Regarding Life:

I've always been fond of Aussies as I don't think I've ever met one who was boring. Even their conservative business types know how to party and let loose. In Nha Trang, I met two Aussies on a dive trip. These guys were in the middle of a "Drive Around the World Tour". They managed to find sponsors both private and corporate, and while they weren't staying at the Ritz, had the means to PARTY through the World. I kept up with their blog for a while. Also met an Aussie in Kampot who was in the middle of a "Ride a bicycle around the World Tour". Same idea with him. . .

Human beings naturally have needs. Here are some of these "needs" that pertain to your own Odyssey.

*Need for social interaction.
*Need for Challenge/adventure.
** And through exercising ^these needs, gain further understanding in our need for "Self discovery"

Sell or give all your gaming crap to a nephew or niece. As you already wrote, it's time to express ^these "needs" through real life experiences instead of your thumbs. And if there is some downtime, consider free writing instead.

Regarding the Solo Sarge:

Traveling alone is a great way to figure out the 'solo sarge'. You have a real life reason to be out alone because you are in fact traveling alone. But after a while, you will learn that people aren't receptive to you just because you have some reason to be hanging out alone. People simply like to be with likable people. (We all have needs for social interaction, right?)

Two girls: Unless it's their idea in the first place and they are already in the 3-way mode, it's far better to convince one girl first; get one girl on your team first, then get her to help you convince the second girl. You rolled the dice gave it a shot to both of them. If they didn't discuss the 3-way thing first, and if they have never done this, you just created "team cockblock".

Proposition for sex: I get the idea, and I guess I've been up front before, but I don't really understand the popular push for "tell it like it is." Where's the fun? Where's the tease? Where's the excitement? At work if someone tells you, "So what do we do after we install that circuit board?" Then you can tell it like it is."We'll test it and see where it takes us. We're smart engineers."

But at a club where everybody's having fun, just bounce the fun right back at them:

"After the massage, you ladies pay me 160 dollars . . . that's with a friends and family discount."

or

"What? Oh you have a dirty mind Missy . . . I'm not that kind of a therapist! If you're looking for a happy ending, I suggest Craigslist."

or

"Are you suggesting . . . ? Get out of here! I'm a man of principle. No sex on the first massage date. Never. No sir. No way. Well, maybe just a little fondling of the private parts but only because it's therapeutic. The sex is definitely out."

Call Back % rates:

Are increased if you increase the fun factor and avoid the whammy. What you offered them is a "Whammy". This is a "I'm looking for sex, are you in or out?" This is something to do at closing time for desperate girls who came out for sex but are nearly feeling embarrassed about not getting picked up yet or girls who have passed Chief's compliance test . . . but even then, I still favor teasing until the very end.

Make no mistake, my suggested lines above are absolutely propositions for sex. All you're doing is inviting a girl to your house; sell it. No girl will ever, ever meet you in a club, and come over to your place for massage without thinking SEX. This is an impossibility. But if you actually pull out the whammy, the only thing they can now say is "Yes" or "No", and unfortunately, if she says "no", what would you like for her to expect from your next call? Another "whammy proposition" for sex? What would one tell the other if you talked over the phone? "Remember the guy who wanted to fuck both of us?"

On the other hand, if you continue the fun, tease, and the flirting, (while actually propositioning sex) there's a lot more to look forward to then just a potential sexual escapade. What would one tell the other if you talked to one of them over the phone in this instance? "Remember that hilarious guy? He was such a flirt!"

Going out once a weeks sounds like fun. Remember to leave work at work.

@ Kasabi "I've always been fond of Aussies as I don't think I've ever met one who was boring. Even their conservative business types know how to party and let loose."

Agreed - Geoff was the most upbeat and lively un-materialistic guy ive ever met. Its the life i want. He was happy with anything and everything and lived life to the full.

