Basically I know this cute girl, but she's about an hour and 30 minutes away from me so I met up with her at a mall in a distance that's equal to us. So I'm trying to find places that would be good for a first date, like we'd have something to talk about, yet have intimacy.

I'm in the US on the east, so the weather is between cold to almost normal. So the weather is not 100% hot yet. (Keep that in mind). She's an actress if that helps at all, smart and creative.

Keep on mind it's a bit of a drive so the places in going have to hv the logistics straight, it's not like I can go there for no reason and see its a good environment and go back home.

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Theme park, you've got to kino when getting on most rides, and its a fun day out, find one inbetween you and her and suggest that.


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Thanks for your help. In the area I'm going to they don't have any theme parks or anything like that. So if you can please offer up some more ideas.

Also I don't really wanna pay tons of money every time I see someone so please offer things that won't cost a lot

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What is the area like? What is there to do?

Believe it or not I took this French foreign chick with me to pick up some alcohol and some food once. I considered that spending quality time. I did make sure to have fun with whatever was on our way. For example, inside the store there were little toys with little fans, and I just picked it up and told her this was her birthday present. She of course rolled her eyes at my childish behavior playfully but I was intent on showcasing my playful abilities.


Use your environment to your advantage. Think outside the box here.

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Well I mean I just sort of need random idea's and a lot of them. The state I'm in is more of a country town, but I'd need like a lot of idea's that don't cost a lot of money. Like the last time I went with her we checked out a mall. It was free.

So just shout out some interesting places: e.g. Restuarant, billards, art gallery - etc.

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Ice cream and a walk. I am not really familiar with the country so I can't really go in depth. From the country girls I have dated have told me stories of going by a river, playing in the park, visiting a cabin, scavenging in the woods, bonfire, hiking, and other outdoor things.

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Those sound interesting..
But my country I mean, my states now technologically advanced, like Ny is. The weather here (on the east) is still cold around 40 degrees - so we're not quite ready for out door activity. So please come up with muon door stuff.

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What you want is some enjoyable time together followed by intimacy.

For date ideas, there are obviously countless things you can do. Going for a walk as suggested above is a good idea (regardless of the weather). You've already been on one date so you could probably take her to see a movie. Nothing wrong with shopping with her either.

But what you really want is some intimate time to perform kino. Well, get her in your car and drive to a somewhat but not too secluded yet romantic area. Make sure it's night out. Put on some music. There's your intimacy. You can escalate in your front seats. Then suggest to cuddle in the back. Make sure you've created the right amount of tension before inviting her to the backseat. It should be warm enough where you are to cuddle in the backseat. If not, keep your engine running and the heat on.

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Thanks for the suggestion. I'll try and see a movie with her since she's an actress. But, I can't pick her up because she's like an 1 and 30 minutes away. So how could I get her in the car a the theatre and drive away from there where her car would still remain??

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Meet her at the movie theatre. And after the movie, tell her to get in your car... Simple. You're the boss. You lead. You tell her.

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