So here are a few things I noticed in my game that I'd like some help with. So if you can please give me the best advice possibly with my sticking points.

- Not having many DHV stories
- Not displaying the right qualities about myself to a girl. (What qualities should I display to her and how?)
- Her being very attracted to me, than slowly losing it.
- Being to needy and desperate (even though I hv other girls).
Like I don't push/pull enough or don't know what to say to in order to do it.
- She's not comfortable being affectionate with me or wanting me I.e. constantly texting/calling me.
- Big issue: I don't know what my goal should be when talking to her, do I push/pull? DHV? Joke around? Sometimes I'm clueless on what my mission should be. I hope you understand.

Please comment on each of the issues I raised up I really need some feedback - thanks guys!

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- Not having many DHV stories

Get out there and experience life. Be proactive. Experiences will come when you choose to have them

- Not displaying the right qualities about myself to a girl. (What qualities should I display to her and how?)

Just reread attraction material for this one. Essentially you want to work on yourself and you will display attractive natural qualities.

- Her being very attracted to me, than slowly losing it.

This can be tied to the problems you have with displaying the right qualities in the first place. You aren't too sure of yourself and you can't keep growing. A man that is more attractive the next day will keep the girl interested and attracted.

- Being to needy and desperate (even though I hv other girls).
Like I don't push/pull enough or don't know what to say to in order to do it.

Once again, all tied to attraction. Work from the inside and out and you will kill your needy and desperate vibe..

- She's not comfortable being affectionate with me or wanting me I.e. constantly texting/calling me.

Because you are not comfortable with yourself. She senses that there is something off about you. Something you are hiding.

- Big issue: I don't know what my goal should be when talking to her, do I push/pull? DHV? Joke around? Sometimes I'm clueless on what my mission should be. I hope you understand.

You must have a goal before talking to her. Why are you talking to her? Because you are just being friendly and social? Because you want to take her home? Because you see her as a potential romantic interest? There should be a point in a conversation.

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From what you are saying you seem to be analyzing too much.

I'm sure you have DHV stories somewhere in your memory. It sounds like you are trying to force these all these qualities you mention from yourself instead of making interactions flow.

Just go out and day game as many girls , talk to as many people as possible get your social skills up and you will find that everything will fall into place and when opportunities arise you will understand what to do and when to do it.

I have gotten great results personally when doing this. Try going to a bar/club by yourself and trying to make friends with a social group. It is difficult but you will find that your social skills improve dramatically and you become the center of attention.

Forget about dhv stories and trying to impress, that shit don't work... 2.- you should display who you are without being needy and chasing. 3.- you are trying to hard, let shit flow!
4.- the calling and texting is needy=turn off/kills attraction
5.- the goal should be to not be outcome dependant, stop trying so hard.
6.- i would recommend for you to get the book models by mark manson, and 60 years of challenge. Also follow my blog.

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Thanks for the advice guys. It's very hard to phrase exactly what I'm struggling with - but I'm trying my best.

Mr. Assertive: it seems most of my issues stem from not demonstrating or not doing Attraction right. If you can please point me in the right direction on possibly some material/sites that explain attraction the way you understand it.

Skill360: If you can, elaborate on your 4th point I didn't understand it very well. The rest was all helpful. Especially on not trying so hard.

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yea i made a mistake neediness kills attraction... Trying to impress is a form of neediness.

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So are you saying I should call or text a lot?
Also what should I say/demonstrate to a girl to make her attractive to me

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dude, i say NOT to call or text a lot should be 50/50 follow some of my blog, get models mark manson, and then 60 yoc... Your fundamentals are wrong.

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