"*Need for social interaction.
*Need for Challenge/adventure.
** And through exercising ^these needs, gain further understanding in our need for "Self discovery""

Where do you learn all this stuff Kasabi? Can you recommend any books or sorts to educate myself of social psychology and interactions like this?

"Sell or give all your gaming crap to a nephew or niece. As you already wrote, it's time to express ^these "needs" through real life experiences instead of your thumbs. And if there is some downtime, consider free writing instead."

Done. Ive uninstalled everything, and got rid of my consoles. Next time im bored, i have no choice but to go find something to do like play my guitar, go exercise, talk to someone or go out solo.

"Call Back % rates: Are increased if you increase the fun factor and avoid the whammy." - In hindsight i now see this. Indeed the all - out method can work, i didn't really have any other idea or plan. It was bad, but nor the best.

Thanks for the advise, as usual ill revise and apply this at next opportunity.

18th August 2012

Ok, so i went out last night and today with my new wingmen on this forum and ive had a hugely successful day. Without doubt feedback from them helped. In total i have got 7 Numbers and 1 kiss close. 5 from day game.

Since my next opportunity to do any sarging and practice may be weeks away, im going to write everything i said and done.

Openers:
I first started with:
indirect:
-"Hi, i really like your *insert item here*. Where did you get it from?".
-"Hi me and the mates we're arguing how old i/you look. They say *number*".

From here you can just continue with questions like if they're around here. However i commonly found that i found a wall where i couldn't transition to flirting.

So i evolved to indirect - direct openers

I opened with: indirect like: "hi i really like your *item*". Talk for a bit.. then after a bit or i start to feel that wall i would then say: "the other reason i came over was to say that i think you're pretty/stunning/gorgeous/cute/great style etc..."

This easily helped me transition into flirting and escalation. From there i found it much easy to build rapport and i started closing numbers one after another.

I tried a few Direct openers on the night out and in the day. I personally found it made things more awkward straight off. I will definitely come back to this and practice it more. I dont think i did them correctly. (ie with enough confidence).

Opening Group Sets

I shat myself when i first tried opening a set. It was a table of 4 gorgeous girls.
I went there with a pure direct opener: "excuse me girls, i came to say; i think your friend is gorgeous, i would kick myself if i didn't come say hi and find more about her". I obviously didnt do it with enough confidence, because the awkward silence appeared.. all the girls looked down in embarrassment. I tried to ask some questions, i flapped and accepted defeat. I thanked them and started to leave when one of the girls said:
"Fair play mate. It takes a lot of confidence to go up to a group of girls like that, its unfortunate our mate has a boyfriend, it might turned out better".

-I instantly sat back down with a big grin. I thanked her and asked her how do i get past that awkward silence? None of the girls could answer the question. So i thanked them again and left back to my wingmen.

That experience was a huge eye opener... And my friend put it into context perfectly by saying this:

"When you approach those girls and break their "group" they look down because they're in awe. They're shocked and uncertain how to handle the situation. You have showed a humongous amount of confidence and self worth. The only awkwardness is coming from YOU. If you dont think its there. Then its not. That wall isnt there to push past. Youll have no problem getting conversations and consequently escalation going."

Since then I have found groups are surprising easy because you're demonstrating greater self worth and confidence, you talk and ask questions to the whole group, meanwhile showing your clear intention for their friend. Which normally ive found, they're happy to help you along!

You can grab her to the side of you and ask: "do we look like a good couple"? - it works a treat for me (thanks paddy100 for that!)


Inner game and mindset

I realise a lot more inner game things today thanks to helping my mate work on his inner game a little. He has a lot of work to do like i did, but he'll get there.

First off, Inner game:
Is the most important part of doing pick-up WITHOUT doubt (in my non-professional opinion). Master yourself and your insecurities before even trying outer game. As my wingmen have learnt, when you get blown out, it effects you a lot more with weak inner game.

