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PostPosted: Tue Mar 05, 2013 10:36 pm 
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reason I am divorced is because I have no kids and she wants no kids, we are stil friends but live apart and will never see each other again, no hard feelings

I always hate telling people that and have lied or left it to the point it would be awkward to tell them. It's such a negative word but it's the truth, how do I handle it?


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 06, 2013 1:07 am 
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Just be honest and up front. Phrase it in a positive light.

There is something to be said about being experienced, mature etc. I've seen a lot of cases where women are more attracted to divorced men because they assume he has no unrealistic expectations of a relationship. Its not that often that you get to marry somebody that already has experience in marriage, it can be a good thing if you let it.


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 06, 2013 2:18 am 
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Dude I was in the exact same position a year ago. I had been married 5 years, no kids and no hard feelings. And I also didn't like the idea of telling people I was divorced. If you are just picking up girls and it's nothing serious, then rather than lie about it, don't bring it up unless she asks. If she asks tell her the truth. It's only a POTENTIAL turn-off for women looking for a serious boyfriend / husband. Some women see it as a good thing, because it shows you're not afraid of commitment. Don't make the mistake of talking about your ex, I know how hard it is to adjust to single life after being married, but talking about your ex (even if it's relevant to the conversation) may come across like you haven't got over her.


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 06, 2013 3:13 am 
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If it comes up in conversation. If it does and you don't feel like talking about it you can simply just say tell her your are divorced and then "Yeah, it didn't just didn't work out" and move on to a different topic.

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 06, 2013 5:33 am 
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I think you just tell the truth to all the person because when you lie about your relation there comes more question in their mind and they ask for more.So how much you lie with peoples.SO its better to say truth and try to face the situation with confidence.

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 06, 2013 8:58 am 
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Do you have to tell them your divorced? If you and your ex-wife no longer live with each other, and you have not affiliation with her what so ever, then I fail to see why you have to mention that you're divorced in the first place. Keep it simple and just don't bring it up.


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