Hi All, This is a new type of game for me im normally more or a Mystery method guy with much success on a fairly regular basis, but was reading some stuff the other day bout just taking what the hell you want hold nothing back and i decided to apply it to my game...

Back ground knew this girl a few years ago we where close had some laughs nothing happened, she moved to wales havn't really seen her since, we flirt a little online but nothing ever comes from it and last time i planned a visit like months ago she cancelled on me

so i decided to use her a test subject, heres the convo let me know what u think i should have done differently?

ME
Wuu2? Dork

her
nm u

ME
Party at mates place, gunna be blunt with you cause being nice don't work... U need to come.to.*my town* party hard come.back to mine for amazing sex hours on end and start a.new life with a new flat everyone in *my town* misses ya

(LONG PAUSE)

ME
Phahahaha leave u lost for words

HER
Yh

ME
Well ?

HER
I duno

ME
Bout time u had someone who knew what he wanted...bout time u got what you wanted

HER
It'll never happen

ME
If u don't step and take it u will never get what you want

HER
I no

ME
Then why you scared ?

HER
I don't know

ME
Because it's a rare thing someone tells you what he wants

HER
Mayb

ME
I no you ain't used to me like this but fucking life is to short and I have no appologies

HER
I no x

ME
What you got to loose

HER
Nout

ME
Job? School ? Nothing ?

HER
Only a 6 month course

ME
I'll get you next Friday

HER
??

ME
And show you how to fight for what you want

HER
I have my couse 4 the next 6 months tho

ME
Show you what I want for the weekend x

HER
I cant

ME
You will be back for Monday

ME
Live a little

that was it she read the message never replied and have no contact since? what you think should be my next move and still hold this attitude?

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Passed Mysterys 5 for 5 infield mPUA challenge, now looking into other games e.g. day, txt, online etc...
P.I.M.P.
Personality, Initiate, Maturity, Passion...

convincing a woman never works...

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pointers for future? to me it sounded like it actually crossed her mind then resistance kicked in and in this persona, i wouldn't know how to handle shit tests

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Never take a chance, in missing a chance....
Passed Mysterys 5 for 5 infield mPUA challenge, now looking into other games e.g. day, txt, online etc...
P.I.M.P.
Personality, Initiate, Maturity, Passion...

It failed because you were using logic to convince a woman, the text exchange almost became an argument. Nothing dries a woman's vagina quicker than an argument. Women make decisions based on their emotions, not logic. Also if you haven't seen this girl in a while, she's probably a bit freaked out by all of this out of the blue.

You should've just invited her out and then physically escalated with her in person. Or at least made the text conversation more spontaneous and adventurous. "YOLO" is not exactly adventurous.

The key here is being congruent. If you knew her before and you were never blunt and sexual, suddenly being aggressive via sexting is not congruent with your character. You admitted yourself you wouldn't know what to do if she calls you out and shit tests you. Be yourself. If you're not naturally an aggressive badboy, don't try to be. Girls can spot BS on a guy quicker than any guy can.

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eh, being yourself isn't what he needs. He has to earn his right to be himself by constantly improving and being the better man. Whatever his true self is better be a lot better than that ^. The problem I see with this interaction is that it seems that N1ck, you don't have alot of rapport with the girl and she is refusing your advances because of it. Also, your attraction can use a bit of work. There is nothing in your texts that elicit a great time or why she should use a weekend on you.

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