On the subject of Approach Excitement and insecurities:
The main reason you are nervous about approach is because you fear rejection. Being blown out and rejected hurts your pride and insecurities.
Master yourself and inner game, and suddenly, you have nothing to fear.

You can now ask yourself "whats the worst that will happen?"
Instead of fearing rejection and receiving the feeling on being a lesser guy or a failure. You can say: "The worst that will happen is she says no, that's it." When you master inner game, there is no insecurity for them to hurt. In fact.
Its their loss.

When you master inner game. You don't worry about how to approach or what to say. You become confident and genuine. You don't fear how she'll react or what she'll say.

So...Thats all i got for now. Ill add if i think of anything more.

Regards,

Boyo

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mental note for later date to test:

Direct/indirect hybrid opener: Hi, i think you look gorgeous, i would kick myself if i didnt say hi and wonder "what if"? ask her a few questions about general things, then say: "you got lucky in the gene pool, and good looks are a common thing" - what 3 things make you better than the rest?

Give me you're thoughts,

Regards,

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For anyone who wants a audio demonstration on how its done. Lisen to this: http://soundcloud.com/paddy100/danielle

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I return! With the feeling of restlessness. Unease.

I thought i had everything, so what's wrong?

I first want to say, items possessions really don't bring you happiness. A temporary relief perhaps, but you soon return get bored or return to why you bought the item in the first place.

Example: Compare me to a poor child i once met in Kenya. He had nothing.
Compared, i have everything, a great car, great job, great pay. A awesome en-suite room with every facility for my needs. Endless food, water, music and exercise.

Am i happier than him? No. Im certainly more comfortable. But little bad boy Jimmy (was his street name lol) gave me one of the biggest revelations of my life. "Happiness is from the inside".

The same with comparing me to millionaires, a bigger house or faster car with make me happier for a while, but ill always end up wanting more unless i sort this inner game problem.

To the point, even with all my comforts and possession, i still have this feeling of unrest. I want more... but what the hell is it?

As i have always done with my problems. I shall go to the source at what caused it.

Subject case: Best mate which i haven't seen in years.
I used to idolise him. He always had the right idea, he didnt care what anyone thought of him, he did what he wanted, and he enjoyed everything he did. I now follow the same philosophy, not out of mimicking him, but from what inner game has taught me.
Thats not what bothered me though. It was seeing him with his girlfriend.
Shes not an absolute stunner. But very pretty. and i know they're a perfect match for each other.
I feel jealous. Maybe because i recently had that? Or is that what i still want.
I know it is in fact, ive even said the reason im doing pua is to find "the one".

I guess im just being impatient, i feel like every experience i do is one im missing doing without her.. Someone to share with.

Its crazy that im thinking this. Im currently living the life men dream and wish of having. (not all of course but generally speaking).

Yet here i am wishing to end my single life. The grass is always greener hey?

So solutions.. I cant, shouldn't and wont rush myself and settle for the next girl. Thats the mistake i made with the ex.
I was about to say keep myself busy to keep my mind off it. This isnt the solution however.. thats merely avoiding it for another time.

I need to ask myself what it is about partnership i want so much. What is it in me that satisfies it. When i know that perhaps i can find an alternative.

After a quick 5 min meditation session. I may have come across why i want a girlfriend so much.

My thoughts went something like this..:

Why do i want a girlfriend?
-Because i like to make others happy, i want someone to hold, care for, impress, share experiences, to love, to make her smile. Im a giving type of person.

Why do i want to give so much?
-Because i want to make her happy, i want to shower with love and affection. i want to her to love me as much i do her

Why do i want her to love me so much?
- Because i never did as a kid... i never impressed my father. I always driven myself to be better to impress him, i was never happy with myself. I didn't feel loved.

I need to meditate on this more, to re-affirm these thoughts. How strange however, how wanting a girlfriend links to childhood problems.

After finally reaching the question and answering, i opened my eyes and felt a ton better already. One more inner game flaw solved.

