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| bestisyettocome | PostPosted: Thu Mar 21, 2013 5:38 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Nov 26, 2011 2:09 am Posts: 16 | | Hey I keep noticing missed opportunities, like my brain just isn't working fast enough.
Like the other day I pass by a woman at the office, we smile and say hi to each other and then 30 seconds later realize I could have tried to chat her up a bit, introduce myself, mention that I hadn't seen her around in a while because she moved offices etc.
Anyway, I keep realizing later that I've blown situations by not escalating.
Is it just practice or can something else help?
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| Testicles | PostPosted: Thu Mar 21, 2013 5:45 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Thu Mar 14, 2013 8:24 am Posts: 99 Yahoo Messenger: mindlesskindness Location: Romania | | Practice and instinct. Once you get used to approach women and act a certain way, it will eventually become natural.
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| Mr. Assertive | PostPosted: Thu Mar 21, 2013 5:51 pm | |
| Offline | | Ask a mod for a custom title |  | Joined: Sun Nov 27, 2011 3:23 am Posts: 3488 | | at least you know you aren't competent in this area. Now that you know, you can easily make small attainable goals until you do it without even thinking about it. I was in your shoes before. Dedicate some time to doing the little things. Talk, approach, eye contact, smile, etc.
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