get her to invest into you more now. Make her chase you a notch. Don't always initiate contact and always reward her good behavior and flirt a lot. Don't tone anything down unless she gets offended. I just push her as far as I can and through her reactions calibrate what I can get away with. It's always way more than you would ever think.

Edit: I just realized that she already gave you a bj and you finger banged her. Okay, great.

Maybe go with one of these...

Are you coming over on thirsty Thursday for another protein shake?
Truth or dare?
My cock is so hard thinking about you. By that, I mean happy Thursday.
I'm on my period this week. The only sex you're getting is oral.
Fun fact, giving bjs is 100% effective birth control.
You can't just use me for sex ya know. If you do, at least pretend you like me.

Once you have had some sort of sexual contact with a woman you can ramp up the sexuality of your texts to the next level. Maybe you can figure out a highly charged sexual message on your own that is similar to the above.

One last trap I used to fall into its trying to text what I think she wants to read.
Don't do that.
Text her what you want to convey without apologies for being attracted to her. Tell her what you want to deliver as alpha as you can without worrying about her reaction.

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Would C&F work before going direct like that? I'm looking for a way to re-initiate the convo and work into that. I don't think I can carry something like that at this point.

Any opinions on another approach? As in, not going completely direct sexually?