I cant be the only one this fucked up right??? haha.

Which leaves me to say.. it explains so much about me and why i used to try to impress people so much. I wanted people to like me SO much, because i never used to be popular.

In a nutshell: Trying to make people like you can do the opposite. Especially when attracting women. Balance is key as with everything.

Will write later for new objectives. Ive come a long way since last review.

Regards to all,

Boyo

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I was going to write a whole bunch of things but realized. . . you'll figure it all out.

Thanks Kasabi,

Ill take that as a positive, if i can figure out any gemstone advise you give, then i must be doing something right and on the right track

My updated objectives: Updated: 4th October '12
(green = completed)

Cut down on the gaming. Completely.
-I managed it, a lot easier than i thought it would be. Especially when i gave myself objectives of other things to keep me busy.

I have gained enough self control and other passion for something, that i can even control and limit now how much to game, not like before where i lost hours on end.

-Plan a Tour of Bulgaria: On the backbench for now, but still a biggy on the bucket list

-Learn a new language: Bulgarian
-Learn the acrylic alphabet. - a lot harder than i first thought to do.. i might downgrade these to "learn a language" I cant decide what to learn. Its a choice of French, German or Spanish or eastern.
What do you think?

Really get back into Dual/tri Athlon. - With all the spare time and bored of no games, i really got myself in a fitness program, its massively paying off and im fitter than ever!

- Pick up the guitar again.
songs to re-learn: (pink floyd - wish you were here) (Oasis - wonderwall) (Radiohead – High and Dry) - all done, i missed my guitar so much! ive rebuilt my calluses on my fingers and can play awesome again


-Get out to practice more. Go to the nearby shopping centre at least 2 time a week
must achieve 10 weeks in a row to pass. Set at: 15th June '12.
Currently: 10 weeks -Passed

Its great looking back at my objectives. Ive achieved so much and come so far... I never thought i would do so much is so few months!


-I fear of going by myself. I still do at the moment, maybe not fear.. but its not an objective im overly bothered about at the moment, i have plenty of contacts and friends now to go out with

-Go out night out at least once a weekend - must achieve 10 weeks in a row to pass. Set at: 15th June '12
Currently : 10 weeks Passed
Done this too, it certainly helps practising frequently and routinely

-Continuously work on inner game until i am totally confident with myself.
I dont think you can ever finish with your inner game, you should always be striving to improve. As the post above shows i still find problems even when i thought i was complete.

Complete Chief's guide to outer game
Expanding on this
1:Familiarise myself with my AE (Approach Excitement) - have no fear approaching super hot women
I have no fear at all any more. Ask me to talk to anyone, i will think of a way of saying hi without any problems, an amazing ability to have.

2:Carry out opening, the compliance ladder and conversation without thought or hesitation.
- Not quiet mastered yet. I can open no problems, i can build compliance and conversation, but as ill add later.. where i want to improve

3: Understand, apply Sexual SFT without thought or hesitation.

4: Understand, apply Sexual Tension without thought or hesitation.

5: Find and manage my expectations - Your girlfriend is a reflection and a representative of yourself, so i wont settle for a girl unless she is the absolute one.

6:Learn how to handle AMOG'S (alpha male of the group)

7:Learn to approach groups, befriend them all, then isolate target

-Get good a night game:
1:Learn and apply The skills method to club game
2:Learn to dance..
Another low priority, at the moment i have no wings at night, i just go out with mates, and they make it...difficult to pull women

-Continue working on my triathlon and upper body workouts. - Helps me feel great.

So with everything going so well.. What is the next step?:

I want to focus on my social skills more. Not just with picking up women. Just generally being a great socialist. When i go out, i want to be able to hold everyone's attention, be a true alpha male. Ive got the frame and mindset. I leave good impressions but sometimes i will sit with the group of lads and have nothing to say. For some reason i cant think of any good or funny stories. Something to make everyone laugh.

