Hey there fellas,
Im not sure im going to be welcomed on this board being a female but im posting here to gather some advice/tips from males as it will be beneficial to my questions...

im a 24 year old female, whose currently working and knows where she is going in life. I am heavily tattooed but still quite feminine and attractive and ive been told this by a number of people. I have recently been trying the online dating scene like POF as im after a decent guy, whose attractive and going places in life and interested in relationship....however i havent had much luck as i only seem to be attracting guys who only want me for 1 thing...and this isnt just online it seems to be happening offline aswell...The age group of these men is 21-27

So my question how can i make myself gf material or make a guy want me for more then just sex. i have morals so im not just going to sleep with a guy to get him to stick around.....
Also how do you guys like your women to dress? im a pretty casual person always in jeans or shorts and tanks or nice tops but it would be great to know what you consider to be classy?

Also would you consider a girl approaching a guy as desperate? i seem to be getting mixed responses on this but id like your input because i would love to go up to a hot guy on the street and approach him but i dont want to come off as an idiot if he has a gf or something....

Thanks lots!

1. dont ever change yourself for someone you dont even met yet. dress what you like to dress. do what u love 2 do.
2. if you approach gamer type guy ... he would think hes game is fucking awesome and think ur a easy game.
3. read why men love bitches (book) ... its fucking annoying book, if girls do that stuffs to me I would go nuts.


and IMO online dating is full of chodest chode (desperate, needy nice guy) and players whos looking for easy lay.

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Send a message to one of the moderators on this site. I think there is a female membership for you.

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I love when a women approaches me, shows confidence and an outgoing demeanor. Just make sure that after the initial opening you do some things to show that you have some control.

You seem like a strong woman who believes in herself. Don't be afraid to throw yourself out there.

However, I will add, I really kind of feel bad for women these days. There are some LAME ASS guys out there and there are some really good guys out there who don't know what it takes to come up to you and sweep you off your feet. This planet is going to shit lol

The fact that you are tattooed and actually say your are attractive alone allows me to go ahead and assume you actually are an attractive woman. If you know what you want, girl, go out and get it. A little cat fight never hurt anyone any ways right?

Honestly, there ARE certain things on this forum that might help you (just look what some guys on here are talking about. We sound like fuckin robots with some terminology and lingo but that's so our nemesis cannot understand our attacks muwahahah!

Start learning social dynamics especially. Learn how to read peoples body language so when you feel him trying to make a move, you might be able to help guide him through it. There are some good threads on here about something called Kino (touching) as well. Kino is a huge part of a relationship and if you understand what a guy is doing then you will ultimately have the ability to maintain control of the process until you feel comfortable having sex with him. Demand the same things out of a man that you demand from yourself and you, little lady, will have yourself a happy relationship with a guy that is perfect for your chosen life path.

Allow him to feel like you are chasing... most guys who are involved in pick-up (and I'll bet most who aren't too) kinda like girls chasing after us. oh... but don't be too easy

Thanks for tips so far!
I have another question, what can i say when i start approaching them without coming across as creepy/desperate? haha ive never really approached before so im just unsure what to say? especially if they turn around and say they have a "gf"

If ur attractive and if guys say they have gf
is usually defensive mechanics are talking.

I afraid ur really gonna have a bad time. Ur attractive
And confident woman. Which needs truly real alpha male
To keep you. The guys u found out hot in street might turn
Out to be insecure chumps. I wish u best.

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Opener that will work for any guy, anywhere:

Walk up with a nice smile and say "Hi there!"

POF is a hookup website. No guys on that site are looking for a relationship. The online sites that do have guys looking for relationships are Match and Eharmony but there will still be a few guys on there looking to hookup.

If a woman comes up to me, I think its hot. To me you would come across as knowing what you want and a woman to have less drama in her life.

I think tattoos are sexy when they are in strategicly placed areas. Strategicly meaning showing them off in casual moments and being able to cover them up at times when it calls for it.

I enjoy the moldest but sexy look in women also. Women that know how to dress sexy without being slutty. One's that know how to show just the right amount of skin to keeps you wondering but not to much that you've seen to much and loose interest.