So i decided to look into the area of "routines". I don't intent to use them biblically, but maybe they'll give me a better idea how to do it and create some of my own. I wasn't a very social person before all this, i guess i just haven't built up the ability.

When im out, i now have 100% faith in myself of being able to open a girl and talk to her. However, i want the ability to pick up like style and mystery. (Almost) every girl, any time.

My style at the moment is purely being myself and being confident. It works pretty well to be fair, i have a good success rate. I'm just want to perfect myself now

Ill do some reading on the forum and read a few books. Ill come back with a more directed practising plan when ive thought on this a bit more.

Regards,

Boyo

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Additional note:
Learn the best way to make buddies with bouncers and promoters of the lincoln clubs. Its time to make myself known, what's better than cue jumping the best clubs right?
Plus its an easy way of getting a girl under your arm. (granted she may do it just for the free entry, but if your good enough, she might stick )

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Just need to quickly jot down my thoughts... im having another one of those revelation/cross road moments.

Im utterly facinated with the human psychology so far, im currently reading a book called blink, it talks about how your sub-consious or "instinctive" decisions work. How sometimes, it can be just as accurate in a blink of an eye, over months of research and planning.

I want to learn the thinking behind first impressions, down to each individual factor.
I want to learn NLP, however i understand this to be a huge topic. One that also requires application and practice.

Ive come to decide that being a good socialist and person is just as valuable as a hard working expert.

Allow me to explain..

I may have mentioned him before. A man in the name of Shamus. Im not sure hes good at anything, or any expertise like most adults of his age. (for example like my dad who works his ass off in electronics and knows everything about it)

However, rather fascinatingly, he doesn't need any of it. Because somehow whenever he needs anything doing, he knows someone with that speciality who will gladly do him a favour. Fix his laptop, fix his lighting, cook him a meal, kit him out in fashion, organise an event. You get the idea...

So all he does is have the time of his life, socialise, living, doing what he enjoys. He lets all the people who work to live do the things he needs.

Dont get me wrong, i dont want to be exactly like him.. I would still rather have an expertise in something. However, this ability would certainly be useful.

as one of my favourite motto's go: Its not what you know, its who you know



Thats all for now,

Regards,

Boyo

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. . . and how you manage them.

If you continue your career path, you will eventually be given the responsibility to manage a few guys. As you go up in rank, the more people you'll have to 'manage'. Your skillsets then will be less applicable for your own sweat and tears grunt work and more applicable for sharing knowledge and helping your people be more productive.

When people work or do favors for Shamus, I bet they're mostly happy to do it. . .

It's simply a positive value proposition.

Indeed Kasabi, making friends i one things, but i guess the downside is keeping in contact with them and "managing" them as you say.

Correct again, i love my job at the moment, i like the grunt work, the fault finding challenge, hands on and constant learning. The natural progression of course is promotion and as a resultant, more managerial position.
Im not sure i want that... Sure the pay rise is nice. But as you well know, i dont need the money. Im comfortable as it is. I would much rather do the job i enjoy on a lower wage. Than do a job i hate on a higher one.

Secondly, i have 6 years of the contract left. Im not sure what i want to pursue after.
One thought is an adventure trainer, and just travel the world. Hop country to country for a few years and move on.
I suppose i could do that with electronics too.

Thanks for reading again Kasabi, (and too all who dont comment)

Regards,

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Dear Audience,

It's about damn time i got back on here for an update, perhaps finally slow down for some self reflection and new assignment of objectives. The last i did it was near October!

So since the last post, I haven't progressed much at all, learn a few life lessons for sure. But in terms of pick-up I haven't, because I don't need too. My inner game is better than ever and I don't use techniques routines anyway. Instead, I have just been enjoying my new self, my new skills and partying hard while I'm young!!

Thanks to inner game and PUA, my network of friends continues to increase and referencing to "pre-selection" i have made a few female friends so when i go out, I already have a higher level of image.

Saying this however, i haven't had as many girls as when i was "training" as such. Most of the girls i saw were in Lincoln and MUCH easier to arrange meeting (the fact they're a lot closer) and most had places of themselves.

Currently most of the girls im meeting (particular in London as most of my friends im partying with are there)
are just becoming friends to party with (am i putting myself in the friend-zone? ).
While on the subject, i have some massive parties/events coming up this year. Including, Tomorrow land, Florida, Ibiza. When i go on these, i want to be at my peak physique and top of my game.

It only makes sense however to reduce trips to London and partying and get back on the game, and self progression (I'm good now, but i know i can be better still - always room for improvement!!)

So without further ado: my updates Objectives 10/2/13

- Read all the book i have bought! - At the moment im trying to get through all of the self improvement and body language books. I must start taking notes when im reading them and apply it/talk about it on here.
I think first im going to read through all of them. Then go through them again, with application.

-Currently i have no particular area of game i need to improve on. Saying that however, i haven't really "gamed" in a fair while. I'll have to go out and find my weak points to help give me direction.

-This also applies to learning facial expression/micro expression, an extremely useful tool to have. Will start studying/practising this asap.

-Start writing on this wall more! I've forgotten how helpful and progressive it is writing this..

-Plan a Tour of Bulgaria: On the backbench for now, but still a biggy on the bucket list - Back back benched behind all my holidays this year aforementioned. Haha

-Learn a new language: Changed from Bulgarian to French, My current situation points me towards touring more of west Europe first, and after English, French is the second most spoken Language In Europe, (Bulgarian being totally useless everywhere expect Bulgaria)

Secondly, French is a great baseline/starting point to learn other languages with.
Thirdly, its easier to practice on the two French girls im seeing

Really get back into Dual/tri Athlon. - This has changed to General fitness and increase in body mass. Ie, no more Tri Athlon for the time being. (increase on upper body size doesn't help you running/biking! It does help turn eyes in Ibiza however! i will link a before and after picture soon)

- Pick up the guitar again.
Continuing to learn the guitar, currently learning Fast car.

-I fear of going by myself. Im slowly becoming more confident with my own company. I still don't like it, but its better than before .

Complete Chief's guide to outer game
Expanding on this
1:Familiarise myself with my AE (Approach Excitement) - have no fear approaching super hot women
I have no fear at all any more. Ask me to talk to anyone, i will think of a way of saying hi without any problems, an amazing ability to have.

2:Carry out opening, the compliance ladder and conversation without thought or hesitation.
- Not quiet mastered yet. I can open no problems, i can build compliance and conversation, but as ill add later.. where i want to improve

3: Understand, apply Sexual SFT without thought or hesitation.

4: Understand, apply Sexual Tension without thought or hesitation.

5: Find and manage my expectations - Your girlfriend is a reflection and a representative of yourself, so i wont settle for a girl unless she is the absolute one.

6:Learn how to handle AMOG'S (alpha male of the group)

7:Learn to approach groups, befriend them all, then isolate target

That's all for now. Many Regards, and its good to be back!

Boyo

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Hey, friend! It's been a while I replied to your thread. Not that I didn't care, but I've seen you're quite good on your own, and that kasabi has been giving you valuable hints anyway. I just want to say that you've come a very long way. You're now very far from that guy full of insecurities who started this thread

What you've obtained, is a deeper value system than most people have. And that alone is a great achievement.

I realised this when I was reading about your friend and his girlfriend, who is "not an absolute stunner, but a perfect match for him". And you envy this. This is good mentality. Well not envying, but to want true love, that is not solely based on affection.

I was starting to feel alone with this knowledge. I was using the chat with some forum members and what they were doing was really surprising to me. They were posting pictures about the girls they had banged, had had, or had as a girlfriend.

So I was trying to join the conversation and made some comments, and then one guy PM-ed me if I could show him a picture of my girlfriend. Being proud of her, and without having the glimpse of a thought about what happened next, I was happy to show her to him. I got laughed out... Because she's above avarage in size.

I didn't get upset. I am way over that level to care about the opinion of an anonymous person on the internet. But I was astonished. I viewed this forum as a place that consists of people, who are more mature than this level. Pretty much, I'm perfectly happy with my girlfriend, because I've never met a girl that is so caring, loveable, mature, and I could go on...(and I've met quite a handful of them...) She might not be the hottest chick on the planet, but it's like I couldn't care less. Outer beauty is temporarily, inner is not.

I also came across threads where guys were talking about how it was a bad thing to "settle for 5s and 6s". I didn't even understand the whole thing. Yes... I understand some guys are so insecure that the first girl they meet and is interested will just do it as a girlfriend. But this behaviour is exactly as bad if the girl is a 10. It's completely irrelevant how she looks like. If you don't know what you want, you have a practical chance close to 0 to find it.

So Boyo, be proud of yourself, because you've come to a realisation that many people here still have to.

I wish you all the goods, and luck to continue your journey. This journal should be stickied by the way. I think there's noone here who would not be able to find at least one update that is useful to his inner game. Because what you are talking about is not just what good inner game is, but you also give a pointer for people on how to start the road, and how to systematically improve themselves.

Respect, and Regards,

In$tinct

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Hi guys, just adding this post i made to my "database" of Pick up knowledge

asking-them-to-do-you-a-favour-will-mak ... hilit=boyo

In$tinct! It is great to hear from you again, indeed i have. Most old of friends don't recognize me, and the new people don't believe me when i describe the old me

Agreed mate, I have gained a profound interest in the psychology of the human mind, i truly think it is the most valuable thing you can have in your arsenal talents. Learning how people work and how to socialise correctly, is an limitless ability. Studying this has allowed me to gain a deep understand of myself, and others.

"I also came across threads where guys were talking about how it was a bad thing to "settle for 5s and 6s". I didn't even understand the whole thing. Yes... I understand some guys are so insecure that the first girl they meet and is interested will just do it as a girlfriend. But this behaviour is exactly as bad if the girl is a 10. It's completely irrelevant how she looks like. If you don't know what you want, you have a practical chance close to 0 to find it."

-Agreed mate, the unfortunate truth is its extremely difficult and rare to find an absolutely stunning girl, with a your perfect personality, simply because as she goes through childhood, she will likely have all the attention that good looks attract, that attention then bends her personality in a certain direction that generally matches the stereotypical blonde bimbo scenario.

Now obviously that above comment is EXTREMELY vague and it doesn't happen to every girl. I hope however my point comes across, a girl with an amazing personality is ridiculously rare, highly competitive and probably already taken. - This isn't to say you should give up of course, however you should definitely give those 6 and 7's a go, they will mostly likely make you laugh much harder than those 9's!

Thank you for your support mate. The whole point of this journal was to pass on my knoweldge and experience to others!

Regards,

Boyo

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Just a small update on a little guide i'm making myself. Upon going back out and game, i got a few number closes, however my game was nowhere near where it used to be. Looking back, i remember most of the material. However knowing and applying are different things.

Therefore here is my quick notebook guide to read just before/as you're on a night out to refresh the memory, (its only a draft at the moment and subject to amendment):

“The Guide”

Build state of mind. + energy level.

Don't look like you're on the prowl, if anything ignore the women and focus on your mates!

Oppose your frame to the other men in the room. (if they're acting like mr super cool, you be high energy mr sociable etc..)

Work the room.

Maximise opening opportunities

The Three Musketeers- (Mr Sociable, Mr Comfort, Mr Seducer)

Cold and warm openers (point/stick tongue at eye contact)

Direct and indirect openers (you're gorgeous/ how old do i look)

Remember your body language when opening (slightly aside, open gesture)

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